okay..well i was wondering if i could have a black sash around my waiste on a ivory dress. ( my wedding colors are pink,red and orange...dont say anything bad, im a florist ..i trust myself lol. ) So black isnt anywhere in my wedding but i really love that look. Also, what dress type will look good on me. Im only 5'4 and weight 150lbs. (really curvy)
What dress!?
black %26amp; ivory go fine together. very classy. try it on it the store %26amp; see. A-line dresses are always flattering too.
Reply:Wear a dress that shows all your curves. If you want a black sash, go for it. Interior designers all say each room should have a touch of black as it grounds the room, so it's OK to add to your wedding. I imagine all the men will be in black, so black is already in the wedding.
Reply:you said that you trust yourself. if you like that look, then go for it. black goes with everything. depending on what type of bouquet your will have and how you will carry it, your flowers would look stunning against the black sash. if someone has a problem with it tell them to kiss it.
its your wedding. you can do what you want.
Reply:I think you should skip the black sash...and by the way I love your colors... I'm sure they'll look stunning next to your flowers. The most flattering dress type is A-line, esp. for curvy figures. Best wishes!!!
Reply:i really wouldn't do black on the ivory. i would take one of the colors that you have chosen and use that as a sash around the waist line. but if you have an a line dress (which really is flattering) then i would do it at the bottom of the dress. that way it won't draw attention the the curvy hips and bust. you could have it around the top of the dress as well if you are doing strapless.
Reply:Your size and weight isn't enough to let us know exactly what will suit you. Halter necks are always nice but there are just so many different styles and so many different body shapes - it just depends! Do you have a piccy or anything?
As far as the sash goes, could you add a black sash to the bridesmaids and maybe on the bouquets to tie it all in? I am guessing the men will be in black so I think it would go quite nicely.
Reply:I love your wedding colors! Anyway, I don't think the sash would look right unless you include black elsewhere in the wedding. Maybe tie black ribbon around the bouquet or something. I think an A-line dress would be very flattering on you. That is the type of dress I got and I have the same type of body...it makes your waist look small and I like that! This is the one I got and I am wearing a coral colored sash...
Reply:ooohhhh I think it sounds nice!
Reply:Not really fond of an ivory dress with a black sash.
Keep the ivory and forget the black sash!
Reply:Listed below are a few dresses that fit what you are looking for. My friend and i were about the same size as listed above and we were curvy in different ways me on top her on the bottom so i picked thing that would look good on top curvy and some for bottom curvey. Good luck with your wedding dress shearch.
Reply:As long as the men are wearing some sort of black, your dress will match with their attire. Have you thought about the girls wearing black and white too? I had my girls wear black and white and then had very vibrant colored flowers...fushia, yallow, purple, dark pink, yellow, etc. Looked awesome.
Friday, May 21, 2010
HELP! Am I missing anything...?
I plan on getting married in December. I just wanna make sure I have everything, at least the basics. We're having a small wedding for now until we can afford a bigger one later on. I know I'll need musicians, a florist, a baker, and someone to record (video) and take pictures. Maybe ushers and a caterer (for food). Can anyone think of anything else I may need? Thank you guys! =] Also what are some cool food ideas?
HELP! Am I missing anything...?
Gown
wedding bands
Wedding license
Limo or car
Honeymoon
MOH and Best Man
Guest list
Venue
Church or JOP
FOOD and drinks
China, silverware, linens, napkins
Reply:Well, you're missing the fact that you only have ONE wedding, so make this one the one you want! It's silly to think you can have "another one" later.... what are you thinking?
Other considerations - booking someone to perform the ceremony, wedding attire for couple and attendants, readings for ceremony, decorations...
For food, go with a traditional buffet for dinner - you can choose several entrees - like a roast (usually beef is best, or pork) and turkey or ham.... or specialty entrees if that's your thing; hot veggies, assorted salads; marinated veggies, some sort of potato dish, like roasted baby potatoes; cheeses, pickles, buns; variety of desserts.
Good luck!
Reply:And officiant is the most important thing that you need to get married!
Reply:An officiant and possibly a DJ if you don't have someone to play music. A place to have your wedding. Invitations. Bridal party. License. Food depends on your time of day and theme. You could always do ham or turkey since those are generally on sale around then. A traditional family dinner type thing would be neat since it is around Christmas. You could also do comfort foods..things that make you feel warm. Best of luck.
Reply:Try going to the website for Brides magazine..they have checklists for what to do 6 months ahead, 3 months, ahead..etc...
Reply:So I am guessing you have a place to get married and a person to do it? And you have a place for the reception, do you have linens for your tables? If you have a cater are they going to provide the tableware ( dishes , forks). What about drinks? Have you orded invites? What about a dress and tux? Do you have bridemaids and groomsmen, cause you will need to get them gifts. What about the rehersal dinner, and who all is coming.
Reply:You'll want to look into an officiant and place to host the ceremony. Don't forget the small thing as well, like invitations, favors (if you plan to have them), rehersal dinner, etc.
Also, you may need to rent china, silverware, glasses, linens, chairs %26amp; tables. So keep in mind what's included when you book your halls/locations for reception %26amp; ceremony.
As far as food is concerned--what time of day you have the wedding can play a big part in what you need to serve. For an early morning affair a brunch buffett can be economical and classy. Think along the lines of quiche, fresh fruit platters, chicken salad on croissants, green salads with light dressings, an assortment of muffins. This can also be a big saver on a bar tab-bloody mary's and mimosas!
For an afternoon reception, you can consider light appetizers, or just cake and champagne/punch. An early evening cocktail hour is a great alternative as well.
What about a tapas reception? Then you can serve Sangria. mmmmm...sangria :)
Also, there are a lot of websites out there for brides that are free membership and offer checklists for planning. Try www.theknot.com or www.brides.com. You can always copy and paste the list and delete anything you're not planning on.
Reply:1) A BUDGET!!!!! Weddings get out of control quick sit down with the fiance, parents and figure out how much you have to spend on the wedding then list what is important to you in order. The more important things get taken care of first and then find ways to save on the less important things.
2) Dress
3) Selection of bridesmaids %26amp; groomsmen
4) Invitations, Save the Date cards, RSVP cards
5) Location
6) Officiant (pastor, priest, rabbi....etc.)
Reply:honey you have forgotten about one important thing. A PASTOR.
Reply:Who will be providing the table settings? the over lays, napkins, the chair covers, plates, glasses.... Just because your having it caterer doesnt always mean that they bring their stuff. Ok not what about center piece??? flowers???
for flowers if your on a budget try this place
http://wedideas.com
they do amazing work. As for food ideas, seriously, little hole in the wall places are the best. They're not in a rush, and they make it all about what you want. if you need help with anything else e-mail me addy is in the profile
Reply:Invitations, officiant (pastor, jp, priest), tailor (for alterations to your dress), DJ.
Hors d'oeurves: fruit shish kabobs, mini sandwiches, cookie table
Dessert: pie, ice cream sundae bar, candy station with little boxes so that people can pick out what candies they want to take home
american football shoes
HELP! Am I missing anything...?
Gown
wedding bands
Wedding license
Limo or car
Honeymoon
MOH and Best Man
Guest list
Venue
Church or JOP
FOOD and drinks
China, silverware, linens, napkins
Reply:Well, you're missing the fact that you only have ONE wedding, so make this one the one you want! It's silly to think you can have "another one" later.... what are you thinking?
Other considerations - booking someone to perform the ceremony, wedding attire for couple and attendants, readings for ceremony, decorations...
For food, go with a traditional buffet for dinner - you can choose several entrees - like a roast (usually beef is best, or pork) and turkey or ham.... or specialty entrees if that's your thing; hot veggies, assorted salads; marinated veggies, some sort of potato dish, like roasted baby potatoes; cheeses, pickles, buns; variety of desserts.
Good luck!
Reply:And officiant is the most important thing that you need to get married!
Reply:An officiant and possibly a DJ if you don't have someone to play music. A place to have your wedding. Invitations. Bridal party. License. Food depends on your time of day and theme. You could always do ham or turkey since those are generally on sale around then. A traditional family dinner type thing would be neat since it is around Christmas. You could also do comfort foods..things that make you feel warm. Best of luck.
Reply:Try going to the website for Brides magazine..they have checklists for what to do 6 months ahead, 3 months, ahead..etc...
Reply:So I am guessing you have a place to get married and a person to do it? And you have a place for the reception, do you have linens for your tables? If you have a cater are they going to provide the tableware ( dishes , forks). What about drinks? Have you orded invites? What about a dress and tux? Do you have bridemaids and groomsmen, cause you will need to get them gifts. What about the rehersal dinner, and who all is coming.
Reply:You'll want to look into an officiant and place to host the ceremony. Don't forget the small thing as well, like invitations, favors (if you plan to have them), rehersal dinner, etc.
Also, you may need to rent china, silverware, glasses, linens, chairs %26amp; tables. So keep in mind what's included when you book your halls/locations for reception %26amp; ceremony.
As far as food is concerned--what time of day you have the wedding can play a big part in what you need to serve. For an early morning affair a brunch buffett can be economical and classy. Think along the lines of quiche, fresh fruit platters, chicken salad on croissants, green salads with light dressings, an assortment of muffins. This can also be a big saver on a bar tab-bloody mary's and mimosas!
For an afternoon reception, you can consider light appetizers, or just cake and champagne/punch. An early evening cocktail hour is a great alternative as well.
What about a tapas reception? Then you can serve Sangria. mmmmm...sangria :)
Also, there are a lot of websites out there for brides that are free membership and offer checklists for planning. Try www.theknot.com or www.brides.com. You can always copy and paste the list and delete anything you're not planning on.
Reply:1) A BUDGET!!!!! Weddings get out of control quick sit down with the fiance, parents and figure out how much you have to spend on the wedding then list what is important to you in order. The more important things get taken care of first and then find ways to save on the less important things.
2) Dress
3) Selection of bridesmaids %26amp; groomsmen
4) Invitations, Save the Date cards, RSVP cards
5) Location
6) Officiant (pastor, priest, rabbi....etc.)
Reply:honey you have forgotten about one important thing. A PASTOR.
Reply:Who will be providing the table settings? the over lays, napkins, the chair covers, plates, glasses.... Just because your having it caterer doesnt always mean that they bring their stuff. Ok not what about center piece??? flowers???
for flowers if your on a budget try this place
http://wedideas.com
they do amazing work. As for food ideas, seriously, little hole in the wall places are the best. They're not in a rush, and they make it all about what you want. if you need help with anything else e-mail me addy is in the profile
Reply:Invitations, officiant (pastor, jp, priest), tailor (for alterations to your dress), DJ.
Hors d'oeurves: fruit shish kabobs, mini sandwiches, cookie table
Dessert: pie, ice cream sundae bar, candy station with little boxes so that people can pick out what candies they want to take home
american football shoes
I feel like i'm so behind. I'm overwhelmed. HELP!?
I'm getting married June 13th, so far i have the following done
1.ceremony and reception site (cliff and old lodge by the cliff)
2.wedding night hotel (cabin about a mile from the lodge)
3.flowers(my mother used to be a florist, but i don't have the flowers ordered yet)
4.food (friend manages a restaurant, and wants to start a catering business, so she's doing for just the cost of food)
5.photographer (art major friend of mine)
6.videographer (friend that owns a video/photography business)
7.bridesmaids dresses (got them for $15 a piece!-they had broken zippers)
i don't have:
dress
cake
chairs, tables and rental decorations
officiant (sp?)
save-the-date cards
invitations
how i want the reception or ceremony decorated
hair/makeup booked
guest list finalized
i think that's it. did i forget anything? my fiance and i are just so busy that we can never find time to go and book things, and my mom live 2 hours away. i feel like i'm doing everything by myself.
I feel like i'm so behind. I'm overwhelmed. HELP!?
sFirst...blink and take a breath. NOW, some of these things can be done "long distance'. Send an SOS to your ( and his) mom for help. His mom may jump at the chance to help-especially if she has no daughters to look forward to helping. Congrats...it will all work out for you.
Reply:Well I can tell you I'm also planning for June and you're WAY ahead of me. And I'm wondering now if I should be panicking LOL!
I relate to you though, my mom's all the way across the country and none of my gf's are married so they don't know either. Ugh! Only person I can ask is pregnant and already has 2 small ones to look after. I don't want to burden her.
So hopefully knowing that you are WAAAAY ahead of some of the other June brides out there will help you.
We have a tenative date... no venue... tentative guestlist only, ummm... tentative budget... basically it's still up in the air. I'm starting to wonder if it's not better to elope!
Reply:RELAX- it's your wedding!!! Things can get overwhelming- I planned my own wedding last July. Everything will be perfect as long as you have someone helping you- even just over seeing that you remember everything. The wedding itself will go by so fast and it's going to be the best day of your life!!! Set some goals- follow up a couple of months before hand! Good luck!
Reply:Dont worry. It sounds like you have a good amount done so far. The next thing I woudl do is get your dress...as some take a while to order. I bought mine in July and I'm still waiting on it!
Save the dates should go out soon, but those are pretty easy...of course you need to finish your guest list first(the biggest pain in the butt!)
I think everything else you have some time on. I'd look into rentals and the cake soon and I guess it depends on your hairdresser/makeup and how quickly they get booked up.
Don't worry though you're not as behind as you think! it will all work out great! Congrats!
Reply:i would definitely get on the dress thing!
Reply:Ok, don't panic!
Talk to your bloke
Make a list of everything and tick off all you have done, that way you can see how much you have done already
Ask your mum to come visit and to help
But mostly don't panic - you have ages!
Reply:Well, I think its normal for you to feel overwhelmed because the date is sneeking up on you . . . . . . . . .
the save-the-date cards should already have been sent out: usually 1 yr in advance. You can send them out NOW and they may serve their purpose, although you don't have the guest list finalized.
the invitations are usually sent out 6-8 weeks in advance
and do you have music?? a DJ???
Its too bad you don't have a friend in the "wedding planner" business . . . . . . . I would try to recruit some help, maybe your bridal party?? Matron of Honor????
Good Luck!
Reply:Well the first thing that I would do is start shopping for your wedding gown. Most gowns take 4-6 months to order...
If you can afford it, hire a wedding coordinator. They help to take a lot of the stress off of you.
Your mom might live two hours away, but I am sure she can help by picking up the phone and calling around some places for you. You can also ask your bridesmaids to help you out with some of the details.
1.ceremony and reception site (cliff and old lodge by the cliff)
2.wedding night hotel (cabin about a mile from the lodge)
3.flowers(my mother used to be a florist, but i don't have the flowers ordered yet)
4.food (friend manages a restaurant, and wants to start a catering business, so she's doing for just the cost of food)
5.photographer (art major friend of mine)
6.videographer (friend that owns a video/photography business)
7.bridesmaids dresses (got them for $15 a piece!-they had broken zippers)
i don't have:
dress
cake
chairs, tables and rental decorations
officiant (sp?)
save-the-date cards
invitations
how i want the reception or ceremony decorated
hair/makeup booked
guest list finalized
i think that's it. did i forget anything? my fiance and i are just so busy that we can never find time to go and book things, and my mom live 2 hours away. i feel like i'm doing everything by myself.
I feel like i'm so behind. I'm overwhelmed. HELP!?
sFirst...blink and take a breath. NOW, some of these things can be done "long distance'. Send an SOS to your ( and his) mom for help. His mom may jump at the chance to help-especially if she has no daughters to look forward to helping. Congrats...it will all work out for you.
Reply:Well I can tell you I'm also planning for June and you're WAY ahead of me. And I'm wondering now if I should be panicking LOL!
I relate to you though, my mom's all the way across the country and none of my gf's are married so they don't know either. Ugh! Only person I can ask is pregnant and already has 2 small ones to look after. I don't want to burden her.
So hopefully knowing that you are WAAAAY ahead of some of the other June brides out there will help you.
We have a tenative date... no venue... tentative guestlist only, ummm... tentative budget... basically it's still up in the air. I'm starting to wonder if it's not better to elope!
Reply:RELAX- it's your wedding!!! Things can get overwhelming- I planned my own wedding last July. Everything will be perfect as long as you have someone helping you- even just over seeing that you remember everything. The wedding itself will go by so fast and it's going to be the best day of your life!!! Set some goals- follow up a couple of months before hand! Good luck!
Reply:Dont worry. It sounds like you have a good amount done so far. The next thing I woudl do is get your dress...as some take a while to order. I bought mine in July and I'm still waiting on it!
Save the dates should go out soon, but those are pretty easy...of course you need to finish your guest list first(the biggest pain in the butt!)
I think everything else you have some time on. I'd look into rentals and the cake soon and I guess it depends on your hairdresser/makeup and how quickly they get booked up.
Don't worry though you're not as behind as you think! it will all work out great! Congrats!
Reply:i would definitely get on the dress thing!
Reply:Ok, don't panic!
Talk to your bloke
Make a list of everything and tick off all you have done, that way you can see how much you have done already
Ask your mum to come visit and to help
But mostly don't panic - you have ages!
