Monday, May 11, 2009

Planning my wedding that is a year and a half away?

My wedding is not for a year and a half. I'm so excited to be engaged and everything, but i know the planning needs to happen in a timely fashion and it will soon come all together. For now though, what can i do that is "not too soon"? We have already booked the ceremony and reception hall to make sure no one else books the place on the date we want, and we have an appointment at the end of the month for engagement pictures where my fiance propsed, but what else can I do? Plan an Engagment Party? Dress shopping or the girls and I? Favors? Save the Date Magnets? Cakes? Meet with Florists, Photographers, %26amp; DJ's? Please let me know any ideas or help? I'm a first time bride-to-be! :) And TOTALLY excited!!!

Planning my wedding that is a year and a half away?
Congrats to you! It is not too early to choose the sites like you have done, b/c they sometimes go quickly! It is also fine to send out save the dates in the next few months. You do not throw yourself an engagement party; either family or close friends do. But if they do, they may do it any time now. If you have not already booked the photographer for your wedding as well as the engagement pics, you can go ahead %26amp; do that.





I would wait on the dress shopping. Manufacturers come out with new styles %26amp; consequently discontinue some styles twice a year, usually in December and July. You don't want to pick something now, have everyone pay deposits %26amp; get measured, and then have the dress get discontinued! I would wait til about 6 months away for this. Also, you never know which b'maid might gain or lose weight, or decide to get pregnant!
Reply:You can send save the dates now. If a lot of people are from out of town it would be great if you send them out now so they can save up and make sure they can get off for the day.





IMO engagement parties should be hosted and organized by either the bride or grooms parents, NOT the bride and groom.
Reply:I think sending the magnets out 6 months in advance is reasonable- not now though, too soon.





You could order invitations, get all the rentals taken care of...Start looking for your dress especially (some times it takes 3 months to get them in) and the girls dresses. Get ideas for center pieces.
Reply:Booking the venues is great.





Your next step would be to set a budget for this project, if you haven't already. Along with that you need to start working on a guest list--that will probably be narrowed down as space and budget concerns creep up. Divide the guests into groups--those that MUST be invited (immediate family, close friends), those that probably should be invited (more extended family and friends that you see occasionally), and those that you'd like to invite, but if they can't be invited it's not the end of the world (co-workers, distant relatives, etc.).





Start getting ideas on dresses--you have PLENTY of time to shop, but don't dally on it. Take your time, spend time in SEVERAL shops--you don't have to go to David's Bridal and take what they have there--you have the luxury of time to shop around. You might even want to consider having something custom made.





If you know several of your guests will be travelling to your wedding--sending out a save the date would be a good idea. Even though the wedding's a year and 1/2 away--people's schedules do book up.





Congrats and good luck planning! Remember, it's supposed to be fun!
Reply:You are way ahead of the game by already signing your ceremony and reception site. You might want to sign your photographer-since the good ones get booked quick!





Other than that, I'd say, buy a bunch of bridal magazines and peruse theknot.com and just spend the next couple months gathering ideas and solidifying a vision for your special day!!





Congrats! Being engaged is SOOO exciting! Take the planning slow, and remember that it's supposed to be fun. :)
Reply:I completely understand where your coming from!! I was in your shoes a year ago!! I booked the place for ceremony, reception, looked at every thing and prices. Compare shopping in till you find what you want for the price you want. Then when you found what you want book it!!





I have every thing booked but the cake,I haven't ordered invites, oh and the bridesmaid dresses (that has been the hardest thing of all for me). I have 8 months left. I have been planing since Sept 06. The more you do know the less you have to worry about later is my motto.





Look at every magazine you can get your hands on, every web site, and local vendors, bridal shows in your area, Friends weddings, and shop around. Some one else will have what ever it is cheaper, you just have to look.
Reply:congrats, your doing good cause I'm on the same track to but I sign up at the www.perfectweddingguide.com and it gives me lists on the next steps for planning a wedding. And if you haven't found a DJ, photography and also a video I know a website that has 3 service at one company it is called www.thepros.com I found them at a wedding showcase and I just booked to save the date. Yes, you can plan an engagement party, and also look around for dresses and for you and also the bridal party, favors but the save the dates are not sent out until 8-9 months before the wedding I found that information on a wedding planner or etiquette books. If you need more information email me. I hope I'm some help because I'm a first time bride-to-be too!
Reply:Check out theknot.com They have a checklist of all the things you need to do and when to do them. Congratulations!
Reply:First off, do not send your STD magnets until you have all your locations firmly booked. I have seen hundreds of times where brides know the date they WANT and send out the STD's only to find out it changes because of budget or the spot is already booked and have to resend everything!





Basically, you can plan it all now! Have your meetings with several vendors from each category and get your basic quote. Decide on who and what you want. In fact, I think the earlier you can start the better simply because it gives you more time to watch for sales, compare prices, and if it gets too stressful you are able to say "forget the wedding" for a few days and relax with your fiancee.





The only thing you may not be able to do at this point is firmly book anywhere. Most locations will not let you make a reservation more than 12 months in advance but it never hurts to figure out you want X person so you can pounce when that time comes. :)
Reply:Congrats on your engagement! This is a really exciting time.


It looks like you have booked the most important things (date, venue).


I would get one of those checklists and go from there. You still have awhile to plan to make it all perfecto! :) Yay!
Reply:theknot.com with help you with what you need to do at one time. It is never too early to compile a guestlist- and you can even send out save the date cards. I think engagement parties are tacky- but that is just my opinion. If you want to do one, now would be the time to plan it. Congratulations and best of luck!

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Why is my florist afraid to work with these flowers?

At the end of July, my wedding arrives. I'm not a 'Bridezilla" although I ve been through three planners, 2 photographers, and now possibly, at the last moment a new Floral decorator...Why?...Because, after quite a bit of research, I settled on a designer who i thought would easily meet my expectations...I decicided on varied height centerpieces, using a array of summer blooms such as dahlias, Cockscomb, Peonies, Hydrangea, viburnum, asiatic Lilies, Garden Roses, and anything else that may be available the week of my party. The colrs are a mix of all shades of pink, orange, peach, butter yellow and chartreuse...But now my 'Hero" informs me that due to poor crops around the world recently he will have a difficult time procurring these types of blooms, in these colors...(However, he CAN get the flowers I prefer in shades of Lavender, Cinammon, Chocolate,Celedon and Hot pink) Interesting, these are the exact colors (minus the pink) that both he and my Fiancee suggested. What to do?