Reply:Well, I think its normal for you to feel overwhelmed because the date is sneeking up on you . . . . . . . . .
the save-the-date cards should already have been sent out: usually 1 yr in advance. You can send them out NOW and they may serve their purpose, although you don't have the guest list finalized.
the invitations are usually sent out 6-8 weeks in advance
and do you have music?? a DJ???
Its too bad you don't have a friend in the "wedding planner" business . . . . . . . I would try to recruit some help, maybe your bridal party?? Matron of Honor????
Good Luck!
Reply:Well the first thing that I would do is start shopping for your wedding gown. Most gowns take 4-6 months to order...
If you can afford it, hire a wedding coordinator. They help to take a lot of the stress off of you.
Your mom might live two hours away, but I am sure she can help by picking up the phone and calling around some places for you. You can also ask your bridesmaids to help you out with some of the details.
Who gets flowers?
I've got to start interviewing florists soon, and I'm trying to make a list of the flowers I'll need for our wedding. I've got the centerpieces and the bouquets down, but I'm not sure who all is supposed to get a boutineer or corsage. Obviously the groomsmen get boutineers and the mothers get corsages, but who else? I want to have an accurate count so I can figure out my floral budget. Thanks! Oh, and what other arranged bouquets will I need as well? I know I'll need a couple of arrangements for the altar, but what else?
Who gets flowers?
Okay!! Other than your bouquet and the centerpieces on the dinner tables, make sure you have other tables counted as well- if you are doing anything for the buffet table (if you are having one), gift table (ditto), guest book table, etc.
A few arrangements at the altar are nice, also decide if you want to have anything at the end of the pews and if so, are they going to be floral?
Dont'd forget flower petals - for the flower girls (if theyre allowed to drop them), as well as possibly having guests throw them on you (instead of rice, etc.), and possibly decorating tables with them.
For boutonnieres, corsages, and bouquets, you have obviously the bride and groom, then the groomsmen and bridesmaids, and then mothers and fathers. Some people also choose to honor grandparents with corsages/boutonnieres, or any other guests you want to distinguish, such as godparents. It is also very nice to have anyone who is doing something for you in the ceremony, like reading or singing, to have one.
Also decide on if you want flowers or some other topper on your cake.
Oh and if your flower girls arent or cant drop petals, make sure you have something for them - a mini-bouquet or a pomander ball, or something.
And decide if you are planning to throw the bouquet-you may want a smaller, less expensive "tossing" bouquet instead of using your real one if you want to keep/preserve your own.
All of this is optional-you can stick to the bare bones (wedding party and parents) or flesh it out the the rest of this, but there shouldnt be anything I didnt put on the list that is usually done. Don't forget if you want to save money or do things a little differently, you can use silk flowers instead of real ones, you can choose what types of flowers you use-different ones cost A LOT differently, you can have bridesmaids carry candles or flower girls ring bells, etc. You can also get bouquets and boutonnieres made out of swarovski crystals which are really pretty, or you could do non-floral centerpieces (like floating candles, etc). Just some ideas; good luck!!!
Reply:Don't forget the ushers. And congratulations!!!
Reply:You'd be just as married if you had no flowers at all, so the answer is "anyone you'd to whom you'd care to make a gift of flowers." Generally the bride has some sort of bouquet (to later throw) and the groom has some sort of buttonhole blossom. Everything beyond that is really just icing on the cake. If your florist tries to tell you otherwise, tell your florist that Miss Manners says and that he/she is just trying to pad the bill.
Reply:Some brides include the grandparents as well. I think it's a nice gesture.
Good luck
Reply:We did-
Great Aunt (because my grandmothers are passed), his 5 sisters who are not in the wedding, sister's husband not in the wedding, fathers, mothers and the groomsmen and bridesmaids and of coarse us.
Extra- Church flowers- talk to the church about what you need.
Reply:The fathers should get boutineers as well. Otherwise, I think you've got it covered.
Reply:Fathers of the bride and groom should get boutonnieres.
You may want to give boutonnieres and corsages to the grandparents of the bride and groom.
If you or your groom-to-be have godparents you may want to consider giving them boutonnieres and corsages too.
Reply:the florist knows.
Reply:Your bridesmaids, groomsman, the groom and the bride. Then the parents get one, perhaps the grandparents. Don't worry about anyone else.
As far as decorative flowers, I suggest ditching anything that isn't for your reception tables. Flowers are by far one of the biggest wedding rip offs. They cost a lot of money and die. Depending on your church/ceremony site, you may not need additional decor. BTW, I used ProFlowers.com, and they were great.
Reply:The flower girl needs petals. Get a buttonhole for the ring bearer. And the bridesmaids get bouquets.
Reply:A lot of the time bridesmaids get flowers as well. and any other who are in the wedding party like sisters brothers in laws and so forth you really need to know who is going to be part of the ceremony and what not cause they should have flowers and yes your grandparents should have one as well nieces and nephew don't really need then only if they are old enough to have one or ware one
you should also find pictures of flowers and arrangements that you like so you can show the florist what you would like to have
hope this helps and good luck
Reply:A good loving heart is all you need.
Best Wishes
P.S If he comes in late from work and says he had a business meeting.
Make him do 50 push ups and yell out "Yes MAaam" I will obey"
Vitamin C Benefits
Who gets flowers?
Okay!! Other than your bouquet and the centerpieces on the dinner tables, make sure you have other tables counted as well- if you are doing anything for the buffet table (if you are having one), gift table (ditto), guest book table, etc.
A few arrangements at the altar are nice, also decide if you want to have anything at the end of the pews and if so, are they going to be floral?
Dont'd forget flower petals - for the flower girls (if theyre allowed to drop them), as well as possibly having guests throw them on you (instead of rice, etc.), and possibly decorating tables with them.
For boutonnieres, corsages, and bouquets, you have obviously the bride and groom, then the groomsmen and bridesmaids, and then mothers and fathers. Some people also choose to honor grandparents with corsages/boutonnieres, or any other guests you want to distinguish, such as godparents. It is also very nice to have anyone who is doing something for you in the ceremony, like reading or singing, to have one.
Also decide on if you want flowers or some other topper on your cake.
Oh and if your flower girls arent or cant drop petals, make sure you have something for them - a mini-bouquet or a pomander ball, or something.
And decide if you are planning to throw the bouquet-you may want a smaller, less expensive "tossing" bouquet instead of using your real one if you want to keep/preserve your own.
All of this is optional-you can stick to the bare bones (wedding party and parents) or flesh it out the the rest of this, but there shouldnt be anything I didnt put on the list that is usually done. Don't forget if you want to save money or do things a little differently, you can use silk flowers instead of real ones, you can choose what types of flowers you use-different ones cost A LOT differently, you can have bridesmaids carry candles or flower girls ring bells, etc. You can also get bouquets and boutonnieres made out of swarovski crystals which are really pretty, or you could do non-floral centerpieces (like floating candles, etc). Just some ideas; good luck!!!
Reply:Don't forget the ushers. And congratulations!!!
Reply:You'd be just as married if you had no flowers at all, so the answer is "anyone you'd to whom you'd care to make a gift of flowers." Generally the bride has some sort of bouquet (to later throw) and the groom has some sort of buttonhole blossom. Everything beyond that is really just icing on the cake. If your florist tries to tell you otherwise, tell your florist that Miss Manners says and that he/she is just trying to pad the bill.
Reply:Some brides include the grandparents as well. I think it's a nice gesture.
Good luck
Reply:We did-
Great Aunt (because my grandmothers are passed), his 5 sisters who are not in the wedding, sister's husband not in the wedding, fathers, mothers and the groomsmen and bridesmaids and of coarse us.
Extra- Church flowers- talk to the church about what you need.
Reply:The fathers should get boutineers as well. Otherwise, I think you've got it covered.
Reply:Fathers of the bride and groom should get boutonnieres.
You may want to give boutonnieres and corsages to the grandparents of the bride and groom.
If you or your groom-to-be have godparents you may want to consider giving them boutonnieres and corsages too.
Reply:the florist knows.
Reply:Your bridesmaids, groomsman, the groom and the bride. Then the parents get one, perhaps the grandparents. Don't worry about anyone else.
As far as decorative flowers, I suggest ditching anything that isn't for your reception tables. Flowers are by far one of the biggest wedding rip offs. They cost a lot of money and die. Depending on your church/ceremony site, you may not need additional decor. BTW, I used ProFlowers.com, and they were great.
Reply:The flower girl needs petals. Get a buttonhole for the ring bearer. And the bridesmaids get bouquets.
Reply:A lot of the time bridesmaids get flowers as well. and any other who are in the wedding party like sisters brothers in laws and so forth you really need to know who is going to be part of the ceremony and what not cause they should have flowers and yes your grandparents should have one as well nieces and nephew don't really need then only if they are old enough to have one or ware one
you should also find pictures of flowers and arrangements that you like so you can show the florist what you would like to have
hope this helps and good luck
Reply:A good loving heart is all you need.
Best Wishes
P.S If he comes in late from work and says he had a business meeting.
Make him do 50 push ups and yell out "Yes MAaam" I will obey"
Vitamin C Benefits
Math Problem. Help, Pleaseee.?
Joanne works for a florist. She needs to estimate how many flowers to order for 12 wedding bouqeets. She did similiar bouqets for two weddings in the past. For on she used 72 roses for 5 similar bouets and for the other, she made 16 similar bouqets using 243.
How many flowers should Joanna estimate she needs for this wedding?
[show work, please.]
Math Problem. Help, Pleaseee.?
72/5 = 14.4 flowers per bouquet
243/16 = 15.1875 flowers per bouquet
14.4+15.1875=29.5875 total flowers used per bouquet last two times
29.5878/2 = 14.79375 average flowers used per bouquet
Average amount used times bouquets needed
14.79375 * 12 = 177.525 = 178 flowers (rounded up)
Reply:72 + 243= 315
315(I cant do a divide sign) 2= 157.5
157.5 x12=1892
ANSWER:1892
Reply:You are only depriveing yourself if you make us do your work so do us and yourself a favor and do it yourself
How many flowers should Joanna estimate she needs for this wedding?
[show work, please.]
Math Problem. Help, Pleaseee.?
72/5 = 14.4 flowers per bouquet
243/16 = 15.1875 flowers per bouquet
14.4+15.1875=29.5875 total flowers used per bouquet last two times
29.5878/2 = 14.79375 average flowers used per bouquet
Average amount used times bouquets needed
14.79375 * 12 = 177.525 = 178 flowers (rounded up)
Reply:72 + 243= 315
315(I cant do a divide sign) 2= 157.5
157.5 x12=1892
ANSWER:1892
Reply:You are only depriveing yourself if you make us do your work so do us and yourself a favor and do it yourself
Gratuities for D.J's, photographers, etc.?
I am just wondering how much is a good amount to tip the people who will be providing services that day. I don't want to look stupid giving them too much, or even worse - too little!
The people I have are...
D.J - There will be two of them there, I got an amazing deal on their services.
Photographer - Will be present from 5pm at the reception until 12am.
Cake Maker - This lady used to work for a high end bakery, then decided to stay home and have children, works out of her house. She is only charging me about 40% of what I was quoted at most other high end bakeries.
Florist - Do I tip the florist? Send a thank you card? Flowers? LOL ...
Limo driver - ??
Singer/Guitarist - For the wedding ceremony.
Pianist - For the wedding ceremony.
Any help would be appreciated! Thank you!
Gratuities for D.J's, photographers, etc.?
Tipping is definitely optional ... but if you are pleased with the services provided, then a small tip is always nice. Florists, photographers and videographers generally don't get tipped. Other vendors, like the printer who did your invites, also do not get tipped. Most of what they are making off of your purchase is profit so a tip isn't necessary. The DJ, singers, musicians, hair and make-up should all get 5-15% of what they charged - again, if you're super pleased. If you're having a caterer, then the servers usually get $20 each or so.
Reply:Tipping people that you are paying for a service is optional, and not expected. You are already paying them a set fee for their services, so I wouldn't worry about a tip. The limo driver should probably be tipped b/c he probably diesn't own the company, so a tip for him would be nice. The DJ, photographer, florist, and cake maker aren't expecting to be tipped, so it would be optional and up to you. The singer/guitarist and pianist would depend on whether they are professionals that you are paying, or people that have volunteered, if they are friends or family members that are doing it for free, a gift, either money or something like you are giving the wedding party would be a nice gesture. Be sure and have food and drinks for them at the wedding. best wishes!
Reply:15% just like any other service industry. Obviously, don't tip if you aren't satisfied.
Anybody who will be working at the reception should also be provided with a meal and something to drink as well.
The cake maker, you can send a thank you card with the tip and a few wedding pics of the cake to use in her book if you are happy with the work. Same thing with the florist (except of the flowers).
The signer and the pianist for the ceremony, give their tip to the best man so you don't have to come back. If you like come up with some sort of signal that lets him know you weren't happy and don't want him to give the tip, although if the music is that bad I'm sure he will be able to tell on his own.
The people I have are...
D.J - There will be two of them there, I got an amazing deal on their services.
Photographer - Will be present from 5pm at the reception until 12am.
Cake Maker - This lady used to work for a high end bakery, then decided to stay home and have children, works out of her house. She is only charging me about 40% of what I was quoted at most other high end bakeries.
Florist - Do I tip the florist? Send a thank you card? Flowers? LOL ...
Limo driver - ??
Singer/Guitarist - For the wedding ceremony.
Pianist - For the wedding ceremony.
Any help would be appreciated! Thank you!
Gratuities for D.J's, photographers, etc.?
Tipping is definitely optional ... but if you are pleased with the services provided, then a small tip is always nice. Florists, photographers and videographers generally don't get tipped. Other vendors, like the printer who did your invites, also do not get tipped. Most of what they are making off of your purchase is profit so a tip isn't necessary. The DJ, singers, musicians, hair and make-up should all get 5-15% of what they charged - again, if you're super pleased. If you're having a caterer, then the servers usually get $20 each or so.
Reply:Tipping people that you are paying for a service is optional, and not expected. You are already paying them a set fee for their services, so I wouldn't worry about a tip. The limo driver should probably be tipped b/c he probably diesn't own the company, so a tip for him would be nice. The DJ, photographer, florist, and cake maker aren't expecting to be tipped, so it would be optional and up to you. The singer/guitarist and pianist would depend on whether they are professionals that you are paying, or people that have volunteered, if they are friends or family members that are doing it for free, a gift, either money or something like you are giving the wedding party would be a nice gesture. Be sure and have food and drinks for them at the wedding. best wishes!
Reply:15% just like any other service industry. Obviously, don't tip if you aren't satisfied.
Anybody who will be working at the reception should also be provided with a meal and something to drink as well.
The cake maker, you can send a thank you card with the tip and a few wedding pics of the cake to use in her book if you are happy with the work. Same thing with the florist (except of the flowers).
The signer and the pianist for the ceremony, give their tip to the best man so you don't have to come back. If you like come up with some sort of signal that lets him know you weren't happy and don't want him to give the tip, although if the music is that bad I'm sure he will be able to tell on his own.
ANYONE WHO CAN HELp????????????????????
hi there! i have a small florist shop and i wish to do some marketting for my special wedding floral arrangements as well as all occasion bouquets of fresh and dried flowers ...my budget is low . can anyone guide me so as to how do i go about it??
ANYONE WHO CAN HELp????????????????????
First of all, you have to have pictures. Customers want to see what kind of work that your shop is capable of doing.
Only emphasize the best of the best that you have. Our shop used a digital camera and printer to create a brochure for new brides. We then placed an ad in our local traders guide, newspaper, and radio station asking the bride to stop by the shop for a complimentary rose. We gave them the brochure and were able to have some 1 on 1 time with them.
We also gave brides who participated in this way, a 5% discount on their wedding.
Word of mouth is by far the best way to get wedding work....so do more than you are asked to do, price your wedding competitively and you will be busier than you ever thought might be possible.
Reply:take pictures of your arrangements, and have them blown up for displays in your windows, or for flyers to give each customer when visiting your shop, or make them binder size and [with plastic sheet protectors] for customers to look at for ideas...the more pictures the better. [ a good way to set up for picture to be taken is to use a black velvet clothe or another color will be nice.
Reply:The best way on a budget is to join your Chamber of Commerce. In most cases, your membership gives you a monthly ad in the news letters/ catalogs they send out. You can also print flyer's from your PC, you can save in the long run doing them yourself. Save your old ink cartridges, take them to Office Max and get free paper for doing so, and make more flyer's. You can also get ink cartridges on E-bay really really cheap.... Best of Luck....
Reply:Vistaprint.com is a great place to get some low cost brochures or flyers made up. They have templates but you can upload your own photos of your arrangements. You can distribute those yourself or have them put into the local newspaper. Do you have a website?
ANYONE WHO CAN HELp????????????????????
First of all, you have to have pictures. Customers want to see what kind of work that your shop is capable of doing.
Only emphasize the best of the best that you have. Our shop used a digital camera and printer to create a brochure for new brides. We then placed an ad in our local traders guide, newspaper, and radio station asking the bride to stop by the shop for a complimentary rose. We gave them the brochure and were able to have some 1 on 1 time with them.
We also gave brides who participated in this way, a 5% discount on their wedding.
Word of mouth is by far the best way to get wedding work....so do more than you are asked to do, price your wedding competitively and you will be busier than you ever thought might be possible.
Reply:take pictures of your arrangements, and have them blown up for displays in your windows, or for flyers to give each customer when visiting your shop, or make them binder size and [with plastic sheet protectors] for customers to look at for ideas...the more pictures the better. [ a good way to set up for picture to be taken is to use a black velvet clothe or another color will be nice.
Reply:The best way on a budget is to join your Chamber of Commerce. In most cases, your membership gives you a monthly ad in the news letters/ catalogs they send out. You can also print flyer's from your PC, you can save in the long run doing them yourself. Save your old ink cartridges, take them to Office Max and get free paper for doing so, and make more flyer's. You can also get ink cartridges on E-bay really really cheap.... Best of Luck....
Reply:Vistaprint.com is a great place to get some low cost brochures or flyers made up. They have templates but you can upload your own photos of your arrangements. You can distribute those yourself or have them put into the local newspaper. Do you have a website?
How much to tip?
How much am I supposed to tip each vendor? My list (let me know if I left anything out) and services I'm getting:
Church/Priest....have set amount to give
Limo.....said "tip included" in bill; 4 hrs booked 3 limos, will use less time
DJ.....is getting a meal, booked for 6 hrs possibly 7 (TBD)
Photo....will be at bride's house, church, and reception for "formal" Not to stay past that! (do I give food?)
Video....will be there from beginning to end, getting ready to packing up. Will be provided with a meal. Travelling approx. 30 miles
Flowers....friend of family, giving discount on price
Reception.....includes all food, (cash bar), service, etc.
Cake....won't even see people
Invites...just got them, paid for them LOVED THEM/her. Do I tip?
SO, I have....
Limo(s)
DJ
Photographer
Videographer
Florist
Reception Hall
Any helpful advice would be appreciated! Anyone with experience (either bride/groom/wedding party or if you are a vendor...)
Thanks!
How much to tip?
Tip Limo drivers $20 each
DJ, nothing he's getting dinner its enough, but you could allow him to put out a tip jar...it's not tacky...your bartenders will be doing the same thing.
Photo, offer dinner
Video, offer dinner
Florist-Gift card to dinner/thank you for discount
Reception Hall, nothing, your paying a lot as is+a gratuity you most likely do not know about.
Cake, nothing, you paid enough
Weddings cost so much these days, and its kind of you to want to tip everyone as is fit....but many vendors sneak(sorry bad word) a tip in there without you really knowing.
Reply:Limo, don't think a tip is needed there since its included.
DJ, maybe 10% since hes getting a meal out of it.
Photographer, 10 - 15%
Videographer, 20 - 25%, They do a lot of work getting different shots and such
Florist, 15 - 20% since they're giving you a discount
Reception hall, this ones a bit tricky, 10 - 15% is customary when dining.
Also, since you loved the invites so much, maybe referring them to many people would be the best idea.
Reply:Do not tip the limo driver if the bill says tip included.
for the priest don't tip him, however you can invite him to the reception.
Dj you can tip him if you feel he's done an extrodinary job. we paid our dj already, we really don't have the money to tip him, so were not. do plan on feeding him, thought.
and I'd say no to the rest of the stuff.
You can tip the photographer and videographer. I'd say about $50, and they also need to be fed.
Reply:20%
Reply:Here's a decent guideline.
And anyone saying that it's an insult to clergy to offer a gratuity, isn't one.
http://www.ourmarriage.com/html/tipping....
Reply:Limo - No it's included.
DJ- yes if he didn't include it- read your bill.
Photo- yes but only 10%
video- yes but only 10%
Florist- Normally NO but it's a friends so that's up to you
Reception Hall/Cater- NEVER, you already paid for the service and the tip is built into their cost.
Reply:Sounds like you already have it covered except for the open bar which should have a tip glass.
Reply:I have no idea, I didn't waste my money on that stuff. I kept all the money and invested it.
7 thumbs down...looks like some broke people out there are a little jealous....hmmm?
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Church/Priest....have set amount to give
Limo.....said "tip included" in bill; 4 hrs booked 3 limos, will use less time
DJ.....is getting a meal, booked for 6 hrs possibly 7 (TBD)
Photo....will be at bride's house, church, and reception for "formal" Not to stay past that! (do I give food?)
Video....will be there from beginning to end, getting ready to packing up. Will be provided with a meal. Travelling approx. 30 miles
Flowers....friend of family, giving discount on price
Reception.....includes all food, (cash bar), service, etc.
Cake....won't even see people
Invites...just got them, paid for them LOVED THEM/her. Do I tip?
SO, I have....
Limo(s)
DJ
Photographer
Videographer
Florist
Reception Hall
Any helpful advice would be appreciated! Anyone with experience (either bride/groom/wedding party or if you are a vendor...)
Thanks!
How much to tip?
Tip Limo drivers $20 each
DJ, nothing he's getting dinner its enough, but you could allow him to put out a tip jar...it's not tacky...your bartenders will be doing the same thing.
Photo, offer dinner
Video, offer dinner
Florist-Gift card to dinner/thank you for discount
Reception Hall, nothing, your paying a lot as is+a gratuity you most likely do not know about.
Cake, nothing, you paid enough
Weddings cost so much these days, and its kind of you to want to tip everyone as is fit....but many vendors sneak(sorry bad word) a tip in there without you really knowing.
Reply:Limo, don't think a tip is needed there since its included.
DJ, maybe 10% since hes getting a meal out of it.
Photographer, 10 - 15%
Videographer, 20 - 25%, They do a lot of work getting different shots and such
Florist, 15 - 20% since they're giving you a discount
Reception hall, this ones a bit tricky, 10 - 15% is customary when dining.
Also, since you loved the invites so much, maybe referring them to many people would be the best idea.
Reply:Do not tip the limo driver if the bill says tip included.
for the priest don't tip him, however you can invite him to the reception.
Dj you can tip him if you feel he's done an extrodinary job. we paid our dj already, we really don't have the money to tip him, so were not. do plan on feeding him, thought.
and I'd say no to the rest of the stuff.
You can tip the photographer and videographer. I'd say about $50, and they also need to be fed.
Reply:20%
Reply:Here's a decent guideline.
And anyone saying that it's an insult to clergy to offer a gratuity, isn't one.
http://www.ourmarriage.com/html/tipping....
Reply:Limo - No it's included.
DJ- yes if he didn't include it- read your bill.
Photo- yes but only 10%
video- yes but only 10%
Florist- Normally NO but it's a friends so that's up to you
Reception Hall/Cater- NEVER, you already paid for the service and the tip is built into their cost.
Reply:Sounds like you already have it covered except for the open bar which should have a tip glass.
Reply:I have no idea, I didn't waste my money on that stuff. I kept all the money and invested it.
7 thumbs down...looks like some broke people out there are a little jealous....hmmm?
leather sandals
My husband and I attended our 10th hs reunion. I?
I lost him for a bit. But when I went to go find him. This girl that tried to break us up in high school. Was having sex with my husband in the ladies room. He did not even know I was there till. I threw my wedding ring as his head. I just can't believe he would do this. Now he keeps trying everything to contact me. My house looks like a florist I have 200 messages from him on the Answering Machine and my cell phone. Please someone help with some advice. See my and my husband are the same age and we were always together we were never apart. From the time we were born. We were one day apart. I mean we would date other people like in JR High. But from HS to wedding its been just him and I.
My husband and I attended our 10th hs reunion. I?
Wow, it sure didn't take much for her to get him apart from you then. Of course he is sorry he got caught.
Reply:obviously it is NOT just him and you if your husband was screwing this girl in the bathroom.
Let him beg a bit longer and Take him back
and dont go to any more reunions...if you wanted to really dump him you would not be on here asking what you should do since the answer is soo obvious!
Reply:First, you need to ask yourself three questions...
1. Do you still love him?
2. Do you forgive him?
3. Can you ever forget this?
If you answer no to any of these, there is no advice for anyone to give. If your answer is yes to all of them, I'll start with this...every situation is different. Would there be anything to make you think this isn't the first time he's done this? I'm not going to say take him back or leave him, that is completely up to you, and unfair of me to give you that kind of advice. I will say that a person who is unfaithful once is 50% more likely to be unfaithful again. Are there any kids involved? This is important. You also need to ask yourself if you would stay with him just for the kids, or for another reason. That ties in with question 1. I guess what I'm saying is if you're in love, and the relationship is worth saving, save it. If not, do what you need to do to get on with your life.
Reply:It hasn't always been just you and him. Remember that time in the bathroom at your reunion?
Reply:let the rat go .you don't need the crap. not now.looks like he wants to use you. keep an eya on him. and do it now
Reply:He's an idiot and he knows it. Is he otherwise a good man? Then take him back..soon. If not then forget about him. My sister is married to a bum who cheats on her but she stays. I tell her she should leave but she doesn't listen. I want her to have a good man so bad that If she found one who screwed up, I would tell her to forgive him.
Reply:from HS to your wedding its been just you and your husband until he figured its about time to screw things up?
think about it, does he even think about your relationship as how you treat it? obviously not.
Going back to him might save the marriage but really, its not going to make things better for you. He did it once and if you take him back again, he might change for a bit but whats gonna happen on the next reunion? or any party at all?
Seeing the person that hurt you most is just giving him another chance to hurt you again. Its easy to say you can prolly forgive him but think about it. Can you really forget about it? Can you trust him of going out alone ever?
YOU WILL END UP SMOTHERING HIM AND ITS NOT GONNA BE A GOOD PICTURE. Trust takes a while to build up, it takes a second to break it apart. By the time you start picking up the pieces, you'll be torturing yourself of trying to trust the person you love most, you thought who loved you most, the person that caused why you're too desperate, caused you to talk about it on the internet, publicly.
Well, this is all I can say really.
The rest is all up to you.
Reply:i'm sorry, that is terrible, he cannot be trusted obviously, no i wouldn't let him back for the flowers, thats ludicrous.
she wanted to see if she could break that bond between you two, and she did, at least i'm glad you caught him. i can almost guarantee this was not his first time,
and doing it there with you in the same building, that was cold.
- he did the worse possible thing he ever could have done to you, you can never trust him now.
he was so 'cool' about it, so casual, he's a real bastard.
Reply:Downside during all that time it took only a moment to show you how little he respects you and your marrage. Give him his walking papers and find someone else
Reply:She probably contacted him prior to the reunion and he fantasized about her. He probably fantasized about her in high school. Now he knows what she's like and he wants you back. The fantasy was better than the reality of her. I would have him tested for STDs before I let him into my bed again, but after all those years, you should take him back provided he agrees to go for marriage counseling.
Reply:Leave him, you deserve so much better!!!!!
Reply:Guess he found the grass isn't greener huh? Make him suffer and then hold it over his head the rest of his life. Just kidding.... let him apologize and make it clear he will never get another chance if he does it again. He had a momentary lack of judgment and I bet he is sooo sorry.
Reply:Stop trying to make excuses for him. If you want him back, then take him back. Just know who it is that you are taking back. If you don't want him back, then why are you trying to plead his case for him. He is your husband and it is your life. How miserable or how joyful it is, is up to you, not us. I say whatever you do don't forget what you saw that night, because that tells the story of his marriage to you. Now you must tell the story of your marriage to him.
Reply:do you truly believe this was the first time since you married that he has been unfaithful?
Reply:How long have you two been married? Any kids? To start with, I'm sorry that you had to see your husband's blatantly stupid, dumass, walk down memory lane. It hurts! And betrayals are hard to get over. But.....if the rest of the marriage is good, then you might want to consider going to a marriage counselor to work this out. Sometimes, painful as it is, you can salvage a relationship and move past infidelity. If there is abuse in your marriage, substance abuse, or other signs of infidelity, then you have to ask yourself what kind of a prince you're really with. Then, have yourself a good cry and get the hell out of Dodge!
Reply:ZZZZZZZZZ
stay with him, you deserve each other.
Him for being stupid to do this to you and you for even considering taking him back...
he did not have any respect for you (he could have met her someplace else) or her (in the bathroom geez) and for himself (would have made for a nice police blotter)
If you even think about staying you need your head examined too!
Tell this story to anyone ANYONE at all and change the names of the man characters (instead of you being the woman make it some cousin) and see what ANYONE would say!
Reply:OMG! How awful for u.
What do u want advice with. Honey, u did the right thing. U got rid of his cheatin @$$ and thats exactly what u needed to do. If he hooked up with her in that little amount of time, its untelling how many times he has cheated on u.
Wow, what a story. Stick to your guns. Dont take him back. Find a man who will respect u and whom deserves u.
I feel for ya hun. Stay strong though.
Much luck to u.
Reply:Well, he REALLY screwed up! What you need to do, is ask yourself if you still love him and if you can ever trust him or feel the same about him again. If you answer no to any of those questions, then you need to divorce him and move on. BUT, if you answer yes to any of those questions, then you need to see what can be done to save your marriage. though, i don't think you should let him off the hook any time soon. If you just forgive him and go on, that'll be to easy and he'll think he can do it again, and you'll take him back. by the way, if you DO take him back and he ever does it again. Divorce him and NEVER look back.
Reply:So what is your question?
Reply:maybe your better off just being friends since there is no respect for you or the marriage. keep yourself open and don't let one bad situation trap you in a web of love do what's best for you and your sanity good luck
Reply:what an @$$. He doenst deserve you. Leave him and piss on his grave
My husband and I attended our 10th hs reunion. I?
Wow, it sure didn't take much for her to get him apart from you then. Of course he is sorry he got caught.
Reply:obviously it is NOT just him and you if your husband was screwing this girl in the bathroom.
Let him beg a bit longer and Take him back
and dont go to any more reunions...if you wanted to really dump him you would not be on here asking what you should do since the answer is soo obvious!
Reply:First, you need to ask yourself three questions...
1. Do you still love him?
2. Do you forgive him?
3. Can you ever forget this?
If you answer no to any of these, there is no advice for anyone to give. If your answer is yes to all of them, I'll start with this...every situation is different. Would there be anything to make you think this isn't the first time he's done this? I'm not going to say take him back or leave him, that is completely up to you, and unfair of me to give you that kind of advice. I will say that a person who is unfaithful once is 50% more likely to be unfaithful again. Are there any kids involved? This is important. You also need to ask yourself if you would stay with him just for the kids, or for another reason. That ties in with question 1. I guess what I'm saying is if you're in love, and the relationship is worth saving, save it. If not, do what you need to do to get on with your life.
Reply:It hasn't always been just you and him. Remember that time in the bathroom at your reunion?
Reply:let the rat go .you don't need the crap. not now.looks like he wants to use you. keep an eya on him. and do it now
Reply:He's an idiot and he knows it. Is he otherwise a good man? Then take him back..soon. If not then forget about him. My sister is married to a bum who cheats on her but she stays. I tell her she should leave but she doesn't listen. I want her to have a good man so bad that If she found one who screwed up, I would tell her to forgive him.
Reply:from HS to your wedding its been just you and your husband until he figured its about time to screw things up?
think about it, does he even think about your relationship as how you treat it? obviously not.
Going back to him might save the marriage but really, its not going to make things better for you. He did it once and if you take him back again, he might change for a bit but whats gonna happen on the next reunion? or any party at all?
Seeing the person that hurt you most is just giving him another chance to hurt you again. Its easy to say you can prolly forgive him but think about it. Can you really forget about it? Can you trust him of going out alone ever?
YOU WILL END UP SMOTHERING HIM AND ITS NOT GONNA BE A GOOD PICTURE. Trust takes a while to build up, it takes a second to break it apart. By the time you start picking up the pieces, you'll be torturing yourself of trying to trust the person you love most, you thought who loved you most, the person that caused why you're too desperate, caused you to talk about it on the internet, publicly.
Well, this is all I can say really.
The rest is all up to you.
Reply:i'm sorry, that is terrible, he cannot be trusted obviously, no i wouldn't let him back for the flowers, thats ludicrous.
she wanted to see if she could break that bond between you two, and she did, at least i'm glad you caught him. i can almost guarantee this was not his first time,
and doing it there with you in the same building, that was cold.
- he did the worse possible thing he ever could have done to you, you can never trust him now.
he was so 'cool' about it, so casual, he's a real bastard.
Reply:Downside during all that time it took only a moment to show you how little he respects you and your marrage. Give him his walking papers and find someone else
Reply:She probably contacted him prior to the reunion and he fantasized about her. He probably fantasized about her in high school. Now he knows what she's like and he wants you back. The fantasy was better than the reality of her. I would have him tested for STDs before I let him into my bed again, but after all those years, you should take him back provided he agrees to go for marriage counseling.
Reply:Leave him, you deserve so much better!!!!!
Reply:Guess he found the grass isn't greener huh? Make him suffer and then hold it over his head the rest of his life. Just kidding.... let him apologize and make it clear he will never get another chance if he does it again. He had a momentary lack of judgment and I bet he is sooo sorry.