Why is my florist afraid to work with these flowers?
Well umm you sound a little like a bridezilla it is your fiancee's wedding too he should get some say, besides it is just flowers trust me nobody is going to care what everything looks like i guarantee they will not even remember what color flowers you had, they are there simply to get fed their dollars worth of whatever gift they bought you and leave.
Reply:Perhaps you are asking the wrong question. From what you've said it seems there is a lack of the colors you want or is it the florist prefers the colors your future husband likes? For me, your question isn't clear. You imply that you are extremely particular, why would you "hero" lie to you? I suggest that you call the local floral warehouse and ask exactly what flowers might be available during your wedding week. If a warehouse is not available to you, call several local florists and ask the same question.
Reply:Call around and see if other florist tell you the same thing...if they do, then he is being truthful, if not...dump him and go with someone else....hopefully this is the only wedding you will have...it should be perfect.
Reply:As you guessed , he's probably lying . Why? - ???? The Viburnum %26amp; Peonies area stretch at the end of July , %26amp; they %26amp; Hydrangea don't hold up well in the usual July heat .Also become more expensive out of season .(What your fiancee is worried about?) Might be what he's worried about . If you are OK with that ( should hold up for the wedding itself - more than that - ???) let him know. Dahlias, lilies, %26amp; cockscomb , are most readily available in a mix , so the rest of it sounds like bs. Good Luck
Reply:How about Mums. They could fill in the colors the other plants would be missing? Also, consider flowers that could be 'dipped' in edged dye.


Need wedding etiquette advice! I have recently interviewed several vendors for my wedding?

And I want to inform some of vendors (i.e. wedding coordinators, caterers, DJ's, florists, and photographers) I will not be using their company for my upcoming event but thank you for your time... You know? Is there a polite way to word it?

Need wedding etiquette advice! I have recently interviewed several vendors for my wedding?
That's pretty acceptible. You could send them a note or tell them on the phone exactly what you said. After reviewing all the vendors and what they have to offer, we have decided to go with another vendor. Thank them for the time they gave to go over their services with you.
Reply:I would send a form email/letter with something to the tune of the following:





Dear [vendor]:





Thank you so much for the time and work that you have recently put into answering all of my and my fiance's questions and concerns regarding our upcoming wedding event.





I've researched several other companies, and have chosen to go with another company that better fit our personal style and tastes. We will continue to keep you in mind for any other upcoming occasions, and will recommend you to our friends and family members whose tastes are more in your particular arena.





Thank you once again!





Sincerely,





XXXXXX
Reply:The vendors already know that you may or may not accept their bid, and have nothing to gain from being told "no" except maybe a "warm fuzzy feeling" that you'd take the trouble to send them a thank you note. However, this is business, and it's about MONEY, not feelings.





If you take the trouble to explain WHY you chose the other vendor or WHY you didn't choose them -- then THAT is helpful. True, some folks are bad as criticism and will just be resentful, rather than seeing this as an opportunity to improve their presentation, selection, whatever. But every good business person would want to know WHY they didn't get your business.





Dear Florist, thank you for your time. I chosen your competitor because his shop is clean and neat while yours is dirty and disorganized. Yours truly, Bride





Dear Caterer, thank you for the sampling. The food was delicious but I've chosen a vendor who offers plain comfort food rather your own fancy dishes. Yours truly, Bride





Dear Bakery, thank you for the cupcakes, they were scruptious. I've chosen another bakery because they will deliver the cake to the reception hall at a convenient time and lend me a cake stand and serving tools. ... you get the idea.
Reply:Thank you very much for the information regarding your services. I have however decided to employ the services of another company for my upcoming wedding. I will keep your company in mind should the need arise.


Thank you.


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Reply:Thank you very much for the information regarding your services. However, I have decided to employ the services of another company for my upcoming wedding. I will keep your company in mind should the need arise.


Thanks again,


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Reply:You don't have to do this, vendors don't expect everyone who interviews them to hire them. That being said, it's a nice gesture. You could buy some plain note cards and hand write in them that you enjoyed meeting them and that that are a great business, but you have decided to go somewhere else. Thank them for their time.
Reply:the way u said it was fine to me.


Do you have to tip wedding suppliers?

I am getting married in 18 months and read in a wedding book that you have to tip your wedding suppliers (ie- caterers, DJ/Entertainment, florist etc ..).


Is this really so? I am just wondering as you are paying them a substantial amount of money already and if you are really expected to tip an extra 10% it seems quite unfair.

Do you have to tip wedding suppliers?
you do not have to tip here in england , im a hotel manager and moc and wait on at many many weddings, rarely do we get a tip, even to split betwween our staff. you pay for a service so there isnt any nessesity to tip, if i chose to tip it would only be the service staff, most certainly not, photographers or djs etc
Reply:Go to the registry office then spend all the tips on getting pissed
Reply:we didnt the only person we tipped was a lady who served us our meals and was reallykind and went out of her way. I hate tipping others.
Reply:Generally it is appropriate to tip anyone in the service industry. Just like you would tip a waitress at a restaurant even though you are already paying for the meal.





I have worked for a DJ in the past and you'd be suprised what even a 10% tip can help pay for. Its not necissarily just money in his pocket. DJ's have to own the rights to the music they play. They can not just download from free share servers like many of us. The FEE they charge is generally covering their travel, set up, and time expenses. The DJ I worked for used his tips on ITunes for new popular music.





Similar concepts apply to florists and caterers
Reply:i would think it's appropriate.





I mean, you tip your hair dresser don't you for that $125 haircut %26amp; color, right? And you tip your waiter at the restaurant you spend who knows how much money, right??





These people ARE offering a service after all, and a tip is just your way of saying thank you for a job well done.
Reply:Get your advice from Miss Manners or Emily Post, not from creatures of The Wedding Industry. The latter is based not on what is traditional or correct, but on what is most advantageous to their sponsors -- people like florists, caterers, dressmakers, etc.





The idea of tipping the florist is on a level with seeking out the restaurant owner and tipping HIM (or HER), rather than tipping your server. If some particular EMPLOYEE of the caterer, florist, etc, has really done an outstanding job, then tip that individual. The business owners are already charging a handsome fee for their services and are not tipped. The proper way to give a business owner recognition for excellent service is with a testimonial letter, with recommending the business to your friends, and with repeat business.





NOTE: There are some exceptions to this general rule. If the business is very small and the owner is also the waiter, the hairdresser, the delivery driver, etc -- THEN you may tip the owner just as you would a non-owner performing the same job.
Reply:nope no tipping ... most of these people own the business and as the owner they set there prices and don't have to share it with anyone unless they choose to have an assistant
Reply:This world is getting tip happy. The caterer,florist,entertainment etc are all getting paid handsomely for giving you their services. I would not tip them.Its bad enough that we are supposed to tip waitresses and waiters, coffee shop people,and everyone on a cruise,but for a wedding is just ridiculous.
Reply:This is called wedding reality . . and yes, you will have to give a gratuity or a tip to many of your service providers.





As a general rule, you tip only service people, not properietors. For example: if you hired the photographer, who is the owner and sole employee, then you do not tip; if they work for a photography company, then you do tip.





Many of the grautities are built into the contract, you don't have a choice, it's part of the fee or bill. And the gratuity percentage will be stated 15% . . 18% . . 20%.





Gratuities that are usually (but not always) covered by a contract . .





Waitstaff (servers, waiters, waitresses)


Wedding day transportation (drivers, chauffeurs)


Banquet manager


Maitre d'


Bar tenders


Powder room attendants


Coat room attendants


Parking attendants


DJ/musicians that are part of a company or band





If someone has gone "above and beyond the call of duty" they deserve a tip.





Doesn't a hairdress/make-up artist who has been asked to get up at 5AM and drive 25 miles deserve a tip?





Answered by: A Certified wedding specialist / A Professional bridal consultant / A Wedding ceremony officiant
Reply:if they do any kind of set up you should... you are paying for their product but service generally gets tipped for... for instance... if you go to a nice restaurant and you pay 39.99 for each of your meals... that is a bit on the high side... so do you tip the waiter??? of course... most service people do not own the company... and surely you have seen the wedding singer... they don't make much money and they are providing you a service...
Reply:My nephew just got married, there was never any question about tipping the dj, pianist or anybody. They quoted a price, and were paid that amount. The brides father even managed to haggle some of the quotes down by a fair bit.
Reply:No way,,,they charge an amount for their services,,,,tipping is getting out of order,,,,you don`t tip the check out girl at the supermarket so why wedding suppliers?


Help! does anyone know a good and afordable florist in Houston?

Also, what's the average cost for a florist in a wedding??

Help! does anyone know a good and afordable florist in Houston?
The average cost is about $1100.You might wanna try Kimmy's Kreations which is located in Pearland,Tx.Heres her #:832)425-2638.She has beautiful flowers.I'm getting married im still looking around for a florist,but so far I'm most interested going with her.Congrats.
Reply:Try calling flowers by Lois. She is an amazing florist. Her number is 281-444-1851. She has such creative ideas, she did my nieces wedding last April and we get glowing reviews from anyone who sees pictures of the flowers. She had a lot of flowers and it was about $1000.

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What are some good questions to ask when looking at potential florists and photographers for my wedding?

For the florist - get several quotes with similar packages - make SURE you find out if the flowers you want are available at the time of the year you are getting married. As an example, I had my heart set on calla lillies, chose them for the front of our invitations, just assumed I could have them. However, no one could 'guarantee' to get them for our July wedding, so of course we went for other flowers. Also, make sure they are put together as late as possible before the wedding - ours were literally done that morning before our 2 p.m. ceremony.


For photography, really consider not having professional photography - honestly, it's a HUGE budget item, and often a friend or family member can do it good enough. However, if you choose to go with a professional, be very careful with the contract and what is included - time available, whether for studio only and how much is it if you want him to go to another location, and some charge more for going outside; what block of time is needed; how long it takes the proofs to get back, etc. Check with the BBB in your city, and get referrals. From the photographer, don't only go with his portfolio or what is displayed, ask for references and call those couples.

What are some good questions to ask when looking at potential florists and photographers for my wedding?
http://www.theknot.com


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http://www.planningaweddingtoremember.co...





Have the best questions for potenials.





Good luck!
Reply:Ask about packages, fees, timing (how much time they need to complete the order)


any extra fees?


what packages include?


how payment works? deposit etc.
Reply:With a photographer ask if you get a copy of all the images so you can make your own copies for yourself, friends and family. Some photographers don't do this, or put a water mark through all the images which means you have to go to them for all copies.


Some include this in the package, others charge extra, some make you wait a year, and some never give them up.
Reply:For the Florist





1. What is the florist's design philosophy? Minimal? Traditional? Elegant? Edgy and modern? Florists love explaining their artistic sensibilities -- the styles they love, their favorite flowers, the palettes they adore. Do the florist's views fit with your own ideas?Does the florist's style -- and the overall look of the shop -- match yours? (This is common sense. Go with your gut.)





2. Ask if they have any arrangements that you can see or a profolio of their own work.(Real bouquets and arrangements will give you a better sense of the florist's abilities than photos -- especially photos that aren't of the florist's actual work but show things the florist says he or she can do.)





3. Who will work on your wedding? Make sure the floral designer you're interviewing will actually create the arrangements.





4. What flowers will be in season when your wedding takes place? If your budget is on the small side, ask how you can maximize your options.





5. What are some less expensive alternatives to blooms beyond your price range?





6. What are the hottest floral trends of the moment?





7. Why do they work or not work?





8. What's the most innovative concept the florist has recently brought to a design project?





9. Which flowers are best for your wedding season?





10. If you're marrying in the summertime or winter, what are some hot weather or cold weather no-nos?





11. Has the florist done weddings at your ceremony or reception site before? If so, she may have pictures of arrangements done at your site and will be knowledgeable about what sizes, shapes, and colors work in the space.





12. Will the florist deliver the flowers to your wedding or spend time at the site, setting up and making sure everything is in order? You'll pay more for a full-service florist, but you'll get what you pay for.





13. How many weddings will the florist do on the same day or weekend as yours? You'll want to know that your florist won't be rushed on the day-of.





14. Does the florist offer rental items -- vases, potted plants, arches, trellises, candelabras, urns -- or must you contact a rental company?





15. Does the florist preserve bouquets after weddings? If this is important to you, find out now if he will do so, or if you can be referred to someone who does. You may have to make an appointment before the wedding to ensure that your bouquet can be preserved directly afterward.





FOR THE PHOTGRAPHER





Before you start calling photographers, first decide which visual style suits you. Photographers fall into three general camps: photojournalists, traditional wedding photographers, and those with a balanced bag of tricks. If you loved your sister's nuptial snapshots and most of them are candid black-and-white action shots, you're probably leaning toward a cameraman with a penchant for photojournalism. If you prefer portraits and posed shots, a traditionalist is for you. Ambivalent? Can't agree? Seek out that special mix.








Meet %26amp; Greet





Start compiling a list of candidates by flipping through the wedding albums of any friends or family who have recently gotten married. Other sources include experts you've been working with on other aspects of your wedding (wedding coordinator, caterers, etc.) and bridal shows, where you can meet photographers in person and view their work.Don't underestimate the importance of liking, if not bonding, with your photographer.











Rub the Right Way





Don't underestimate the importance of liking, if not bonding, with your photographer. Some of the best shots of your main event will be those taken behind the scenes, and you need to be comfortable about inviting him or her backstage. This person will also have a lot of contact with your family and friends, and in general be a very visible "guest" at your wedding. To get the best photos, he or she has to be assertive enough to hunt for great moments, cajoling enough to coax relaxed smiles and natural stances from guests, and calm enough to be a positive force. He or she should ask lots of questions and be a good listener. Trust your gut: If anything about him or her rubs you the wrong way, keep looking.








Choose Wisely





Seasoned wedding photographers have what's called a "book," a portfolio of their best work to show potential clients. If a candidate doesn't have one, think twice -- he may be too wet behind the ears or too disorganized for the job. While browsing a book, look for crisp images, thoughtful compositions, and good lighting. Do the more journalistic shots convey a sense of emotion? Do people in the portraits look relaxed? Be sure he or she has pictures from the time of day your wedding will take place.





Don't commit before examining a wedding album the photographer has conceived and created. You should get a sense of the couple's personality and their wedding style as well as who ranks on their VIP list. Ask about his or her philosophy regarding wedding albums -- bonus points for those who talk about every album being unique or how an album should "tell the story of your wedding."








Technical Questions





Does he or she shoot in medium format, digital or only 35mm? If the photographer has only one standard 35mm camera and you want a poster-size portrait, you'll want to find someone who can shoot in medium format (the larger negative retains its crisp image at larger magnifications than 35mm-or "small-format"-film). Make sure he or she brings a backup set of equipment in case of malfunction or other snafu.