Reply:Stop trying to make excuses for him. If you want him back, then take him back. Just know who it is that you are taking back. If you don't want him back, then why are you trying to plead his case for him. He is your husband and it is your life. How miserable or how joyful it is, is up to you, not us. I say whatever you do don't forget what you saw that night, because that tells the story of his marriage to you. Now you must tell the story of your marriage to him.
Reply:do you truly believe this was the first time since you married that he has been unfaithful?
Reply:How long have you two been married? Any kids? To start with, I'm sorry that you had to see your husband's blatantly stupid, dumass, walk down memory lane. It hurts! And betrayals are hard to get over. But.....if the rest of the marriage is good, then you might want to consider going to a marriage counselor to work this out. Sometimes, painful as it is, you can salvage a relationship and move past infidelity. If there is abuse in your marriage, substance abuse, or other signs of infidelity, then you have to ask yourself what kind of a prince you're really with. Then, have yourself a good cry and get the hell out of Dodge!
Reply:ZZZZZZZZZ
stay with him, you deserve each other.
Him for being stupid to do this to you and you for even considering taking him back...
he did not have any respect for you (he could have met her someplace else) or her (in the bathroom geez) and for himself (would have made for a nice police blotter)
If you even think about staying you need your head examined too!
Tell this story to anyone ANYONE at all and change the names of the man characters (instead of you being the woman make it some cousin) and see what ANYONE would say!
Reply:OMG! How awful for u.
What do u want advice with. Honey, u did the right thing. U got rid of his cheatin @$$ and thats exactly what u needed to do. If he hooked up with her in that little amount of time, its untelling how many times he has cheated on u.
Wow, what a story. Stick to your guns. Dont take him back. Find a man who will respect u and whom deserves u.
I feel for ya hun. Stay strong though.
Much luck to u.
Reply:Well, he REALLY screwed up! What you need to do, is ask yourself if you still love him and if you can ever trust him or feel the same about him again. If you answer no to any of those questions, then you need to divorce him and move on. BUT, if you answer yes to any of those questions, then you need to see what can be done to save your marriage. though, i don't think you should let him off the hook any time soon. If you just forgive him and go on, that'll be to easy and he'll think he can do it again, and you'll take him back. by the way, if you DO take him back and he ever does it again. Divorce him and NEVER look back.
Reply:So what is your question?
Reply:maybe your better off just being friends since there is no respect for you or the marriage. keep yourself open and don't let one bad situation trap you in a web of love do what's best for you and your sanity good luck
Reply:what an @$$. He doenst deserve you. Leave him and piss on his grave
Can you calm my nerves and heart? I just realized how close it is....?
I just realized that my wedding is only 81 days away, and am having a small fit. I have been having nightmares about not having everything done. Can you think of anything I'm forgetting? I've already:
Booked/Confirmed Church
Done Pre-cana
Met Priest
Arranged Music
Booked/Confirmed Reception Hall (food %26amp; drink included)
Booked DJ
Booked Cake
Booked Florist....meeting in April
Bought Dress
Bridesmaids/Flowergirl dresses ordered
Bought Rings
Booked Photographer %26amp; Videographer
Ordered Invitations
Booked Limos
Finalized Guest List
Registered
Arranged Rehearsal Dinner (In-Laws doing this)
Picked Readers (but not readings....ideas?)
I know I need to:
Find Shoes
Figure out hair
Find bridal party gifts
Do favors (father's helping....home-made wine sound good?)
But what else? What am I missing?
Thank you for any help you want to give. Holy crappola, 81 days!
Can you calm my nerves and heart? I just realized how close it is....?
try 11 days! thats anxiety! lol! Honestly it sounds like you have it covered, does your reception place cover things like napkins and forks and plates and all? thats the only think I can think of.....and the wine sounds amazing, I went to a wedding where everyone got a bottle of their "special reserve"-homeade wine and it was the best stuff ever!
Reply:Let me put it this way...I'm getting married Saturday and you're more preared than me. :)
You're fine, try not to stress. Prepare yourself mentally in case things don't work out perfectly. I had to change my cake a couple weeks ago due to flower problems (it had flowers on it that didn't come in the right color, of course I picked the cake with a computer generated flower). I just got my chair covers ordered today. AND I'm sick with the flu now. So yeah, things will happen. Just relax %26amp; know you're doing a good job.
Reply:For reading, go with the traditional reading from St. Paul - I think it's totally beautiful.
I'd start worrying about you not having your invitations yet - when I ordered ours, there was a mistake and we had to send them back to be re-done. Hope yours are okay.
Make sure your undergarments are sorted out!
Dress for next day? Are you having a gift opening? For me, I took my dress, but forgot a slip!
Reply:If you haven't already, check out www.theknot.com
They have great checklists and a budgeter to help you plan - that have thought of everything for you and give you advice and vendors in your area.
It's definately a lifesaver. It's all i've used thus far!!
Good luck! BREATH and take a bath!!!! and God Bless!
you'll be just fine :)
Reply:I have never planned a wedding (yet!), so I can't offer a lot. It sounds like the major things are set.
Something I can think of are bridesmaid gifts. Most brides give necklaces or a small gift to the bridesmaids, same for the groom and his men.
I would suggest going to a library or book store and flipping through a wedding planning guide. Take a piece of paper and pen and just write down ideas you may have overlooked!
Congrats in 81 days!
Reply:dress fittings. buy stamps when you send out your invitations on your response cards put a number on the back 1-100 or how ever many people you are inviting write down what card you sent to who. So if you can not read the chicken scratch that is on the response card you will know who it is from.
Reply:Sounds like you'll have a lovely wedding.
Reply:Congratulations!!! WOW!
This is what you are forgetting
-Seating arrangements
-ALTERATIONS!!!!! You don't have a lot of time girl!
-Send the invites. You are already late for this one.
-Decorations for the church and hall
-Pick first dance song, father-daughter dance etc.
-Aisle runner
-Printed programs for your wedding
-Collect all RSVP's and do final headcount
-Have wedding annoucement pictures taken and send it to the local newspaper.
-Get MOB dress and FOB tux
-Bachelorette party and bridal shower
Reply:Take a deep breath and think of it this way...if you forget anything, will you be any less married? As long as you don't forget to invite the official to perform the ceremony, then that's the main thing isn't it? The rest is just extra. ☺
Congratulations and may the marriage be long and satisfying for you both.
Reply:Chill out..You seem like you have completly under control..
When I got married I was nervous as hell, but I would do it 10,000 time over...If you love your future husband, you wedding will be great, The day is for the two of you..don't stress over it...I know that easier said than done...But when it is crunch time and your freakin out..just remeber why you are getting married..
Good luck and may you have a life time of happiness
Reply:Check off your list with this one! Congratulations!!
http://www.wilton.com/wedding/planner/in...
Reply:Great Job! Looks like you have most of the important stuff done. Have you figured out the honeymoon details yet?
Check out the website www.ezweddingplanner.com
The have a very detailed planning list and you can check off all the things you have done; disregard what doesn't apply; and see if there is anything missed. It's a really neat site and will help you plan for the seating arrangements and everything. I am using it to prepare for my wedding next year.
Congrats and good luck! I am sure everything will be beautiful!!
Reply:You have plenty of time to figure this stuff out, but... programs for at the wedding?? Maybe directions for people who don't know the area?
Reply:It might be a good idea to decide with your photographer what specific pictures you want to have to remember your wedding by, and it always helps to rehearse the pictures along with the wedding rehearsal. As a photographer, I know that the photography can be a hassle if you just expect it to happen. Help your photographer by knowing who needs to be in front of the camera and when. A wedding director can take care of this for you if you go over it before hand, so you can just enjoy the moment. Sounds like you've done a great job. Now relax and enjoy the ride. You're in love. You're living a dream.
Reply:You're missing the "have a glass if wine and a long bath, step" that's all I noticed good luck!
Reply:Take a deep breath...in......out.....ok. relax!!! Do you have one of those bridal checklists? Sounds like you have almost everything done. The one thing you should do is book a spa day a couple of days before the wedding so that you book in a time to relax. Get your manicure and pedicure and/or a massage. Remember, the wedding is only 1 day. The marriage lasts a lot longer.
Reply:you didn't say honey moon....I k now for me....as it got close and I stared freaking out I would just remind myself that in no time I would be on a beach w/ my honey sipping fruity drinks w/ straws
Reply:If you are like this NOW you are never going to make it thru your wedding day!!! You just need to take a breather and realize, even if you do forget something, your wedding will still go fine, you will still be married, and it will still be the greatest day of your life! You have 81 days....so just try to chill and take it one day at a time. Good luck and congrats! Have your dad make an extra bottle of wine for you RIGHT NOW...and drink it...and enjoy it... =0)
Reply:ure forgeting 2 breathe, photos?
Reply:don know
don forget the hookers for the bachelors party
and the visit to the doc for STD
Reply:grow up and relax...or you are not old enough to get married
Booked/Confirmed Church
Done Pre-cana
Met Priest
Arranged Music
Booked/Confirmed Reception Hall (food %26amp; drink included)
Booked DJ
Booked Cake
Booked Florist....meeting in April
Bought Dress
Bridesmaids/Flowergirl dresses ordered
Bought Rings
Booked Photographer %26amp; Videographer
Ordered Invitations
Booked Limos
Finalized Guest List
Registered
Arranged Rehearsal Dinner (In-Laws doing this)
Picked Readers (but not readings....ideas?)
I know I need to:
Find Shoes
Figure out hair
Find bridal party gifts
Do favors (father's helping....home-made wine sound good?)
But what else? What am I missing?
Thank you for any help you want to give. Holy crappola, 81 days!
Can you calm my nerves and heart? I just realized how close it is....?
try 11 days! thats anxiety! lol! Honestly it sounds like you have it covered, does your reception place cover things like napkins and forks and plates and all? thats the only think I can think of.....and the wine sounds amazing, I went to a wedding where everyone got a bottle of their "special reserve"-homeade wine and it was the best stuff ever!
Reply:Let me put it this way...I'm getting married Saturday and you're more preared than me. :)
You're fine, try not to stress. Prepare yourself mentally in case things don't work out perfectly. I had to change my cake a couple weeks ago due to flower problems (it had flowers on it that didn't come in the right color, of course I picked the cake with a computer generated flower). I just got my chair covers ordered today. AND I'm sick with the flu now. So yeah, things will happen. Just relax %26amp; know you're doing a good job.
Reply:For reading, go with the traditional reading from St. Paul - I think it's totally beautiful.
I'd start worrying about you not having your invitations yet - when I ordered ours, there was a mistake and we had to send them back to be re-done. Hope yours are okay.
Make sure your undergarments are sorted out!
Dress for next day? Are you having a gift opening? For me, I took my dress, but forgot a slip!
Reply:If you haven't already, check out www.theknot.com
They have great checklists and a budgeter to help you plan - that have thought of everything for you and give you advice and vendors in your area.
It's definately a lifesaver. It's all i've used thus far!!
Good luck! BREATH and take a bath!!!! and God Bless!
you'll be just fine :)
Reply:I have never planned a wedding (yet!), so I can't offer a lot. It sounds like the major things are set.
Something I can think of are bridesmaid gifts. Most brides give necklaces or a small gift to the bridesmaids, same for the groom and his men.
I would suggest going to a library or book store and flipping through a wedding planning guide. Take a piece of paper and pen and just write down ideas you may have overlooked!
Congrats in 81 days!
Reply:dress fittings. buy stamps when you send out your invitations on your response cards put a number on the back 1-100 or how ever many people you are inviting write down what card you sent to who. So if you can not read the chicken scratch that is on the response card you will know who it is from.
Reply:Sounds like you'll have a lovely wedding.
Reply:Congratulations!!! WOW!
This is what you are forgetting
-Seating arrangements
-ALTERATIONS!!!!! You don't have a lot of time girl!
-Send the invites. You are already late for this one.
-Decorations for the church and hall
-Pick first dance song, father-daughter dance etc.
-Aisle runner
-Printed programs for your wedding
-Collect all RSVP's and do final headcount
-Have wedding annoucement pictures taken and send it to the local newspaper.
-Get MOB dress and FOB tux
-Bachelorette party and bridal shower
Reply:Take a deep breath and think of it this way...if you forget anything, will you be any less married? As long as you don't forget to invite the official to perform the ceremony, then that's the main thing isn't it? The rest is just extra. ☺
Congratulations and may the marriage be long and satisfying for you both.
Reply:Chill out..You seem like you have completly under control..
When I got married I was nervous as hell, but I would do it 10,000 time over...If you love your future husband, you wedding will be great, The day is for the two of you..don't stress over it...I know that easier said than done...But when it is crunch time and your freakin out..just remeber why you are getting married..
Good luck and may you have a life time of happiness
Reply:Check off your list with this one! Congratulations!!
http://www.wilton.com/wedding/planner/in...
Reply:Great Job! Looks like you have most of the important stuff done. Have you figured out the honeymoon details yet?
Check out the website www.ezweddingplanner.com
The have a very detailed planning list and you can check off all the things you have done; disregard what doesn't apply; and see if there is anything missed. It's a really neat site and will help you plan for the seating arrangements and everything. I am using it to prepare for my wedding next year.
Congrats and good luck! I am sure everything will be beautiful!!
Reply:You have plenty of time to figure this stuff out, but... programs for at the wedding?? Maybe directions for people who don't know the area?
Reply:It might be a good idea to decide with your photographer what specific pictures you want to have to remember your wedding by, and it always helps to rehearse the pictures along with the wedding rehearsal. As a photographer, I know that the photography can be a hassle if you just expect it to happen. Help your photographer by knowing who needs to be in front of the camera and when. A wedding director can take care of this for you if you go over it before hand, so you can just enjoy the moment. Sounds like you've done a great job. Now relax and enjoy the ride. You're in love. You're living a dream.
Reply:You're missing the "have a glass if wine and a long bath, step" that's all I noticed good luck!
Reply:Take a deep breath...in......out.....ok. relax!!! Do you have one of those bridal checklists? Sounds like you have almost everything done. The one thing you should do is book a spa day a couple of days before the wedding so that you book in a time to relax. Get your manicure and pedicure and/or a massage. Remember, the wedding is only 1 day. The marriage lasts a lot longer.
Reply:you didn't say honey moon....I k now for me....as it got close and I stared freaking out I would just remind myself that in no time I would be on a beach w/ my honey sipping fruity drinks w/ straws
Reply:If you are like this NOW you are never going to make it thru your wedding day!!! You just need to take a breather and realize, even if you do forget something, your wedding will still go fine, you will still be married, and it will still be the greatest day of your life! You have 81 days....so just try to chill and take it one day at a time. Good luck and congrats! Have your dad make an extra bottle of wine for you RIGHT NOW...and drink it...and enjoy it... =0)
Reply:ure forgeting 2 breathe, photos?
Reply:don know
don forget the hookers for the bachelors party
and the visit to the doc for STD
Reply:grow up and relax...or you are not old enough to get married
A question for florists??
My mom is starting a floral business and is doing her first wedding. She needs something to organize all of her samples of color, material, sketches, lists, dates and times, etc.....what do florists typically use.
A question for florists??
I'm assuming you are just talking about this one wedding. She should get a 3" notebook binder, clear plastic sheet protectors and some index dividers. She can insert the fabric in the plastic sheet protectors to prevent them from soiling and to have easy access to match with ribbons etc. The dividers can separate the other information by categories ie; church, reception, bouquets, gown colors and ribbon colors. Does she have the professional wedding contract form? This should be the first page in her notebook. It will state all the pertinent information she will need to reference constantly. It will also state what she is going to be contractually obligated to do. This is VERY important. brides sometimes assume you are going to do things that you are not being paid to do. If she does not have floral industry contract yet...she must make up her own and be very specific about what she is hired to do!!! The person hireing her MUST read the contract, and when they are in agreement, they MUST sign it. There is so much more she needs to know before she goes into this full blown, but this will get her through this first wedding.
Reply:Depends on what kind of storage area she has, and what kind of shop area she has... if she needs to be portable, she will definitely want to use something she can carry easily... if she has a storefront where the bride will come to her for selection and counselling, then she can have whatever suits her for displaying the information. The craft shops all have a number of totes that would work to store information and display it for the bride and her mother or friend as she makes her selection.
For the planning effort, use a day timer, day runner or franklin planner with all of the information for the wedding written of the day of the wedding.
A question for florists??
I'm assuming you are just talking about this one wedding. She should get a 3" notebook binder, clear plastic sheet protectors and some index dividers. She can insert the fabric in the plastic sheet protectors to prevent them from soiling and to have easy access to match with ribbons etc. The dividers can separate the other information by categories ie; church, reception, bouquets, gown colors and ribbon colors. Does she have the professional wedding contract form? This should be the first page in her notebook. It will state all the pertinent information she will need to reference constantly. It will also state what she is going to be contractually obligated to do. This is VERY important. brides sometimes assume you are going to do things that you are not being paid to do. If she does not have floral industry contract yet...she must make up her own and be very specific about what she is hired to do!!! The person hireing her MUST read the contract, and when they are in agreement, they MUST sign it. There is so much more she needs to know before she goes into this full blown, but this will get her through this first wedding.