Eyeball the Effects





If you have your heart set on special effects -- fish-eye lenses, infrared film, sepia-toned prints, handmade wedding albums -- be sure you see ample examples of the photographer's technique. You don't want your prints to be guinea pigs for his darkroom experimentation. Be sure the resulting look is not overdone (too artsy) or barely there.








Review References





Request two to three references for the two photographers you feel most strongly about. If a photographer is reluctant to give you a list of prior clients, cross him off your list. Ask the references if they would they recommend this person to their best friend. Why or why not? Was the photographer on time, well dressed, and completely professional throughout the event? Did guests have any comments -- negative or positive?








Confirm the Cost





Expect to spend at least $1500 and easily up to $4000 on the photographer. You're paying for the cameraman's time at your wedding, plus all post-production work, such as developing the prints -- by hand and one at a time in a traditional darkroom in some cases -- and assembling an album. Special effects and more time at the event will, of course, cost extra. If you're on a tight budget, ask about the most basic package.








Ask About Online





Sharing photos on the Internet has become the norm. How does your photographer do it? Is he or she partnered with a service like Collages.net (our partner), which can post your wedding album online? A lot of couples like this option because it allows you to share your entire album without carting around your proof book -- and guests and family don't have to go through you to order prints.








Double-Check the Details





Many larger studios have several photographers on staff. Since every professional has a different style, technique, and personality, you need to make sure that the one you interview and "click" with will be the same one to work your wedding. Also, who shoots the event in case of an emergency or illness? Will the photographer have an assistant? How many? How will the photographer and the assistants be dressed?








Write it Down





We know you know this, but we have to say it anyway: Get every detail in writing. Also important: Don't sign anything if a studio claims it has the right to send any staff photographer to your wedding and you feel uneasy about even one person in their stable of photographers; if you sign, that's the one you'll inevitably get.





last but no least





most photographers have a list of specific shots that most couples want and others that most photographers take. ask for a copy that you can look over. if you see a shots that you ahve in mind that are not on the list ask if he can take those shots for you as well. some photographers stick to a certian "list" of poses and shots while others tend to the couples desires as well as the list.
Reply:talk with your friends and see who they used and what they thought. Also your price range
Reply:I don't have it with me but the Emily Post Wedding Planner (4th Edition is the one I saw) has an extensive list of questions to ask almost anyone that you would hire for the wedding broken up in their appropriate section. If you can get a copy from the library or bookstore I'd suggest those.
Reply:Photographer: Ask for package prices, dates available, ask to see a portfolio, ask about deposit and payment plans (never pay full amount up front), ask about specials, and ask for references.


Florist: Ask about pricing, specials for bulk (20+ arrangements, plus bouquets), ask to see samples, ask what are the best flowers (longevity) for the flowers in season during your wedding, ask about payment.





For both you can ask for a proposal of what they can do for you. Shop around, they will fight for your business.
Reply:With the photographer, I don't really know how to ask it, but find out what the photographer's definitions of "subtle" and "appropriate" are, and what he or she will do to BE subtle or appropriate.





My photographer stopped us in the middle of the aisle to take the "walking out of the church" photo, causing a back-up of bridesmaids and groomsmen with my husband and I. Also, she pushed someone out of the way and had us stop to pose to get the shot of us about to drive off.
Reply:Ask about available packages and their cost. Professional should be able to provide you with at least a general checklist to consult.





Request to see some examples of their work.





Ask for references you can call. These are people who can tell you a little about how these professionals work. The customers they give you to contact will all be ones who liked the job, so you'll have to read between the lines a bit to get the sort of information you need. What you're looking for here is not just whether he/she shows up on time and prepared, but how your personalities will mesh.





Don't hire anyone without a clear contract that you have read over completely and understand. You should receive a copy of said contract, as well. Keep it safe. This is your legal protection if the vendor doesn't come through. This is also the vendor's legal protection in case you break the contract in some way. Know both the rights and obligations of both parties before you sign.





If the vendor tries to steer you toward one thing or away from something that's important to you, listen carefully, but be prepared to stand up for what you want. How does this person put any advice? Did the florist say orchids would be more expensive, or did she say you can only use roses because orchids just don't work? Did the photographer say you might want to consider taking the formal portraits before the ceremony, or did he say he won't take them after? Find someone who is willing to suggest options, but isn't trying to force you to make the decisions they like best.





If you come away from the meeting uncomfortable, don't hire that person. You won't like them any better come the wedding day, and that will only add to your stress.
Reply:how long have you been in business, can I see some of your work, do you have a lot of business that time of year (referring to your wedding), how do you feel about filling unusual requests, what do you like about the business? these are just a few. As for the unusual request question...its not standard but something you might like to know if you want to ask for some funky type of bouquet or different angles and shots for your wedding.
Reply:Florists:


ask them how many other weddings they are doing so you know how much "special" attention you will get.





Ask what flowers are in season and what she reccomends. You can save tons this way.





Also ask if there are any charities or hospitals she is involved with. Sometimes if you let them know that the flowers will be donated after the wedding and that you will credit them with the donation you may get a small discount. For instance the wedding flowers will be given to Presby Hospital by Joe Florist. They get a small addy and it's tax deductible for them.





Photographer:


Make sure that your negatives or hi-resolution proofs are included. Some photographers will charge a little up front and keep the negatives/proofs because they know you can only go through them to get reprints and charge outrageous prices like $40 a sheet!





Ask to see a few complete rolls of film they took from recent weddings. When you look at their book you are seeing the best of the best and you want to make sure you aren't paying for a guy who may only get 10 lucky shots and 790 bad ones.





If you are on a budget see if you can cut out some of the time. Do you really need professional getting ready pics and 4 hours worth of dancing photos?





I personally wouldn't pay for the album. They charge out the butt and it's just as easy for me to get one at the craft store and put pictures in it myself.
Reply:ask to see the photographers portfolio and examples of some of the poses that he/she likes to use. also, you need to make sure they are friendly but discrete. you want someone who can interact effectively with your wedding party, but not draw too much attention away from the ceremonies.





this will give you some good advice on photographers:





http://www.ppmag.com/articles/article.ph...
Reply:What kind of packages do you have and ask to see some examples of their work. Also ask for references to see if the people they serviced enjoyed their services or if they received bad service from them. Ask about the time they will arrive to set up the time they may leave and any other extra fees they may have.


Trying to find out the on-line florist that was used on an Episode of WHOSE WEDDING IS IT ANYWAY?

I think the last brides last name was Vu. She was pregnant and she'd ordered some red %26amp; white bouquets on-line much to the planners dismay. Ep Details (that I can remember): They left the ring bearers suits at the Apt on the wedding day,The reception was at a Vietnamese Restaurant, the bride was pregnant and they announced that they were having a girl at the reception on a big screen.

Trying to find out the on-line florist that was used on an Episode of WHOSE WEDDING IS IT ANYWAY?
I love the show Whose wedding is it anyway! And I know which episode you are talking about, it was just on again this morning. They didn't say on the show which website it was. I don't think they were real flowers were they? But maybe try and she if there is a style website that has the show on it and look for that episode maybe it will say on there.
Reply:I'm not sure if it was the same episode but I saw one where they ordered from Costco. It was called the simply elegant collection. Here is the link





http://www.costco.com/Browse/Productgrou...
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Wedding photographers and florists?