Reply:Depends on what kind of storage area she has, and what kind of shop area she has... if she needs to be portable, she will definitely want to use something she can carry easily... if she has a storefront where the bride will come to her for selection and counselling, then she can have whatever suits her for displaying the information. The craft shops all have a number of totes that would work to store information and display it for the bride and her mother or friend as she makes her selection.
For the planning effort, use a day timer, day runner or franklin planner with all of the information for the wedding written of the day of the wedding.
Using Hibiscus flowers?
Has anyone used Hibiscus in their centerpieces and/or bouquets? I'm having a really tropical wedding and Hibiscus is my favorite flower. Are they hardy enough for arrangements? I can't find them on florist websites. Anyone with any information would be super helpful. I can't find squat!!
Using Hibiscus flowers?
I dreamed of having hibiscus for the longest time then the florist told me they were not an option. For one they wilt to fast after being "picked" and second they close up at night and open again in the morning, considering my wedding was in the evening that was not an option to have even the plants. Maybe you could just have the plants as decorations. Im sorry the hibiscus wont work any other way. I was just as disappointed as you are!
Reply:Awww, I love hibiscus flowers. I got this idea shot down by the florists. They said the flower does not last long enough. They did suggest silk hibiscus though. Hard to find also. Check at your local greenhouses, and ask them. An alternative would be a peony, it's another tropical flower that you can find a bit easier.
Reply:As far as my experience with hibiscus' goes (I am not a florist but have put them in arrangements before) they wilt very quickly. They really don't last long at all. The only thing I can suggest would be to have 'fake' ones... they can still look quite nice.
Reply:I have heard that they are not too hardy. Sad too....they are a beautiful flower!
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Using Hibiscus flowers?
I dreamed of having hibiscus for the longest time then the florist told me they were not an option. For one they wilt to fast after being "picked" and second they close up at night and open again in the morning, considering my wedding was in the evening that was not an option to have even the plants. Maybe you could just have the plants as decorations. Im sorry the hibiscus wont work any other way. I was just as disappointed as you are!
Reply:Awww, I love hibiscus flowers. I got this idea shot down by the florists. They said the flower does not last long enough. They did suggest silk hibiscus though. Hard to find also. Check at your local greenhouses, and ask them. An alternative would be a peony, it's another tropical flower that you can find a bit easier.
Reply:As far as my experience with hibiscus' goes (I am not a florist but have put them in arrangements before) they wilt very quickly. They really don't last long at all. The only thing I can suggest would be to have 'fake' ones... they can still look quite nice.
Reply:I have heard that they are not too hardy. Sad too....they are a beautiful flower!
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How many bridesmaids did you have? How many do you think is TOO many?
I had 4 bridesmaids and 3 jr bridesmaids, and I thought that having 7 people on my side was a lot! I did the flowers for my 2nd cousins wedding this weekend, (I used to work as a florist but have gotten out of it) and she had 14. I thought that was just crazy! Not to mention it was a huge pain making that many bouquets. Her photographer said he was doing a wedding in late June where they had 32 bridesmaids and 32 groomsmen. I thought bridemaids were supposed to be your closest family and friends?! I just don't see being that close to 32 girls, lol! To each his own I suppose, what do you think?
How many bridesmaids did you have? How many do you think is TOO many?
I'm having 2 ring bears, 2 flowers girls, 5 Jr.bridesmaids and Jr. grooms man. 2 bridesmaids and grooms man.
Reply:Wow, if I had to work with and organize 32 females for my wedding I would go nuts! I had my best friend as maid of honor and my two sisters as bridesmaids and that was plenty (what with everyone having to put their two cents in on everything, it got pretty trying at times). I thought it was the perfect number for pictures though. I definitely wouldn't go any more than 4 girls on my side.
Reply:I am having 3 girls on my side and 3 guys on his. I was in a wedding where there were 7 guys and 7 girls. i thought that was almost too many. Once you got all 14 people, the bride and groom, and then the parents, it was way too many people for pictures. I think that 3-4 are good numbers for bridesmaids and groomsmen.
Reply:32 people that is ridiculous. I swear some people will do anything just so that they can show off. I mean I know A LOT of girls and when I was gonna get married I didn't even think about putting all of them in my bridal party just like you said only the closest ones. I would have had seven all together as well. But 32 on each side that is just trying to show off for people IMO.
Reply:Wow, I don't think I even KNOW 32 girls- I'd have to start pulling people in off the street, LOL. I have 4 bridesmaids, which I personally think is too many for my small, 50-guest wedding, but I couldn't leave any of them out. Besides, my fiance has two best friends he's known since like middle school, one best friend of about 4 years, and a new friend whom he really likes, so 4 seemed to be my target number so he could have all the groomsmen he wanted.
Reply:Lol, like you said, to each his own. I have always thought six should be the max, even in huge weddings, but hey, I am the type to never even want a huge wedding. I plan on having only around 30 people at my wedding, with just three people per side in the wedding party (four/six will be kids)
Congrats on your wedding!
Reply:lol yea those are some crazy numbers! i'm in two right now, one is just us 4 girls which has been going very very well. the other is 9 including juniors and it's been much much more complicated. so based on these experiences a lone i'm thinking 4 girls is a good number. it also depends on how far apart the girls are geographically. teh further away you all are the harder it is!
Reply:0. Yeap, I had zero. We had the best man and maid of honor... and a little flower girl and the ring bearer. I didn't want to put people through expense of a dress they will only wear once, same with guys having to rent a tux. I just invited friends to the wedding and reception and they can spend as much or as little as they like on their outfits. It was just great having them there. It was perfect.
Reply:That is ridiculous. I have 5 and I think that is a lot. I think that sometimes people just add maids to make it look like they have a lot of friends.....
I think that it really depends on the size of the wedding and who is CLOSEST to you, not just random acquaintances!
Reply:I have four girl walking down with me.
MOH- I have know seance brownie / girl-scouts
Bridesmaid 1 I have know seance i was 6 month old and she was a year
Bridmaid 2 Soon to be SIL
bridmaid 3 A good friend that i have know for 5 years.
I think that the 32 girls is nuts and is way to many but some days i think my four are to many.
Reply:32? I mean at that point, was there anyone in the audience left to watch the wedding? Thats so stupid.
I dont know how many is too many, but I think the size of the wedding should be considered. If youre only having 100 guests, then 32 attendants seems like a tad too many!
I had 2 bridesmaids.
Reply:We've got 4 attendants each (MOH, Best Man %26amp; 3 bridesmaids/groomsmen).
I think a wedding party much more than 5 or 6 people is large. Anything more than 10 on each side is ridiculous to me - - - unless they are all siblings, in which case I'd let it slide 'cause you had no control over how many kids your parents had.
Reply:Wow.... 32 people on each side.... that must have been a MASSIVE venue to have that many people lined up..... wow... I don't even want to think about the costs involved with that.......... wow.....
Well, IMO, any more then 6 is too much, I'm only having two, my best friend and a close cousin.
Reply:oh wow, we had a very small wedding, I had a maid of honor, a bridesmaid, and flowergirl, and a best man, groomsmen, and a ringbear. 32 is insane, 14 is even a little too many
Reply:I'm having a maid, a matron, and 3 bridesmaids. My co-worker who is getting married next year has 12 bridesmaids! I think that is just way too many. IMO, i think 3-7 is just fine.
Reply:I had four bridesmaids and four groomsmen and I thought that was a lot!
Reply:I think any number over 8 or 9 is waaay too pretentious.
Reply:crazy wow i had on matron of honor and he had his best man his son and my best friend he gave me away. and that was perfect for me.
Reply:when you hear news of a floor collapse at a wedding in June, you'll know.
Reply:In m opinion.. more then one is to many. I hate congestion at the altar. that's why I didn't have any bridesmaids. good luck. :)
Reply:i think whoever you love, and trust, i wouldnt go more than about 8, even though im 14
but i couldnt have alott!!!!!
Reply:I'm having 5 ladies on my side....and I think that's PLENTY!!! I wouldn't want more than that!
Reply:I had six bridesmaids. I didn't think that it was too many, I loved them all very dearly. My maid(s) of honor were my cousin (who is like my sister), and our little neighbor girl who was also like a little sister to me, the next two in line were two of my cousins who I am very, very close to and love dearly, and the last two in line were my two best friends. I think that it worked out very well. I would have liked to have one more (I had to leave one cousin out, and she was very, very hurt), but my husband didn't want 7 attendants on my side because then he would have had to have had my brother as a groomsman and he didn't want my brother to be one of his groomsmen, so, yeah. But I wish that I would have had 7, because then my other cousin could have been included. Anyways, yep. It's just whatever works for you - don't let anyone tell you - there's no set number - whatever you want to do in your heart!
I'm getting married again in 2009, and this time, it's just going to be my husband and I. We're going to Guam - I can't wait!
Reply:We had 2 bridesmaids, 2 groomsmen and no one else! I thought that was perfect. I just don't see the point in having more than 3 or 4 max. For one, it costs more money cause you have to get gifts for all of them. Secondly, half of them won't even have anything to do (my bridesmaids really didn't have to do a whole lot at all - and since there were only 2 I can't imagine spreading their duties even thinner!). Thirdly, it's unlikely that you have that many CLOSE friends. I mean really - I had my 2 best friends and that's all we needed. My other friends didn't even make the guest list - we just had mostly family. And lastly - what a pain for organising. I mean photos and tables and all that?! Why bother!
How many bridesmaids did you have? How many do you think is TOO many?
I'm having 2 ring bears, 2 flowers girls, 5 Jr.bridesmaids and Jr. grooms man. 2 bridesmaids and grooms man.
Reply:Wow, if I had to work with and organize 32 females for my wedding I would go nuts! I had my best friend as maid of honor and my two sisters as bridesmaids and that was plenty (what with everyone having to put their two cents in on everything, it got pretty trying at times). I thought it was the perfect number for pictures though. I definitely wouldn't go any more than 4 girls on my side.
Reply:I am having 3 girls on my side and 3 guys on his. I was in a wedding where there were 7 guys and 7 girls. i thought that was almost too many. Once you got all 14 people, the bride and groom, and then the parents, it was way too many people for pictures. I think that 3-4 are good numbers for bridesmaids and groomsmen.
Reply:32 people that is ridiculous. I swear some people will do anything just so that they can show off. I mean I know A LOT of girls and when I was gonna get married I didn't even think about putting all of them in my bridal party just like you said only the closest ones. I would have had seven all together as well. But 32 on each side that is just trying to show off for people IMO.
Reply:Wow, I don't think I even KNOW 32 girls- I'd have to start pulling people in off the street, LOL. I have 4 bridesmaids, which I personally think is too many for my small, 50-guest wedding, but I couldn't leave any of them out. Besides, my fiance has two best friends he's known since like middle school, one best friend of about 4 years, and a new friend whom he really likes, so 4 seemed to be my target number so he could have all the groomsmen he wanted.
Reply:Lol, like you said, to each his own. I have always thought six should be the max, even in huge weddings, but hey, I am the type to never even want a huge wedding. I plan on having only around 30 people at my wedding, with just three people per side in the wedding party (four/six will be kids)
Congrats on your wedding!
Reply:lol yea those are some crazy numbers! i'm in two right now, one is just us 4 girls which has been going very very well. the other is 9 including juniors and it's been much much more complicated. so based on these experiences a lone i'm thinking 4 girls is a good number. it also depends on how far apart the girls are geographically. teh further away you all are the harder it is!
Reply:0. Yeap, I had zero. We had the best man and maid of honor... and a little flower girl and the ring bearer. I didn't want to put people through expense of a dress they will only wear once, same with guys having to rent a tux. I just invited friends to the wedding and reception and they can spend as much or as little as they like on their outfits. It was just great having them there. It was perfect.
Reply:That is ridiculous. I have 5 and I think that is a lot. I think that sometimes people just add maids to make it look like they have a lot of friends.....
I think that it really depends on the size of the wedding and who is CLOSEST to you, not just random acquaintances!
Reply:I have four girl walking down with me.
MOH- I have know seance brownie / girl-scouts
Bridesmaid 1 I have know seance i was 6 month old and she was a year
Bridmaid 2 Soon to be SIL
bridmaid 3 A good friend that i have know for 5 years.
I think that the 32 girls is nuts and is way to many but some days i think my four are to many.
Reply:32? I mean at that point, was there anyone in the audience left to watch the wedding? Thats so stupid.
I dont know how many is too many, but I think the size of the wedding should be considered. If youre only having 100 guests, then 32 attendants seems like a tad too many!
I had 2 bridesmaids.
Reply:We've got 4 attendants each (MOH, Best Man %26amp; 3 bridesmaids/groomsmen).
I think a wedding party much more than 5 or 6 people is large. Anything more than 10 on each side is ridiculous to me - - - unless they are all siblings, in which case I'd let it slide 'cause you had no control over how many kids your parents had.
Reply:Wow.... 32 people on each side.... that must have been a MASSIVE venue to have that many people lined up..... wow... I don't even want to think about the costs involved with that.......... wow.....
Well, IMO, any more then 6 is too much, I'm only having two, my best friend and a close cousin.
Reply:oh wow, we had a very small wedding, I had a maid of honor, a bridesmaid, and flowergirl, and a best man, groomsmen, and a ringbear. 32 is insane, 14 is even a little too many
Reply:I'm having a maid, a matron, and 3 bridesmaids. My co-worker who is getting married next year has 12 bridesmaids! I think that is just way too many. IMO, i think 3-7 is just fine.
Reply:I had four bridesmaids and four groomsmen and I thought that was a lot!
Reply:I think any number over 8 or 9 is waaay too pretentious.
Reply:crazy wow i had on matron of honor and he had his best man his son and my best friend he gave me away. and that was perfect for me.
Reply:when you hear news of a floor collapse at a wedding in June, you'll know.
Reply:In m opinion.. more then one is to many. I hate congestion at the altar. that's why I didn't have any bridesmaids. good luck. :)
Reply:i think whoever you love, and trust, i wouldnt go more than about 8, even though im 14
but i couldnt have alott!!!!!
Reply:I'm having 5 ladies on my side....and I think that's PLENTY!!! I wouldn't want more than that!
Reply:I had six bridesmaids. I didn't think that it was too many, I loved them all very dearly. My maid(s) of honor were my cousin (who is like my sister), and our little neighbor girl who was also like a little sister to me, the next two in line were two of my cousins who I am very, very close to and love dearly, and the last two in line were my two best friends. I think that it worked out very well. I would have liked to have one more (I had to leave one cousin out, and she was very, very hurt), but my husband didn't want 7 attendants on my side because then he would have had to have had my brother as a groomsman and he didn't want my brother to be one of his groomsmen, so, yeah. But I wish that I would have had 7, because then my other cousin could have been included. Anyways, yep. It's just whatever works for you - don't let anyone tell you - there's no set number - whatever you want to do in your heart!
I'm getting married again in 2009, and this time, it's just going to be my husband and I. We're going to Guam - I can't wait!
Reply:We had 2 bridesmaids, 2 groomsmen and no one else! I thought that was perfect. I just don't see the point in having more than 3 or 4 max. For one, it costs more money cause you have to get gifts for all of them. Secondly, half of them won't even have anything to do (my bridesmaids really didn't have to do a whole lot at all - and since there were only 2 I can't imagine spreading their duties even thinner!). Thirdly, it's unlikely that you have that many CLOSE friends. I mean really - I had my 2 best friends and that's all we needed. My other friends didn't even make the guest list - we just had mostly family. And lastly - what a pain for organising. I mean photos and tables and all that?! Why bother!
Should I do More?
The wedding plans are coming along smoothly, better than expected in fact! I have a best friend who is a florist and her mother is a seamstress, they have both offered to do my dress and flowers for free in lieu of a gift. I have a friend who is a professional photographer and will be doing the photos for the cost of developing the film and chef friends who have offered to oversee the catering . I am one INCREDIBLY lucky bride -to-be :). Even tough they have offered to do these amazing things for me in lieu of a gift I want to do something for them. They will all be guests at my wedding and even though they all live interstate they live close to each other and my hubby and I want to take them all out for a meal at a nice reataurant in their home town. Any other ideas?
Should I do More?
lucky lucky you!!!!
I think a nice dinner out is a great idea.. maybe give them each a nice gift that pertains to what they are doing at your wedding....and then at the reception if you and your hubby are planning to give any kind of speech make sure you thank them and let them know how much you appreciate their help :)
Also....just as a thought for the future...if these people do this for a living be sure to tell everyone you know how amazing they are and try to help them boost their business.... recommend them to anyone you know that is geting married and share photos of your special day!!!
Congratualaitons!!!
Reply:I agree with all previous answers, you are lucky to have such generous friends.
I would of course by them something that is dear to them that they would appreciate. Personalization is key.
Spa gift certificates for the ladies. I got a massage for a gift and it was 50 min.pure relaxation. It was great.
Make sure at your reception that you take a good picture with each one. you can have it enlarged and nicely frame for them. Now a days if you want a wedding pic you have to order from a site and pay for it. May be offer to the girls to get hair or make up done on that day with whoever is in charge of doing your work.