Hi does anyone know of any good but not too expensive wedding photographers and florists? In cork city

Wedding photographers and florists?
try eagle-eye-photography.com or co.uk he travels were ever you want him to for no extra charge great prices for wedding packages and he also films your special day and put them on disc for you check out the website
Reply:go to wedding fayres or try yellow pages
Reply:Where is Cork City?? If we knew where it was we could answer your question.
Reply:Where is "cork city"???


I need help with planning my destination wedding, see details!?

I am getting married in Key West, FL. This is a destination wedding, I live in NY. I flying to Key West in a week to do all the planning, the wedding is a year from now. I am super nervous! I have meetings to look at 2 venues (one which I am leaning more towards) walking the grounds, going over packages, etc. Also to meet with the caterer, florist and the cake maker. I feel like I am leaving something out though. Can anyone offer me some helpful advice on things to follow up on when I go down there to see first hand which I wont be able to do from a distance once I return. All suggestions are greatly appreciated!

I need help with planning my destination wedding, see details!?
If this is your first initial meeting, you may also want to check out local bands/djs and find out if they are playing live during the week you are there. Meet with a photographer (you can see pictures via websites, but you should really know their personality and if it fits with yours). Who will be marrying you? If you can meet with that person as well, it is good to build a relationship, if you can - it will personalize your ceremony more. Have fun!
Reply:What about the officiant? Also, is there a tasting at either of the venues?


See if the hotel offers a room deal for your guests.
Reply:Photographer, videographer and music (band or dj) in addition to officiant, that was already said.





Good luck
Reply:Try aweddingforyou.com. Also go to theknot.com and it will give you all the info you need to plan a destination wedding. You are leaving something out, "the photographer". Very important. Also I would look at more than two venues if I were you. There is alot of competition in Fla. now for destination weddings and maybe that could be a bargaining chip for you price wise. Also where your family will stay if they are invited. That should be booked way in advance. Key West is a gorgeous place as I have been there many times, and you will be surprised how they are catering to destination weddings now. Also your gown should be purchased six months before wedding. dessy.com and alfredangelo.com. Also try tripadvisor.com and then click keywest, florida. Good Luck

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What is the best way to do my own bouquets and also to ensure I have the flowers I need for my wedding?

I am doing my own bouquets and centerpieces for the wedding. I did some trial the other night using flowers bought from the grocery store, and they turned out great; however, my wedding is not until July 4th, and I would like to ensure I can get the inexpensive flowers I need ON THE DATE I need them. I would prefer not to buy from a professional florist when I can spend half the money buying them at the grocery store! Does anybody know any good online retailers that will send undecorated flowers to your home? Or does anybody have any OTHER tips that could be useful? Thank you.

What is the best way to do my own bouquets and also to ensure I have the flowers I need for my wedding?
We went the bulk flower route. It went GREAT!





I'm in Michigan and went through a company called Horrocks. They are a produce store. They even made it so the roses were "left out" and in full bloom. Your grocery store could probably work with a wholesaler and get them delivered. They did make the bouquets. On site delivery was $12 and we spent $700 out the door, this included everything......centerpieces, bouquets, coursages etc. You can email me privately for pix.





I would go locally rather than online. I've had some really bad experiences with some online retailers.
Reply:Why not go to Michael's and get silk flowers for everything you need. You can even do yours in silk and they are georgous. But, if you want, do yours in real. A florist can do a bridal boquet very resonable. Depending on the grocery store is not a good idea as you don't know what they will have in stock or their delivery status to depend on.
Reply:I am also getting married in July (28) and my flowers, center pieces and head table flowers are all completely done. We were trying to think of ways to save money and we deceided to go with silk flowers. We bought them at places like AC Moore %26amp; Walmart. And the best thing about it all is I get to keep them forever. If you choose your flowers wisely you'll never know they are fake. And you can do them now and put them away until the wedding. This worked for me because I have one less thing I needed to worry about. The only flowers I need now are for the gentleman, my mother grandmothers etc. . and I'm getting them for an awesome price at Price Chopper. Good Luck and CONGRADULATIONS on the wedding
Reply:There are wholesalers online who will sell you flowers at a bulk rate, you have to do the arranging yourself though. It is a fraction of the cost. Check out freshroses.com or growersbox.com. Good luck!!
Reply:any craft store like michaels usually has a pretty good selection. they also have books there that you can buy to get other ideas. way to go on making them yourself!
Reply:I just got married in April. I bought all of my flowers from a wholesale florist, and I did all the flowers myself too! I got a great deal for everything. If you have a membership to Costco they do flowers in bulk. You can also google "flowers in bulk" and you can order everything online and they can send it to you the day before the wedding and then you can put it all together yourself. You just need to make sure you have a refrigerator to put all of the flowers in because they can wilt and die if they are too hot... I am sure it will be hot July 4th! :o) Good luck with everything! It is extremely stressful and make sure you have LOTS AND LOTS of help to put all the stuff together... I was doing my girls bouquets at midnight the night before my wedding! Feel free to ask for more helpful tips! I have done every cost saving tip alive! ;o)
Reply:The obvious solution would be fake flowers. You'll save money...And time stressing about getting all those arrangements together by the wedding date.
Reply:I've seen freshroses.com get rave reviews.





I would always check with Better bussines bureau to make sure they don't have complaints against them and then check site like theknot.com where people rate their vendors and can tell your what the experience was like.
Reply:www.flowerbud.com/


www.fiftyroses.com/


www.growersbox.com


www.sommerflowers.com





there are hundreds of places that will deliver you flowers.





You dont want to be doing this the morning of your wedding though. I would suggest ordering about 3 days ahead of time since most of the flowers need time to open a bit. Keep them in a cool dark place with lots of water and arrange them the day before your wedding. They will stay fresh.
Reply:some times silks look as nice as the real ones and you don't have to worry about then being over watered or not watered enough plus once the wedding is over you can keep your bouquet looking as beautiful as the wedding day and silks are tons cheaper.


Press kit for florist?

I have searched and all I can find is press kit info on bands. I am a wedding florist and would like to make a press kit for newspapers and magazines. Would I make them different from each other? But what in the world should I put in it? I really don't know anything about it. Thanks you, who ever helps me the most gets the points.

Press kit for florist?
Press kits are a little passe these days. They're designed to provide information for journalists (not really for the general public). But journalists won't be interested in your press kit unless you've got a really newsworthy story. Read the publications that you are trying to target to determine what kinds of stories they cover. Focus on local community newspapers to start. Magazines that cover weddings have lead times of several months to a year. You'd have a real job ahead of you trying to get a story in one of those.





If you want to do this, hire a publicist to create one for you, or research how to do it. There is a right way and a wrong way to write press releases and create press kits. The last thing you want to do is irritate your local press with self-promotional releases and press kits. They will go right in the circular file!