Ps. My friend gave me a pic of me from her wedding in the thank you card and I appreciated that she took the time to do that. Plus I loved the pic.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cf...
Reply:I say plan a picnic or bbq. And do gifts for all of them, also consider somewhere in the pprograms to offer some sort or acknowledgement, so that others can call and get their services, so your referring them people.
Reply:wow, you are insanely lucky!!!
I like the gift basket and the bbq with gifts presented ideas.
Reply:Wow! You certainly are lucky! Those are some of the most expensive services at a wedding and you are going to be saving tons of money! I would definitely take them all out for a meal or do something sweet for them. Even a thank-you card with some type of gift certificate would be great. As long as you acknowledge how much you appreciate their help, I think they will be honored to help you on your big day!
Reply:I think the dinner would be nice but people really appreciate cash!! I would give them all an envelope on the day of the wedding with at least $100 in it as a small "thank you" for their services.
Reply:You can buy them something, like a gift that would give to someone in the wedding party. While at a nice dinner with them, present them with a token of your appreciaition for being there for you and helping you to make your big day incredible. Try a store like "Things Remembered," where you can get resonable gift that can be engraved. You are a VERY lucky bride, and by doing even dinner and these gifts, your still getting amazing wedding gifts....enjoy them. They wouldn't have offered if they really didn't want to help, plus, you are showing appreciation just but asking what you can do for them. Hope you come up with a great idea and I hope I helped, if only a bit!
Reply:You can give gift certificates as a token of your appreciation. Maybe even gift baskets filled with different items depending on what they are into.
Should I do More?
lucky lucky you!!!!
I think a nice dinner out is a great idea.. maybe give them each a nice gift that pertains to what they are doing at your wedding....and then at the reception if you and your hubby are planning to give any kind of speech make sure you thank them and let them know how much you appreciate their help :)
Also....just as a thought for the future...if these people do this for a living be sure to tell everyone you know how amazing they are and try to help them boost their business.... recommend them to anyone you know that is geting married and share photos of your special day!!!
Congratualaitons!!!
Reply:I agree with all previous answers, you are lucky to have such generous friends.
I would of course by them something that is dear to them that they would appreciate. Personalization is key.
Spa gift certificates for the ladies. I got a massage for a gift and it was 50 min.pure relaxation. It was great.
Make sure at your reception that you take a good picture with each one. you can have it enlarged and nicely frame for them. Now a days if you want a wedding pic you have to order from a site and pay for it. May be offer to the girls to get hair or make up done on that day with whoever is in charge of doing your work.
Ps. My friend gave me a pic of me from her wedding in the thank you card and I appreciated that she took the time to do that. Plus I loved the pic.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cf...
Reply:I say plan a picnic or bbq. And do gifts for all of them, also consider somewhere in the pprograms to offer some sort or acknowledgement, so that others can call and get their services, so your referring them people.
Reply:wow, you are insanely lucky!!!
I like the gift basket and the bbq with gifts presented ideas.
Reply:Wow! You certainly are lucky! Those are some of the most expensive services at a wedding and you are going to be saving tons of money! I would definitely take them all out for a meal or do something sweet for them. Even a thank-you card with some type of gift certificate would be great. As long as you acknowledge how much you appreciate their help, I think they will be honored to help you on your big day!
Reply:I think the dinner would be nice but people really appreciate cash!! I would give them all an envelope on the day of the wedding with at least $100 in it as a small "thank you" for their services.
Reply:You can buy them something, like a gift that would give to someone in the wedding party. While at a nice dinner with them, present them with a token of your appreciaition for being there for you and helping you to make your big day incredible. Try a store like "Things Remembered," where you can get resonable gift that can be engraved. You are a VERY lucky bride, and by doing even dinner and these gifts, your still getting amazing wedding gifts....enjoy them. They wouldn't have offered if they really didn't want to help, plus, you are showing appreciation just but asking what you can do for them. Hope you come up with a great idea and I hope I helped, if only a bit!
Reply:You can give gift certificates as a token of your appreciation. Maybe even gift baskets filled with different items depending on what they are into.
Groomsmen Bout?
If I am having the groomsmen's bouts in orange roses what about the groom? Dad's? Mom's coursages? The bouquets are yellow, red %26amp; orange roses. It is a fall wedding with the dresses being chocolate. I need to meet with the florist Monday and really need help or pictures.
Groomsmen Bout?
If the groomsmen get orange, how about yellow for Mom and Dad? Red roses mean love, and likely should be reserved for just the bouquets.
Reply:That sounds pretty!
Is your bouquet more one color than another and a little different from the bridesmaids? Pick the color that you have most in your flowers and have your grooms boutineer be the same color.
For mom's %26amp; dad's I would pick yellow or a cream colored rose to set them apart.
Reply:if the groomsmen are orange....then just switch the colors up for the others. Dad can be the same as the groomsmen and mom can be red or yellow. or make mom's yellow and red and make dads yellow and orange.
You can do many things with the colors. I orefer to see mom with red, than any of the other choices!!!
Reply:I love fall wedings and I am a florist.
You have the best colors ever!!
this all depends on what type of flower you want groom to wear. Keep in mind that he is going to be hugged all day long. So you might want to considera strong flower, such as the rose. I would add just a bit of copper and some touches of dark blue for groom mom and fathers flowers.
Ask your florist to show you black magic roses and leonidas
alsmere gold and sari. These are all roses red a deep red leos are a chocolate brown and almere is yellow and sari's are orange. these are all strong flowers and last a long time.
Be sure that when you speak with your florist you tell them what your budget is and dont let them talk you into stuff you wont need.
make a list of everyone you want to have flowers and how much you want to spend on each. Stay away from babies breath and statice. If you must, just touches of it throughout your decorations. use wax flowers or, solidago, its a pretty yellow lil flower that works great with fall flowers.
Good luck to you!!
Reply:You could choose a different flower entirely for the groom, like a single calla lilly or other elegant type, but in the same/similar orange color. That would set him apart from the others. Your other option is just to pick a different color rose to set him apart, but I don't think that looks as nice. I got married last september, here is a good tip- make sure the florist wraps the stem of the bouts in black tape instead of green. That way it blends with the tux in and looks a million times better in person and especially in photos! For the mom's coursages, I used mussy tussies because they can carry them down the aisle like a tiny bouquet and then set them down at the reception. This works so much better than the wrist or dress coursage. I would make the mussy tussies a mix of all of your colors (yellow, red, orange). Best Wishes!
Reply:what about a double rose boutineer for the groom in orange and brown , red or yellow, very pretty and sets him apart.
Reply:The colors sound beautiful!!
The groom typically has a white or off white flower to distinguish him from the other groomsmen and to match your gown.
Dads can have the same color as the groomsmen. Moms can have something to match their dress. If you want to stick with the wedding colors, then match the bouquets for the girls.
Ask the florist what other types of flowers are available for that time of year. You may see something else you like just as well.
Groomsmen Bout?
If the groomsmen get orange, how about yellow for Mom and Dad? Red roses mean love, and likely should be reserved for just the bouquets.
Reply:That sounds pretty!
Is your bouquet more one color than another and a little different from the bridesmaids? Pick the color that you have most in your flowers and have your grooms boutineer be the same color.
For mom's %26amp; dad's I would pick yellow or a cream colored rose to set them apart.
Reply:if the groomsmen are orange....then just switch the colors up for the others. Dad can be the same as the groomsmen and mom can be red or yellow. or make mom's yellow and red and make dads yellow and orange.
You can do many things with the colors. I orefer to see mom with red, than any of the other choices!!!
Reply:I love fall wedings and I am a florist.
You have the best colors ever!!
this all depends on what type of flower you want groom to wear. Keep in mind that he is going to be hugged all day long. So you might want to considera strong flower, such as the rose. I would add just a bit of copper and some touches of dark blue for groom mom and fathers flowers.
Ask your florist to show you black magic roses and leonidas
alsmere gold and sari. These are all roses red a deep red leos are a chocolate brown and almere is yellow and sari's are orange. these are all strong flowers and last a long time.
Be sure that when you speak with your florist you tell them what your budget is and dont let them talk you into stuff you wont need.
make a list of everyone you want to have flowers and how much you want to spend on each. Stay away from babies breath and statice. If you must, just touches of it throughout your decorations. use wax flowers or, solidago, its a pretty yellow lil flower that works great with fall flowers.
Good luck to you!!
Reply:You could choose a different flower entirely for the groom, like a single calla lilly or other elegant type, but in the same/similar orange color. That would set him apart from the others. Your other option is just to pick a different color rose to set him apart, but I don't think that looks as nice. I got married last september, here is a good tip- make sure the florist wraps the stem of the bouts in black tape instead of green. That way it blends with the tux in and looks a million times better in person and especially in photos! For the mom's coursages, I used mussy tussies because they can carry them down the aisle like a tiny bouquet and then set them down at the reception. This works so much better than the wrist or dress coursage. I would make the mussy tussies a mix of all of your colors (yellow, red, orange). Best Wishes!
Reply:what about a double rose boutineer for the groom in orange and brown , red or yellow, very pretty and sets him apart.
Reply:The colors sound beautiful!!
The groom typically has a white or off white flower to distinguish him from the other groomsmen and to match your gown.
Dads can have the same color as the groomsmen. Moms can have something to match their dress. If you want to stick with the wedding colors, then match the bouquets for the girls.
Ask the florist what other types of flowers are available for that time of year. You may see something else you like just as well.
Calla Lilies?
My wedding theme is pink and champagne and my flowers will be calla lilies. My florist is painting the calla lilies into some pinks, some champagne, and some will stay white to match my theme. She recently asked if i wanted to put some pink/champagne roses with calla lilies on the gazebo to match flower girl's petals. Do you think it'll look beautiful?
Calla Lilies?
My wedding this past June was also pink and champagne. (My flowers were roses and orchids.) But I think that roses and calla lilies will be absolutely stunning. Excellent choice!
Reply:Definitely gorgeous!
The contrast in shades and textures would bring all of the different elements in your decor together.
Reply:It will be stunning! I wish I could be a fly on the wall at such a beautiful wedding!
Reply:yep..especially if the calla lille have a litte pink
Reply:Sounds absolutely beautiful!
Reply:If they mix in small roses that should make your calla lilies stand out more, but it all depends on the size of the flowers and how many they will be adding
Reply:Sounds beautiful!!
Reply:Well, if you have no budget to work within, sure why not? Or if it doesn't affect the floral budget to add them, yes it would probaby look wonderful. Fresh flowers are a great decoration for a wedding. However, if there is a budget or it increases the budget, I would say no, the calla lilies are so elegant and beautiful that they can stand on their own quite nicely.
Reply:Sounds Beautiful to me! Calla Lillies are my favorite.
Reply:Calla lilies and roses will be BEAUTIFUL together. They are two most popular wedding flowers and I think the two of them together will add a lot to the gazebo. Sounds like you are going to have a gorgeous wedding. Congratulations !
Hotel Blu
Calla Lilies?
My wedding this past June was also pink and champagne. (My flowers were roses and orchids.) But I think that roses and calla lilies will be absolutely stunning. Excellent choice!
Reply:Definitely gorgeous!
The contrast in shades and textures would bring all of the different elements in your decor together.
Reply:It will be stunning! I wish I could be a fly on the wall at such a beautiful wedding!
Reply:yep..especially if the calla lille have a litte pink
Reply:Sounds absolutely beautiful!
Reply:If they mix in small roses that should make your calla lilies stand out more, but it all depends on the size of the flowers and how many they will be adding
Reply:Sounds beautiful!!
Reply:Well, if you have no budget to work within, sure why not? Or if it doesn't affect the floral budget to add them, yes it would probaby look wonderful. Fresh flowers are a great decoration for a wedding. However, if there is a budget or it increases the budget, I would say no, the calla lilies are so elegant and beautiful that they can stand on their own quite nicely.
Reply:Sounds Beautiful to me! Calla Lillies are my favorite.
Reply:Calla lilies and roses will be BEAUTIFUL together. They are two most popular wedding flowers and I think the two of them together will add a lot to the gazebo. Sounds like you are going to have a gorgeous wedding. Congratulations !
Hotel Blu
Fairy wand for flower girl?
I just read a wedding blog where it mentioned things a flower girl could carry... it mentioned a flower fairy wand... do they make these specificly for weddings? Could my florist make one? Seen any pics like this?
Also, where are some sites to look at flower pomanders?
Thanks!
Fairy wand for flower girl?
http://images.google.com.au/imgres?imgur...
There are some cute stuff
Hope i helped
Reply:that sounds adorable, my flower girl carries a stuffed bunny that had a mini bouquet and was decorated to match her. it was very cute.
http://www.eclecticlightstudios.com/phot...
Reply:http://images.google.com/images?hl=en%26amp;q=...
here are some pictures for you.. my florist is making one for me... i dont know what a pmander is so idk
Also, where are some sites to look at flower pomanders?
Thanks!
Fairy wand for flower girl?
http://images.google.com.au/imgres?imgur...
There are some cute stuff
Hope i helped
Reply:that sounds adorable, my flower girl carries a stuffed bunny that had a mini bouquet and was decorated to match her. it was very cute.
http://www.eclecticlightstudios.com/phot...
Reply:http://images.google.com/images?hl=en%26amp;q=...
here are some pictures for you.. my florist is making one for me... i dont know what a pmander is so idk
Fall brides, what are you doing . . .?
for flowers? I originally wanted Gerbera Daisies, but I have heard so much about them wilting that now I'm not sure. My wedding is in a couple of weeks and have to meet with the florist on Monday to make the final decision. I am having fall colored roses for the men, parents and grandparents and wanted to have daisies for the girls and myself. Do you think it would look too plain with all roses, berries %26amp; leaves? Thanks in advance.
Fall brides, what are you doing . . .?
The corsages and boutineers are roses-cream for the MOB, MOG, and groomsman, and a rusty orange for the groom.
My bouquet and the bridesmaids are all the same, theirs are just smaller than mine. We are using an array of flowers-roses, lilies, fresh cut herbs, ivy, and any other fall flowers my florist can find. I worked with her for a few years and she does gorgeous work, so I gave her the few specifics that I wanted and am leaving the rest to her. We are just going with fall colors, no particular one color. If you have any other questions, feel free to e-mail me. =) Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and marriage!
I would stick to just roses for the boutineers and the corsages. It's so tough, especially for the mothers, because you don't want anything to clash. Off white/ivory would be fine. Perhaps you could do roses and mums in your bouquet to tie into your centerpieces? Here's a few of those links I told you about.
MY FAVORITE!
http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/decor...
Another very pretty one
http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/decor...
Autumn Sonata
http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/decor...
Orange Bouquet
http://weddings.theknot.com/odb/themes/r...
Reply:I attended a July wedding in Mississippi (Hot) where the bridesmaids carried 2 long stemmed pink Gerbera daisies and the groomsmen wore one daisy on their lapel. I actually pinned most of them on. They held up throughout the wedding (pinned on about 30 minutes before for pictures). Afterwards during the reception with jackets coming off and people eating, they began to lose petals, but they had done their job by then. It was beautiful during the ceremony.
I would think for you to have a bouquet of white mums, berries, roses and daisies as the focal points would be absolutely beautiful. Your girls carrying just daisies is simple, elegant and cute. NOT CHEAP! It should be what you want, and I think it will be great! Just don't pass them out until you literally walk over to take pictures or just before the ceremony. Have fun, don't worry %26amp; be happy!
Another accent idea, but prickly- use clippings off of an American Holly tree. Also a mistletoe hanging from arbor, doorway or alter is a great conversation piece!
Reply:Wait, you are getting roses for the men and corsages, but daisies for the maids and yourself? Talk about looking cheap and odd!! Usually the flowers used for the men and the corsages relate back to the main flowers of the bridal party bouquets. If you are having daisies so should they, and no they do not make a good long lasting corsage or boutonniere because of the lack of water to them, they will wilt. If you are using roses for them then you should have roses in your bouquet as well. You could combine the daisies and roses, or add Peruvian lillies or mini callas or even fall mums with the roses.
Reply:What about chrysanthemums? They hold up really well and they come in great fall colors.
I think that I would probably make the bride's and bridesmaid's bouquets a mix of roses and mums, then use rose boutonnieres for the men. You could even mix some gerber daisies in with the bouquets, and even if they wilt a little, you'd have lots of other flowers to keep the bouquets looking fresh. The main thing is that whatever flower you use for boutonnieres, you should also have some of them in the bouquets so that they are coordinated.
Reply:I'm not engaged or anything but I've always dreamed of having a fall wedding when I do get married. I wanted to go with something a little different for my fall theme. I plan on having orange lilies and dark red roses for my flowers BUT I'm also going to add a few fall leaves into the bouquets. Not so many that it'll look like me and my bridesmaids will be carrying a handful of leaves, but enough to give it that autumn touch.
Good luck! ♥
Reply:I´m in the same boat. Maybe when you go to the florist they will wip out a few flowers you never knew were in season.
I never heard anything before about the gerberas so i am a little concerned but i have been at weddings before with them and they never showed to wilted in any noticable way.