You can create an online press kit on your website. You'll want to include background information about your business (a backgrounder) which simply describes where you're located, how long you've been in business, number of employees, what services you provide, any awards you have won, any professional organizations to which you belong, and the name of the owner. If you have donated items or provided volunteer hours to the charity (not you, personally, but your business), you can also include that.





High resolution photographs are often in demand. But ask before you send them. You can include them on your website or Flickr page.





Again, you would only issue a press release for something really newsworthy and different. Can you think of wedding articles that just haven't been covered before? What are the trends in wedding floral design? If you're going for feature articles or human interest stories, try sending those in July and August when news is slow.





There are loads of ways you can promote a wedding floral business more effectively. Think creative partnerships, and opt-in e-mail, or even a blog! If you become involved with your local business community and chamber of commerce, you'll probably pick up lots of tips, too. Good luck.
Reply:Hey!/...the best way to advertise your services without spending any money at all is TheLocalIndex.com...you post up images of your service, the products your provide, you as a business owner...whatever you'd like to reach a client base from local people interested in your services. the best thing of all is that big companies like flowers.com arent allowed on the site, so small incredible businesses can showcase their services worry free...I know its bazaar but it includes unlimited access and allows you to do things that sites like craigslist disable! Think about it, how many ppl who go on craigslist seek floral work! other options are CitySearch, Yahoo Local and stuff, but you have to pay for everything and you have limited access to a great profile!





also posting images are a great idea, even if they are just images from Google!





Good Luck creating ure profile!
Reply:A press kit is advertising for something. Customized the kit to your needs and clientelle that you target. Write up a short (brief) outline of your business, medium length one and a full page.





If you are looking to hand out, have printer make a folder, nice heavy lam paper, nice business cards and then out some pictures of the flowers, centerpieces, decorations yu have done in to it.





Yes, they are somewhat different as you are targeting differnt markets,





Example.....in newspaper like new businesses heading (usually done once week)





Shavon Florist recenty opened at their new location on 123 anystreet, in anytown, usa. Shavon Florist is Owned and operated by so and so who has xxxxx experience in the floral industry and has superior training from xxxxxx school. So and so a wedding floral and decoration specialist. If you are planning your wedding, be it a small intimate affair or a large, lavish wedding, or somewhere in between, so and so at Shavon Florist can assist you in make your wedding a memorable moment with timeless flowers. Call (XXX)888-8888 for an appointment or stop by today to discuss your wedding floral and decoration needs. Open Dates and times.





for the medium and long one, fill in with more information in more detail.





For magazines, I would suggest you advise them to cal or stop by for a floral planning kit. You can also then out papers with info on differnt flowers, options, accessories, etc.


Affordable Wedding florists in Snohomish County?

Its for my wedding...any ideas?

Affordable Wedding florists in Snohomish County?
I don't know what you would consider affordable. But I can list some florists that I looked into for my wedding.





Color Your Life 425-744-2000





Stadium Flowers 425-293-0966





Edmonds Florist 425-775-9156





Deb's House of Flowers 425-774-1272





Barbara's Floral 425-353-0644








All those are local to the Lynnwood/Edmonds area.





Good Luck!
Reply:There is a GREAT florist on Everett Mall Drive across the street from the mall. I can't remember the name of the place, but it's on the left side of the road right across the street.





Good luck.
Reply:Where in the world is that???


Which vendors (caterer, planner, florist, photographer, entertainment/DJ/Band) do you tip at your wedding?

Please include type of vendor and percent tip.

Which vendors (caterer, planner, florist, photographer, entertainment/DJ/Band) do you tip at your wedding?
My dad tipped the DJ $50, photographers$50, Limo driver $50, the priest $25 and the alter children $10 a piece (the tip for the priest and alter children was a required minimum) on top of paying $500 for the cathedral, and we were members of the church, to use the church and not be memebers, it was $1500!! You name it, you have to tip it! Weddings are so wonderful but such a rip off!!!
Reply:The caterer has an automatic tip called the gratituity.





You don't tip anyone unless they went above and beyond the call of duty for you.





What happens if the vendor is great to work with during the planning process but on the day of your wedding, they totally screw up and aren't willing to take any responsibility? It has been known to happen on several occasions. Why would you tip someone for bad or mediocre service? That only enforces the idea to them that they can get away with anything.
Reply:All of them... they performed a service for you!
Reply:The caterer does not get tipped. They've added this cost into your final bill already, and it is about 16-20% of the cost of the food. The same is probably true of the bar. However, this might only be true of banquet halls, hotels, and reception sites. If you have hired a caterer that does not come with the reception site, then you should find out if gratuity is in your final bill. If it isn't, be prepared to shell out about 16-20% for a tip.





I did not use a wedding planner, but I have never heard of tipping them. Usually tips are given for a specific service, and the wedding planner does so many different things. Perhaps a small gift? But I'm really not sure. The florist does not get tipped either.





The DJ and band are usually tipped, but they don't have to be. Factor in whether you are paying for them to eat while on the clock and whether they followed your directions and playlists. If you do decide to tip them, then $20 is a good amount. Basically just enough for them to get a drink after a day's work.





The photographer tip is optional. I personally think you should tip the photographer before tipping the DJ. This is because you will still work with the photographer after the wedding (reprints, orders, etc.), but you probably won't see the DJ again. Also, the photographer is working much longer than the DJ is. I tipped $20. We didn't have a videographer, but I would have tipped the same. The amount that you tip the videographer, photographer, and DJ is flexible though, based on what you are comfortable giving.





The limo driver gets a tip, and it is 20%. Many of them factor this into the cost, or tell you that there is a required gratuity of that amount. This is important because when you write the check to the limo company, that goes to the owners of the company. The actual driver just gets his paycheck, so it's nice to give him a little extra directly.





And lastly, do NOT tip the priest or minister. If you would like to make a donation to the church, that's fine. But do not tip them; it's considered unacceptable and uncouth.
Reply:the photographer and the Dj they do most of the work you already paid them but for entertainment for hours on end it is worth an extra 50$ or so
Reply:You usually do not tip any of the vendors. Usually people in such businesses already have their prices high enough for those types of special occasions so that it is not necessary to tip. Although, if you are one who likes to do such than their is no set amount, it depends on how well you think they have done the specific service for you.





~Sabrina Lily~
Reply:depends on if they did a good job
Reply:Read the bill carefully before you tip. Many vendors include the tip in the bill, you don't need to tip them twice. Planners, photographers, caterers, DJ's, bartenders, etc... will all have a final bill there for you to look over. Have plenty of cash and envelopes handy just in case, but don't automatically tip until you see the bill. In addition, you need the final amount to know how much to tip anyway. And don't tip just because you used their services. Tipping is a gift, not a mandatory part of your bill. If the cake was dry, or the flowers were wilted, there is no reason to tip the baker or florist. Also, if the person owns the business, then it's not necessary to tip them. Only tip employees, not a company.


If there is no gratuity in the bill, then here are some general numbers to go by.


http://www.weddinghowto.com/tipping.htm


http://www.ehow.com/how_4632_tip-wedding...

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What would be a good substitute for calla lilies in a wedding?

I've been set on having calla lilies as a big part of my bridal/bridesmaids bouquets and centerpieces. After going to a couple florists this weekend, I realized they are way over my budget. What would be a good fall wedding/orange substitute? My bridesmaid dresses are a "terracotta" color and our colors are light orange, sage green and ivory. We are going for a garden/rustic theme. Any suggestions would be great.

What would be a good substitute for calla lilies in a wedding?
how about roses in orange, light orange, terracotta?


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Or maybe tulips? They are a similar long slender shape...


http://alvinandrachel.weddingannouncer.c...





Or peonies?


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Reply:Well you can choose any flower that you like that naturally growns in white and have it died orange to go in your flower arrangements but if you really wanted calla lilies and they are too expensive then what you could do is just have a few calla lilies in each arrangement along with some other kinds of cheaper flowers of your choosing. That way you can still have some calla lilies like you wanted without breaking your buget.





If you really want some substitutes some flowers that naturally come in orange include orange brunello lilies, orange mokara orchids or regular orange orchids, orange gerberas, tiger lilies or milva roses.
Reply:For a garden/rustic theme I would go with bouquets made up of many different flowers rather than all one. There is a rose called "Leonidas" that that I think would fit with your color scheme, then add light orange gerbera daisies, green hydrangea and hypericum berries and queen ann's lace and ivory spray roses. Adding a few callas to your bouquet would be lovely and make yours stand out.





There are so many options, and your florist can guide you to what would be most economical.





I would suggest searching for "autumn wedding bouquets" and then print out several different pictures, showing the style, the colors you want and take them to a florist. Ask them how they could create something similar but within your budget.
Reply:I don't have a substitute flower idea for you, sorry! But I had a similar experience. My florist said she could include some, but just fewer calla lillies because I really liked them. I am also having blue hydrangeas and sahara roses.





When you find a new flower, maybe she can just include just a few in your bouquets?





Good luck! Your colors and theme sounds beautiful :o)
Reply:Get the flower you want for half the cost. Go buy silk! Some look so real and they are cheaper then real. Then you will be able to keep your bouquet after.


If you dont wantt o do silk then go toa florist for options. Tell then what you want to spend and see what they can offer!
Reply:My daughter used sage green hydrangeas...beautiful. The girls carried those along with white hydrangeas and ferns and baby's breathe. Ask your florist as it may depend on what part of the country you live in. We're in California.
Reply:You could also get come bouquet jewelry/crystals to put into the bouquet to make it sparkle and pretty. Im getting a couple of off ebay, they have alot of different types that you could choose from.
Reply:Tiger lilies or peace lilies.
Reply:Depends what you like of course, but what about those oversized daisies?


Does a wedding coordinator's certificate make a difference?

I live in maui,hawaii and I'm planning on getting into a career in weeding plannng and I would like to know which way would be the best way to get started, get my wedding coordinator's certificate or just look for apprenticeship and/or work with a florist, caterer etc just to get to know more about the business? And if I came to you and ask to be an apprentice would my chances be higher if I had a certificate or would it matter? Pls if possible could people in the business answer me back thank you.

Does a wedding coordinator's certificate make a difference?
The certificate is just validation about the profession you're in. First hand experience is very valuable and also helps you when you do begin to study...you can relate the textbook to experience. Ask a caterer, florist and/or local coordinators if they would mentor you and you serve as an assistant. This way you can determine whether or not this profession is for you. Test the waters first locally and learn about the business as much as you can ...then look into getting certified. I wish you the absolute best!


Is there a website that has examples of contracts between the wedding planner and the bakers, florists, etc.?

Is there a website where I can look up contract examples thatI would use as a wedding planner for my own business? Ones that I would give the florists, caterers, bakers, etc. to sign?

Is there a website that has examples of contracts between the wedding planner and the bakers, florists, etc.?
To be honest I'm not sure of how many vendors would want to enter into a contract wiht the wedding planner. As a florist I develop and eneter into a contract with the bride. i may be in contact with the planner but my legal ties are to the bride.





Try some how to be a wedder planning books they may have some.
Reply:I haven't heard of one, but you may try searching weddingchannel.com or theknot.com. They have helpful information on there.


Where can i find a wedding photographer in south korea - seoul?

I live in seoul , south korea and hoping some expats read this board. I am getting married in march and i need to find a wedding photographer who can speak a little english, having no luck, if anyone can help i'd appreciate it , also if anyone knows of good florist for weddings. THANKS

Where can i find a wedding photographer in south korea - seoul?
you will find some here


http://www.jurgita.com/photographers.php

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What types and colors of flowers did or will you have at your wedding?

I'm a florist and do flowers for weddings, and I just think it's fun to hear about what everyone does for their wedding.

What types and colors of flowers did or will you have at your wedding?
My bridal bouquet is mango calla lilies, and my bridesmaids are carrying circus roses, charlene red roses, red hypericum. Our reception centerpieces are square glass vases with cut limes in the bottom, with large sunflowers, hot pink roses, orange gerbers, green fugi mum, and red gerbers. The color combination in the centerpieces is GORGEOUS!
Reply:When I got married in 1999 I carried 12 off-white roses with light pink tinting in them, they were short stemmed and I had long off-white and pink sheer ribbons tied around them. THey were beautiful. The boutineers were single roses (same colors) with babies breath. I also had flowers on my 3 tier wedding cake, off white roses with the pink tinting and light pink carnations, babies breath, and pearls hanging on the side of the cake. It was gorgeous. I have never seen a cake as pretty as mine. I wore an off white wedding dress and my husband wore a black tuxedo as did our son.
Reply:Our colours were pink, yellow, lilac and light teal. My bouquet was a European handtied bouquet, rather large so I could carry it along my arm when my husband and I walked up the aisle together. It was a variety of flowers - of what I recall there were roses, stargazer lilies, alstromeria, carns, a spider mum, etc. There were long trailing ribbons in the four colours, so it was cool.


The bridesmaids had smaller, similar bouquets, but each had ribbons in her own colour. (The bridesmaids wore the same dress, white with little flowers in the aforementioned colours, so each attendant couple got a 'colour' - for example, the 'pink' couple - the bridesmaid had a wreath of pink flowers in her hair, and pink ribbons trailing from her bouquet. Her groomsman had a pink bowtie and cummerbund.)


The mens' boutonnieres were mini carns. Had three large floral arrangements for the church (later went to the reception site) in a variety of flowers in our colours.


Yes, we went colour mad, but it was beautiful and happy for a July wedding!


p.s. Rebecca T. - your pics are lovely! What beautiful colours, dresses and flowers! Your and your groom make a gorgeous couple!
Reply:i haven't got married yet but i'm with the person who i hope to marry.. for my wedding i would have orchids.. probably in white and pink.. i think they are beautiful but aren't sure how they'd work in a bouquet
Reply:Calla lillies with alstomerias
Reply:My boyfriend and I are not getting married any time soon but we do often discuss what we would like for our wedding. I want to have a black and white wedding with deep red roses and silver accents.
Reply:my colours for my wedding were pink, silver and white. my flowers wer orchids with pnk roses and these small white lillies I'm pretty sure they said they were. my maid of honours flowers were the same minus the orchids. they were expensive, but beautiful.
Reply:My primary color was deep red with all the other complimentary fall colors- brown,copper,gold, and wine. The bridesmaids all wore different style dresses in these different colors yet same fabric. Flowers were wild flowers and herbs from my mothers garden and ditches. We also had a florist "arrange" them and throw in some roses and callas. I wanted it to look very organic and freshly gathered.