I think go for the gerberas. the day will be over before you know it. Or go out and buy some now and watch their shelf life in person.
gd luck and i wish you all the best
Fall brides, what are you doing . . .?
The corsages and boutineers are roses-cream for the MOB, MOG, and groomsman, and a rusty orange for the groom.
My bouquet and the bridesmaids are all the same, theirs are just smaller than mine. We are using an array of flowers-roses, lilies, fresh cut herbs, ivy, and any other fall flowers my florist can find. I worked with her for a few years and she does gorgeous work, so I gave her the few specifics that I wanted and am leaving the rest to her. We are just going with fall colors, no particular one color. If you have any other questions, feel free to e-mail me. =) Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and marriage!
I would stick to just roses for the boutineers and the corsages. It's so tough, especially for the mothers, because you don't want anything to clash. Off white/ivory would be fine. Perhaps you could do roses and mums in your bouquet to tie into your centerpieces? Here's a few of those links I told you about.
MY FAVORITE!
http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/decor...
Another very pretty one
http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/decor...
Autumn Sonata
http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/decor...
Orange Bouquet
http://weddings.theknot.com/odb/themes/r...
Reply:I attended a July wedding in Mississippi (Hot) where the bridesmaids carried 2 long stemmed pink Gerbera daisies and the groomsmen wore one daisy on their lapel. I actually pinned most of them on. They held up throughout the wedding (pinned on about 30 minutes before for pictures). Afterwards during the reception with jackets coming off and people eating, they began to lose petals, but they had done their job by then. It was beautiful during the ceremony.
I would think for you to have a bouquet of white mums, berries, roses and daisies as the focal points would be absolutely beautiful. Your girls carrying just daisies is simple, elegant and cute. NOT CHEAP! It should be what you want, and I think it will be great! Just don't pass them out until you literally walk over to take pictures or just before the ceremony. Have fun, don't worry %26amp; be happy!
Another accent idea, but prickly- use clippings off of an American Holly tree. Also a mistletoe hanging from arbor, doorway or alter is a great conversation piece!
Reply:Wait, you are getting roses for the men and corsages, but daisies for the maids and yourself? Talk about looking cheap and odd!! Usually the flowers used for the men and the corsages relate back to the main flowers of the bridal party bouquets. If you are having daisies so should they, and no they do not make a good long lasting corsage or boutonniere because of the lack of water to them, they will wilt. If you are using roses for them then you should have roses in your bouquet as well. You could combine the daisies and roses, or add Peruvian lillies or mini callas or even fall mums with the roses.
Reply:What about chrysanthemums? They hold up really well and they come in great fall colors.
I think that I would probably make the bride's and bridesmaid's bouquets a mix of roses and mums, then use rose boutonnieres for the men. You could even mix some gerber daisies in with the bouquets, and even if they wilt a little, you'd have lots of other flowers to keep the bouquets looking fresh. The main thing is that whatever flower you use for boutonnieres, you should also have some of them in the bouquets so that they are coordinated.
Reply:I'm not engaged or anything but I've always dreamed of having a fall wedding when I do get married. I wanted to go with something a little different for my fall theme. I plan on having orange lilies and dark red roses for my flowers BUT I'm also going to add a few fall leaves into the bouquets. Not so many that it'll look like me and my bridesmaids will be carrying a handful of leaves, but enough to give it that autumn touch.
Good luck! ♥
Reply:I´m in the same boat. Maybe when you go to the florist they will wip out a few flowers you never knew were in season.
I never heard anything before about the gerberas so i am a little concerned but i have been at weddings before with them and they never showed to wilted in any noticable way.
I think go for the gerberas. the day will be over before you know it. Or go out and buy some now and watch their shelf life in person.
gd luck and i wish you all the best
I'm doing my own flowers, need advice...?
We are on a strict budget for our wedding and based on the quotes I've been told, we can't afford a florist. A friend of my Mother told us that we should buy real flowers in bulk online and just do the arrangements ourselves. (that's what they did at her daughters wedding) I love the idea, especially since we aren't doing that many decorations. My fiancee is afraid real flowers will be too much work since we have to care for them overnight. My question is, for those who did their own flowers, how do I know how much to order? Whether I go with silk or real I don't want to overbuy. I do have a floral book that I'm getting ideas from. Also, If it ends up being easier can I mixed silk flowers with real, or is that tacky? The bouquets and stuff will be real. Any advice would be a great help!
I'm doing my own flowers, need advice...?
I only wish I had $5000 to spend on MY wedding! I'm planning an outdoor wedding for May '07 and have done all my own florals with silks. I wouldn't mix fresh and silks either. Doing your own isn't that hard and will save you alot in the end. I bought my silks from several different places, Hobby Lobby, Michael's, Dollar General and Dollar Tree. Hobby Lobby will usually have their stems on sale one week and their bunches on sale the next, both at half price. They have some beautiful silks to choose from. If you choose to buy on an off week then they always have a coupon you can use to save 40%. I bought my bouquet holder from Hobby Lobby on a week when they had all their wedding stuff for half off. Choose whatever florals you want to use and all you have to do is cut them and begin placing them in the styrofoam holder, then when you're satisfied with the look, finish it off by wrapping coordinating ribbons around the handle and then looping them thru the hole on the end to have some hanging off. You can go to multiple websites online and print off step by step directions on how to do your own, just do a search on how to.
I also made all the corsages and boutineers too, plus decorations to use thruout the wedding. I'm also decorating an arbor with tulle, red heart lights and silk garlands that will coordinate with my bridal flowers.
If I can do it, anyone can! Just have a hot glue gun, wire cutters, some wire, floral tape and a little confidence in yourself!!
Best wishes for beautiful flowers and a happy life!
Reply:I am not sure what your budget is (I have worked with very small before though) there are a few good options for silks. Dont do real because to keep them from wilting you should refrigerate them overnight and that could take alot of room up in your fridge.
Silks have come a LONG way since their conception, and you can get silks now that are almost impossible to tell from the real thing. Just be sure you get good quality.
I know a few silk florists (online) that work with budgets. If you would like their info email me.
EDIT: You can get good quality silks for less than 300, email me and I will help you cut costs if you like (For FREE). You can have a GREAT wedding on a $5000 budget (or less!)
Reply:If there is anyway you can squeeze any money out of your budget for at least your bouquet, I would highly recommend it. You say you have a book you are looking at, then look at the arm bouquets for your attendants. These would be the easiest for a novice. You really should have a florist do these also. You could choose rather inexpensive flowers, with a flashy bow with streamers. The boutonnieres and corsages you could do in silk, in advance. Check with the church about altar flowers. Some require them. I wish I had more time to help you out more,
Reply:If you have never done flower work before it isnt as easy as it looks.
Silk flowers are tacky , in my opinion for a wedding.
If you are really on a tight budget my suggestion is this.For your Bridal bouquet have what is known as an arm bouquet.Simply put a few stems of fresh flowers tied with ribbon. They can be kept over night in a vase of water, they dont need to be refridgerated if kept cool.same with your bridesmaids.
Bouts. and coursages have made by a florist.They can be kept in the fridge over night. Limit who gets them.
Buying flowers online that are mailed can be a huge mistake if you have never dealt with the company before.Your flowers may be damaged or your shipment late.
If you have a Costco in your area they sell mixed bouquets of flowers in the store they now also sell wedding packages online.The people that provide this service are usually wholsale growers in your area. Look at their packages online.
You can also pre order flowers from the store in some areas talk to the manager.
Reply:I wouldn't mix real and silk. Not in the same bouquet, at least. You could give your maid/matron of honor a real bouquet, and give the rest of your girls silk, though. As far as overordering, if you find silks online or whatever that you like, buy just one or 2 bushes. Chances are you local WalMart/Hobby Lobby/Michael's has the same thing for half the price. Also, I know that MOST Hobby Lobby stores have someone who designs silk bouquets. Not sure on pricing, but if you have one near you it might be worth the time to check it out. You could also google silk wedding bouquets. Most places where you order the full bouquets you can pick the type/color of flower to be used.
Reply:For decoration I only use artificial flowers, life flowers are only for bouquet boutonniere etc. sometimes people use real flower for centerpieces, which is OK and usually doesn't cost as much. Sure if you can do your own arrangement to look like the ones you see in the magazine, feel free to do so.
Yes my florist did say it is a lot of work to keep your flowers fresh for the event and it will cost you utility bills too I think, because you might not have time to arrange the flowers the day before the wedding right? means you will buy them 2 or 3 days prior then arrange them then store them with the right temperature etc..
I'm doing my own flowers, need advice...?
I only wish I had $5000 to spend on MY wedding! I'm planning an outdoor wedding for May '07 and have done all my own florals with silks. I wouldn't mix fresh and silks either. Doing your own isn't that hard and will save you alot in the end. I bought my silks from several different places, Hobby Lobby, Michael's, Dollar General and Dollar Tree. Hobby Lobby will usually have their stems on sale one week and their bunches on sale the next, both at half price. They have some beautiful silks to choose from. If you choose to buy on an off week then they always have a coupon you can use to save 40%. I bought my bouquet holder from Hobby Lobby on a week when they had all their wedding stuff for half off. Choose whatever florals you want to use and all you have to do is cut them and begin placing them in the styrofoam holder, then when you're satisfied with the look, finish it off by wrapping coordinating ribbons around the handle and then looping them thru the hole on the end to have some hanging off. You can go to multiple websites online and print off step by step directions on how to do your own, just do a search on how to.
I also made all the corsages and boutineers too, plus decorations to use thruout the wedding. I'm also decorating an arbor with tulle, red heart lights and silk garlands that will coordinate with my bridal flowers.
If I can do it, anyone can! Just have a hot glue gun, wire cutters, some wire, floral tape and a little confidence in yourself!!
Best wishes for beautiful flowers and a happy life!
Reply:I am not sure what your budget is (I have worked with very small before though) there are a few good options for silks. Dont do real because to keep them from wilting you should refrigerate them overnight and that could take alot of room up in your fridge.
Silks have come a LONG way since their conception, and you can get silks now that are almost impossible to tell from the real thing. Just be sure you get good quality.
I know a few silk florists (online) that work with budgets. If you would like their info email me.
EDIT: You can get good quality silks for less than 300, email me and I will help you cut costs if you like (For FREE). You can have a GREAT wedding on a $5000 budget (or less!)
Reply:If there is anyway you can squeeze any money out of your budget for at least your bouquet, I would highly recommend it. You say you have a book you are looking at, then look at the arm bouquets for your attendants. These would be the easiest for a novice. You really should have a florist do these also. You could choose rather inexpensive flowers, with a flashy bow with streamers. The boutonnieres and corsages you could do in silk, in advance. Check with the church about altar flowers. Some require them. I wish I had more time to help you out more,
Reply:If you have never done flower work before it isnt as easy as it looks.
Silk flowers are tacky , in my opinion for a wedding.
If you are really on a tight budget my suggestion is this.For your Bridal bouquet have what is known as an arm bouquet.Simply put a few stems of fresh flowers tied with ribbon. They can be kept over night in a vase of water, they dont need to be refridgerated if kept cool.same with your bridesmaids.
Bouts. and coursages have made by a florist.They can be kept in the fridge over night. Limit who gets them.
Buying flowers online that are mailed can be a huge mistake if you have never dealt with the company before.Your flowers may be damaged or your shipment late.
If you have a Costco in your area they sell mixed bouquets of flowers in the store they now also sell wedding packages online.The people that provide this service are usually wholsale growers in your area. Look at their packages online.
You can also pre order flowers from the store in some areas talk to the manager.
Reply:I wouldn't mix real and silk. Not in the same bouquet, at least. You could give your maid/matron of honor a real bouquet, and give the rest of your girls silk, though. As far as overordering, if you find silks online or whatever that you like, buy just one or 2 bushes. Chances are you local WalMart/Hobby Lobby/Michael's has the same thing for half the price. Also, I know that MOST Hobby Lobby stores have someone who designs silk bouquets. Not sure on pricing, but if you have one near you it might be worth the time to check it out. You could also google silk wedding bouquets. Most places where you order the full bouquets you can pick the type/color of flower to be used.
Reply:For decoration I only use artificial flowers, life flowers are only for bouquet boutonniere etc. sometimes people use real flower for centerpieces, which is OK and usually doesn't cost as much. Sure if you can do your own arrangement to look like the ones you see in the magazine, feel free to do so.
Yes my florist did say it is a lot of work to keep your flowers fresh for the event and it will cost you utility bills too I think, because you might not have time to arrange the flowers the day before the wedding right? means you will buy them 2 or 3 days prior then arrange them then store them with the right temperature etc..
One single rose?
what do u all think about bridesmaids carrying one single rose? has anyone done that? how did it work out? and would you get the rose from a florist or just buy it the day of the wedding at a grocery store? i cannot afford three bouquets.
One single rose?
i asked this same thing two weeks ago the exzact question exsept i had 7 bridesmaids and yes ppl have done it it can look breath taking it's way cheaper to go to wal-mart and buy your roses and ribben there then have a florist do it. i asked the florist. heres a you tube vid with instructions
http://youtube.com/watch?v=xPq-8bbOsKo
also i ened up getting daisys my bouquet was 35 dollars each girls 10 bucks more then i wanted to spend but it was less stressful and the same price it would have been for each girl to have one rose from a florist. as somebody who researched the same thing there you go. hope it helped
Reply:For a bride on a budget flowers could seem expensive but you could do other things like parasols if it is an out door wedding. http://asianideas.com/chum1.html
You could always try a fuller flower like a hydrangea, the price per stem should be similar to a rose. If you want to do the single rose I would just make sure to take off all of the greenery. You could add ribbon but I don't think that would add a lot to it. If you aren't really concerned about the flowers I would suggest going to Costco or Sam's Club for the flowers, a grocery store would be fine too.
Reply:One single rose would be very beautiful, but add a sprig of delicate fern and tie the two together with a simple bow with long ends to make it more professional. You should be able to get the ribbon for the bows at a sewing supply store. The simple things are the most beautiful when it all comes down to it. Have a great day.
Reply:It sounds just fine. A nice ribbon around the stem in your wedding colors would look nice. It is your day and you shouldn't worry about anything but making you and your groom happy. If you want the bridesmaids to have 1 flower or 50 flowers its up to you. I am not sure if you are near a Safeway store, but their roses are beautiful and always 9.99 a dozen.
Reply:i am doing this same thing also, i think it is simple much less expensive and pics i have seen it looks really good, i will have a ivory ribbon around them hanging down a little,
i was going to just go to the supermarket and pick some up but found some really beautiful fake ones you can hardly tell that they are not real
Reply:Sounds beautiful. Maybe also tie a ribbon that matches their dresses around the rose stem. my girls carried candles down the aisle. I decorated a candle holder with some small flowers and ribbons. They carried tall tapered candles down the aisle.
Reply:I will be doing this for my wedding to cut costs!!! And i think its absoulutly BEAUTIFUL. I dont like when the girls walk down and alll you see is a bunch of flowers. It will focus more on the lady than the flowers themselves!! Good luck!
J~
Reply:Some pictures that might help. There are a bunch of examples of one flower for the bouquet. Scroll down.
http://boards.weddingchannel.com/thread....
Reply:It will be unique since not many people will do that which is nice, and also will be beautiful and will show 1 LOVE.
Reply:That sounds nice simple yet pretty! I would go to a grocery store the day of the wedding.
Reply:i'm not doing bouquets. I want them to carry 3-4 lilies. :) Yeah a single rose would be cute. I LOVE that idea!
Reply:i think its different, simple and beautiful!
Reply:That is what my sister did at her wedding. She bought them that day at Sam's. It was pretty and simple. To be honest, no one said anything bad about them...there is no bouquet police :)
sandals church
One single rose?
i asked this same thing two weeks ago the exzact question exsept i had 7 bridesmaids and yes ppl have done it it can look breath taking it's way cheaper to go to wal-mart and buy your roses and ribben there then have a florist do it. i asked the florist. heres a you tube vid with instructions
http://youtube.com/watch?v=xPq-8bbOsKo
also i ened up getting daisys my bouquet was 35 dollars each girls 10 bucks more then i wanted to spend but it was less stressful and the same price it would have been for each girl to have one rose from a florist. as somebody who researched the same thing there you go. hope it helped
Reply:For a bride on a budget flowers could seem expensive but you could do other things like parasols if it is an out door wedding. http://asianideas.com/chum1.html
You could always try a fuller flower like a hydrangea, the price per stem should be similar to a rose. If you want to do the single rose I would just make sure to take off all of the greenery. You could add ribbon but I don't think that would add a lot to it. If you aren't really concerned about the flowers I would suggest going to Costco or Sam's Club for the flowers, a grocery store would be fine too.
Reply:One single rose would be very beautiful, but add a sprig of delicate fern and tie the two together with a simple bow with long ends to make it more professional. You should be able to get the ribbon for the bows at a sewing supply store. The simple things are the most beautiful when it all comes down to it. Have a great day.
Reply:It sounds just fine. A nice ribbon around the stem in your wedding colors would look nice. It is your day and you shouldn't worry about anything but making you and your groom happy. If you want the bridesmaids to have 1 flower or 50 flowers its up to you. I am not sure if you are near a Safeway store, but their roses are beautiful and always 9.99 a dozen.
Reply:i am doing this same thing also, i think it is simple much less expensive and pics i have seen it looks really good, i will have a ivory ribbon around them hanging down a little,
i was going to just go to the supermarket and pick some up but found some really beautiful fake ones you can hardly tell that they are not real
Reply:Sounds beautiful. Maybe also tie a ribbon that matches their dresses around the rose stem. my girls carried candles down the aisle. I decorated a candle holder with some small flowers and ribbons. They carried tall tapered candles down the aisle.
Reply:I will be doing this for my wedding to cut costs!!! And i think its absoulutly BEAUTIFUL. I dont like when the girls walk down and alll you see is a bunch of flowers. It will focus more on the lady than the flowers themselves!! Good luck!
J~
Reply:Some pictures that might help. There are a bunch of examples of one flower for the bouquet. Scroll down.
http://boards.weddingchannel.com/thread....
Reply:It will be unique since not many people will do that which is nice, and also will be beautiful and will show 1 LOVE.
Reply:That sounds nice simple yet pretty! I would go to a grocery store the day of the wedding.
Reply:i'm not doing bouquets. I want them to carry 3-4 lilies. :) Yeah a single rose would be cute. I LOVE that idea!
Reply:i think its different, simple and beautiful!
Reply:That is what my sister did at her wedding. She bought them that day at Sam's. It was pretty and simple. To be honest, no one said anything bad about them...there is no bouquet police :)
sandals church
Question for florists???
My mom is starting a floral business and is doing her first wedding. She needs something to organize all of her samples of color, material, sketches, lists, dates and times, etc.....what do florists typically use.
Question for florists???
There are beautiful bridal photo albums available at stationary
stores and specialty shops. She can affix samples, photos,
names of caterers, decorators and all her sources into this.
A separate book can be kept for each wedding with all the
details and as her business grows, she'll have many sample books for reference and they'll be beautiful enough
to show future clients re floral arrangements, unique places
for weddings, costs, cakes, even available alternative
styles and themes. These can eventually be organized
according to budget so that when someone wants a lower
priced affair, she can show them what's been done before.
Question for florists???
There are beautiful bridal photo albums available at stationary
stores and specialty shops. She can affix samples, photos,
names of caterers, decorators and all her sources into this.
A separate book can be kept for each wedding with all the
details and as her business grows, she'll have many sample books for reference and they'll be beautiful enough
to show future clients re floral arrangements, unique places
for weddings, costs, cakes, even available alternative
styles and themes. These can eventually be organized
according to budget so that when someone wants a lower
priced affair, she can show them what's been done before.
Calling all Brides #2-ordering fresh bouquets from the Internet?
Okay, so most of you would not want to take the risk of ordering your flowers online due to the fear of damage in shipping. BUT! What if they arrived with a spill proof water supply attached and contained in a temp. regulated container? And to furthermore rest your worries, what if the business offered to replace the bouquet, if damaged in shipping, through another florist in your local area?
Of course shipping time would have to coordinate with your wedding time. If you get married at 8am on Saturday morning, your bouquet would be scheduled to arrive on Friday afternoon. Since some flowers are just to delicate to ship at all, the bouquete styles to choose from would containe very hardy flowers that have a longer shelf life and have year round availability. This would increase the chances that other florist in your local area would be able to fill the order quickly and easily if something did go wrong and the flowers were damaged.
I really appreciate your input!
Calling all Brides #2-ordering fresh bouquets from the Internet?
Sounds just ok. I mean great if they are damaged they are replaced but thats almost like a "yeah they better be"--I mean if my dress was damaged when I ordered it, they would replace that too. If it happens in shipping that is your responsibility to fix, not some amazing new thing you are doing for customers.
And it actually doesn't address the original problem--most wouldn't order flowers online b/c it might be damanged in shipping. Flowers can be in a temp reguated container and still damaged. If there is a problem, the other florist fixes it. Well why didn't I order from that florist to begin with? and what if we have different definitions of "damaged". I say 40% of my flowers are wilted and you say The blooms are still on aren't they?
But me personally--I wouldn't order flowers from a florist online b/c I have a theme I am going for. I show the florist pictures of my idea, either from a magazine or whatever. For my wedding, I carried pictures of my dress and my bridesmaid's dress. I had a few ideas but needed some suggestions on how to make that work. I needed that moment of clarity where the florist shares my vision and knows what I want to complete my theme. I like to make eye contact but most importantly I want to have someone to talk to where I know we are on the same pg.
An online florist I have to know exactly what I want so I can order it, how I want it arranged, and pick from the choices. I have no ability to be unique and add something that is particular (my bouquet I added some crystals and pearls that my mother had made into flowers). What if I want it a lil smaller? And lets say this bouquet is a tad too expensive for my tight budget, I can't subsitute in a cheaper flower?
Online florist just seem like a bad idea all around if you actually care about your flowers. Now if you are just roses to snip and use as boutineers--then sure. Or if all you want is a giant sunflower for each table b/c you are going to float it in a bowl of water, sure. But not for my bouquet or my major arrangements.
I want a florist I can bond with--the same way I wanted to make sure my cake baker and my photographer were all on board with exactly what I want. Not a computer form or someone in India who couldn't care less if I was happy or not.
Reply:I still would not risk it.
Getting damaged all %26amp; that is possible, that's why they have that safety net. But do you really want to, on your wedding day, worry about getting ahold of a company %26amp; having them contact a florist to remake your flowers? What if you order flowers that their local florist doesn't keep in stock in the numbers you need or the colors you need or are out of due to another event?
I just find it way too risky. I'm not sure why you like this idea so much (not trying to be rude), but if it has something to do cost check with a local florist first. My florist was fabulous, she's making more expensive items for less for me due to ordering to much. I think you should look into other options before jumping into ordering online.
Reply:If this is something you are considering, I've got some input. #1, some brides will never order from you. #2, brides who have ordered their flowers online probably would order from you. It's ok if it costs a little more, but it should be a lot less than ordering from a florist. It would be kind of like the cream of the crop for online ordering and perhaps even set a new standard. #3, the type of brides who would order from you are probably planning their wedding in a hurry or at the end of the year because that is when most florists are closed (at least around here they are). You might consider some sort of referral links to other reputable online wedding services. You may even be able to help fund the site with reciprocating agreements. But definitely check out the partners before you post. The better their references, the more referrals you may get from their site. #4, set up a booth at every bridal fair you can find. Have them shipped on the same time-schedule you would ship for a wedding and have a laptop so brides could register their email addresses for sales notices.
Well, that's what I got for you now. Good Luck!
Reply:i would not risk online orders for my wedding flowers. It just too stressful for me, and flower is my #1priority to be on time for picture taking on my wedding day morning.
Reply:I would only buy from you if I had other people who have used your service. It would be hard to rely on someone for your wedding who you do not know or have never used. I would also wnat a great price.
Reply:Lots of Bride's have ordered their flowers from on line sites and have had no problems. Make sure that the site you choose is reputable and has positive reviews from other Bride's. All sites have contact numbers so you can call and talk to them. Don't be afraid to ask them the same questions and concerns you asked here on Yahoo.
Of course shipping time would have to coordinate with your wedding time. If you get married at 8am on Saturday morning, your bouquet would be scheduled to arrive on Friday afternoon. Since some flowers are just to delicate to ship at all, the bouquete styles to choose from would containe very hardy flowers that have a longer shelf life and have year round availability. This would increase the chances that other florist in your local area would be able to fill the order quickly and easily if something did go wrong and the flowers were damaged.
I really appreciate your input!
Calling all Brides #2-ordering fresh bouquets from the Internet?
Sounds just ok. I mean great if they are damaged they are replaced but thats almost like a "yeah they better be"--I mean if my dress was damaged when I ordered it, they would replace that too. If it happens in shipping that is your responsibility to fix, not some amazing new thing you are doing for customers.
And it actually doesn't address the original problem--most wouldn't order flowers online b/c it might be damanged in shipping. Flowers can be in a temp reguated container and still damaged. If there is a problem, the other florist fixes it. Well why didn't I order from that florist to begin with? and what if we have different definitions of "damaged". I say 40% of my flowers are wilted and you say The blooms are still on aren't they?
But me personally--I wouldn't order flowers from a florist online b/c I have a theme I am going for. I show the florist pictures of my idea, either from a magazine or whatever. For my wedding, I carried pictures of my dress and my bridesmaid's dress. I had a few ideas but needed some suggestions on how to make that work. I needed that moment of clarity where the florist shares my vision and knows what I want to complete my theme. I like to make eye contact but most importantly I want to have someone to talk to where I know we are on the same pg.
An online florist I have to know exactly what I want so I can order it, how I want it arranged, and pick from the choices. I have no ability to be unique and add something that is particular (my bouquet I added some crystals and pearls that my mother had made into flowers). What if I want it a lil smaller? And lets say this bouquet is a tad too expensive for my tight budget, I can't subsitute in a cheaper flower?
Online florist just seem like a bad idea all around if you actually care about your flowers. Now if you are just roses to snip and use as boutineers--then sure. Or if all you want is a giant sunflower for each table b/c you are going to float it in a bowl of water, sure. But not for my bouquet or my major arrangements.
I want a florist I can bond with--the same way I wanted to make sure my cake baker and my photographer were all on board with exactly what I want. Not a computer form or someone in India who couldn't care less if I was happy or not.
Reply:I still would not risk it.
Getting damaged all %26amp; that is possible, that's why they have that safety net. But do you really want to, on your wedding day, worry about getting ahold of a company %26amp; having them contact a florist to remake your flowers? What if you order flowers that their local florist doesn't keep in stock in the numbers you need or the colors you need or are out of due to another event?
I just find it way too risky. I'm not sure why you like this idea so much (not trying to be rude), but if it has something to do cost check with a local florist first. My florist was fabulous, she's making more expensive items for less for me due to ordering to much. I think you should look into other options before jumping into ordering online.
Reply:If this is something you are considering, I've got some input. #1, some brides will never order from you. #2, brides who have ordered their flowers online probably would order from you. It's ok if it costs a little more, but it should be a lot less than ordering from a florist. It would be kind of like the cream of the crop for online ordering and perhaps even set a new standard. #3, the type of brides who would order from you are probably planning their wedding in a hurry or at the end of the year because that is when most florists are closed (at least around here they are). You might consider some sort of referral links to other reputable online wedding services. You may even be able to help fund the site with reciprocating agreements. But definitely check out the partners before you post. The better their references, the more referrals you may get from their site. #4, set up a booth at every bridal fair you can find. Have them shipped on the same time-schedule you would ship for a wedding and have a laptop so brides could register their email addresses for sales notices.
Well, that's what I got for you now. Good Luck!
Reply:i would not risk online orders for my wedding flowers. It just too stressful for me, and flower is my #1priority to be on time for picture taking on my wedding day morning.
Reply:I would only buy from you if I had other people who have used your service. It would be hard to rely on someone for your wedding who you do not know or have never used. I would also wnat a great price.
Reply:Lots of Bride's have ordered their flowers from on line sites and have had no problems. Make sure that the site you choose is reputable and has positive reviews from other Bride's. All sites have contact numbers so you can call and talk to them. Don't be afraid to ask them the same questions and concerns you asked here on Yahoo.
My inlaws wont return my mothers vase...?
My parents let my inlaws take a flower arrangement from my husband and my wedding, with the agreement that the vase that the flowers were in would be returned to my mother.
She is a florist and needs it for her next wedding. Its been 3 months now, my husband and I asked them to bring it to a family birthday party, but they didn't.
My mother has tried contacting them several times, however they don't respond. My husband isn't on good terms with his parents but at least they answer his phone calls. I think my husband should just give them a call, and let them know that its important that they let her get back the vase. My mother has offered to go get it, even if they want to leave it on the porch. What do you think we should do?
My husband thinks its awkward to ask them for it. I think that since they are ignoring everyone else, and he is the only one who they answer their phone to, its his responsibility.
Suggestions?
My inlaws wont return my mothers vase...?
Your husband needs to be a man and take responsibility. They are his parents and they have your mothers vase, if his call is the only call they pick up, then he needs to call and get the vase back regardless of what terms they're on.
It's not fair that your parents have to suffer because his parents are rude and he's too stingy to call. Make him call and tell him to man up!
Reply:No matter what term your husband is with his family he should be the oen that gone to pick the vase
I have a feeling that soemthing happen to the vase
Reply:your husband should help you. it's probably broken....
Reply:No, it's not his responsibility. It's your mothers, because she let them take it in the first place. Now don't get mad, because there is plenty of blame to go around. It's also both of your fault, for letting so much time pass. If it was so important to get the vase back. Then you should have grabbed your husband, got in the car and gone to get it. Or simply replaced the thing, with a new one. That is if it is not a family heirloom. In which case, go, do not call your in laws,and get the thing and have it over with.
Reply:The agreement was made between your parents and the inlaws. Your parents need to show up at the inlaws house and tell them to hand over the vase or pay for the cost of it. And if they refuse to do so, then take it up in court.
Reply:I think it's kind of sad that you haven't been to his parents in the 3 months that you've been married. It's probably being held hostage.
Stop over with a gift of coffee or a cake, stay for a while to talk, then when it's time to leave say "Oh, by the way I'll save you the trip and take the vase now".
Reply:Send the man. If it's desperate, actually wait on their porch. They'll hafta come out or go in sometime.
Reply:Have you, your mom or your husband drive over and just get the vase. If that doesn't work, call the police and they can escort you over to get the darned thing. And then never, never give them anything you expect returned again because man, this is a sad, sad situation. Who cares if there's trauma drama, just go get it.
Reply:You in-laws obviously KNOW your mother wants it back. They simply have no intention of returning it. You husband should call them and plan to go over. He shouldn't mention the vase because that will only make them hide it. When he goes over, right before he leaves, he should just say something like, "Oh! That's so and so's. She says she's doing a wedding next week, so she'll probably need it. I'll return it for you." Then he should pick it up, and walk out. When they make an excuse he can tell them he's going to see your parents the next day and is saving his parents the trouble and your mother the delay. They may be pissed, but since he already isn't on good terms with them, he doesn't have much to lose.
Reply:tell your husband to cowboy up ... get it back
She is a florist and needs it for her next wedding. Its been 3 months now, my husband and I asked them to bring it to a family birthday party, but they didn't.
My mother has tried contacting them several times, however they don't respond. My husband isn't on good terms with his parents but at least they answer his phone calls. I think my husband should just give them a call, and let them know that its important that they let her get back the vase. My mother has offered to go get it, even if they want to leave it on the porch. What do you think we should do?
My husband thinks its awkward to ask them for it. I think that since they are ignoring everyone else, and he is the only one who they answer their phone to, its his responsibility.
Suggestions?
My inlaws wont return my mothers vase...?
Your husband needs to be a man and take responsibility. They are his parents and they have your mothers vase, if his call is the only call they pick up, then he needs to call and get the vase back regardless of what terms they're on.
It's not fair that your parents have to suffer because his parents are rude and he's too stingy to call. Make him call and tell him to man up!
Reply:No matter what term your husband is with his family he should be the oen that gone to pick the vase
I have a feeling that soemthing happen to the vase
Reply:your husband should help you. it's probably broken....
Reply:No, it's not his responsibility. It's your mothers, because she let them take it in the first place. Now don't get mad, because there is plenty of blame to go around. It's also both of your fault, for letting so much time pass. If it was so important to get the vase back. Then you should have grabbed your husband, got in the car and gone to get it. Or simply replaced the thing, with a new one. That is if it is not a family heirloom. In which case, go, do not call your in laws,and get the thing and have it over with.
Reply:The agreement was made between your parents and the inlaws. Your parents need to show up at the inlaws house and tell them to hand over the vase or pay for the cost of it. And if they refuse to do so, then take it up in court.
Reply:I think it's kind of sad that you haven't been to his parents in the 3 months that you've been married. It's probably being held hostage.
Stop over with a gift of coffee or a cake, stay for a while to talk, then when it's time to leave say "Oh, by the way I'll save you the trip and take the vase now".
Reply:Send the man. If it's desperate, actually wait on their porch. They'll hafta come out or go in sometime.
Reply:Have you, your mom or your husband drive over and just get the vase. If that doesn't work, call the police and they can escort you over to get the darned thing. And then never, never give them anything you expect returned again because man, this is a sad, sad situation. Who cares if there's trauma drama, just go get it.
Reply:You in-laws obviously KNOW your mother wants it back. They simply have no intention of returning it. You husband should call them and plan to go over. He shouldn't mention the vase because that will only make them hide it. When he goes over, right before he leaves, he should just say something like, "Oh! That's so and so's. She says she's doing a wedding next week, so she'll probably need it. I'll return it for you." Then he should pick it up, and walk out. When they make an excuse he can tell them he's going to see your parents the next day and is saving his parents the trouble and your mother the delay. They may be pissed, but since he already isn't on good terms with them, he doesn't have much to lose.
Reply:tell your husband to cowboy up ... get it back
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