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Reply:I had a black and white wedding. For my accent color, my bridemaids carried simple bouquets of red roses. I carried a bouquet of white roses.





We kept to the same theme by using roses throughout the reception hall, etc.
Reply:I am thinking about having deep red and white roses.
Reply:I am getting married next month, and we are having Red Roses, and The deep red looking star-gazers. My boquet will have 9 roses and stargazers, my Bridesmaids will have stargazers only, and our Bouts and crousages will be red roses.
Reply:My colors are apple red, white, and accents of gold. I'm having roses, and stephanotis wrapped in gold ribbon!



Reply:My bouquet was white roses, white spray roses, white stock and stephenotis with the pearls in them. My maid of honor was white roses, pink spray roses and some light blue delphinum. My bridesmaids were pink roses, blue hygrangae, light blue delphinum. The groom had a single white rose, the groomsmen were light blue stephenotis. The mothers were pink roses along with the grandmothers, the dads and grandfather were also pink roses.


The alter arangements were long stem white roses only. 24 in each vase, very simple.


The table arrangements were pink, white and light blue carnations flooting in water bowls over mirrors.
Reply:When I got married the first time I used lavendar roses. My wedding colors were white, lavendar, and silver. I love roses, and esepcially the ones with pretty colors that you don't see all the time
Reply:We had a very tiny family only wedding at a Justice of the Peace, years ago. My fiance and I went in to the florists' to see about flowers.


My fiance asked what was cheapest, so I ended up with 3 carnations in a corsage in pink and white for me, and white carnations for my Mom.





Did not have a maid of honor, and didn't get any flowers for the guys. I don't remember the florist even mentioning them.





I do remember that when Mom was given her corsage, she remarked "funeral flowers." I had not thought of them that way till that moment, but she took all of the joy over the flowers away from me with that remark.
Reply:I'll be married in october and we're looking for flowers to go w our colors still, the main color will be a deep, dark blue. Then we'll have an olivish green and finally a gold very sparsely just to accent the other colors. Maybe you can email me to give some suggestions ( : We were thinking about just white roses or white calla lillies
Reply:I decided that the traditional wedding flowers (roses, calla lillies) were not for me. I'm using dark orange lillies, small gold flowers that look like mums (can't remember the name) and a couple very small dark red flowers (can't remember their name either) It's for a fall wedding, so the bold colors look great.
Reply:my colors were bordeaux (burgundy), gold and ivory. my flowers were green hydrangeas, green hypericum berries, burgundy mini calla lillies, purple tuplips, hand-tied with burgundy ribbon around the stems. the bridesmaids dresses were bordeaux, and they carried green hydrangeas, green hypericum berries, hand-tied with burgundy ribbons. I loved my flowers!!! there were pretty but not too big or complicated, which was good since my dress was a slim A-line/sheath.
Reply:my wedding colors were aqua and silver so we did the flowers springy with pinks, whites, I think the bridesmaids had some yellows..and then lots of greenery





I dont remember much of the bridesmaids..that was my moms thing..but in mine there were lillies, lilacs, roses, and some flowers I dont know





http://www.sunprairiesentryfloral.com/pr... that was the idea of my bouquet but we added more lillies to it and changed the roses to pink and white
Reply:I used silk roses that I bought years ago at Pottery Barn-they were Ivory English roses because I was afraid to use a florist for real flowers. When my sisters got married, their flowers looked horrible, and wilted after the ceremony. Mine, on the other hand, looked gorgeous, and everyone complimented me on my taste.
Reply:2 dozen peach roses for my bouquet. Bridesmaids had white and peach snapdragons (my favorite), peach roses, astromeria and greens.
Reply:my wedding colors were hunter green and white. i have never seen hunter green flowers, so i used white flowers and different shades of pinks
Reply:I will have light purples and pinks and white of course. mayube some coral color too. All fresh and springy colors. :)
Reply:I had an April wedding. I carried orange gerber daisies and everyone else had orange roses. The orange was an awesome contrast to hunter green dresses.
Reply:My boyfriend's mom is a florist, too. We're having calla lilies. Each bridesmaid and I will carry one lily with ribbon up the stem. The guys will wear them, too. Moms will have wrist corsages instead of on their clothes. We haven't decided on centerpieces yet. (Our colors are red, white, and black.)
Reply:White, white and a hint of blue.....Dodgers fan here!
Reply:Getting married in August... my colors are chocolate and pink. I am having white roses, pale pink roses and white hydrangeas all tied with a chocolate colored ribbon.


What flowers are available for a fall wedding?

I have been preparing for a summer wedding all year but now I will not be able to have my wedding until late October, early November 2007 because I can't get my fiance here until then because of visa technicalities. I was wondering what kinds of plants and flowers are available for that time of year? I know florists can get you just about anything but I am working with a smaller budget and was thinking about buying potted plants and flowers from a nursery to add greenery and color. The wedding will be outside so I need some plants to liven up our garden that will be mostly dormant by that time. This has been very last minute news and I have no idea what to do. Any suggestions?

What flowers are available for a fall wedding?
If you're in North America, the California Cut Flower Commission lists product availability for the major fresh cut flowers. I'd use that as a guide, then contact your local florist for the arrangements. Most florists can work with any budget and they would likely be cheaper than buying potted plants out of season. Congratulations and good luck!
Reply:Sometimes you can rent plants. Contact an interior plant design and maintenance business to see if they could supply plants for the wedding. That way you wouldn't have to worry about delivery and pick up.





Something caught my eye...."dormant"...how dormant? My horror would be getting nursery plants only to have them killed by late season cold weather. Plus you have more than enough to worry about with the other wedding plans, don' t take this one on as well.





Go to a florist and talk with them. Could be two nice arrangements ......maybe on pedestals flanking the bride and groom will be sufficient. Be careful with flower selection.....roses are more expensive than carnations and mums. Forget lilies. You can get an idea on flower prices on various web sites for wholesale flowers.





Ribbons and bows elsewhere and maybe something where people enter the garden.......?





Shop around for florists, they vary in their creativity.
Reply:Chrysanthemum. Beautiful and very showy. they came in all colors but the fall colored ones are most beautiful and make wonderful arrangements
Reply:This challenge might actually give you an opportunity to liven up your landscape permanently, or to have your decor do double duty - you could give your potted plants as wedding favors to your guests!





Don't know your location, but some great choices in the Upper Midwest may include Autumn Joy Sedum, Burning Bush, Black-Eyed Susan, Purple Coneflower. Some of these may actually be starting to fade by that late date, but check with a local garden center for more options. Talk to an independent, not a big box, because they'll have more knowledgeable staff.





Once you figure out what to use, reserve plants with a deposit, so you don't have to spend several weeks caring for them before the big day.


Good luck!
Reply:Mums!!!


Magnolia branches w/leaves are SO decorative on arches and on tables as centerpieces. Shine the leaves with baby oil.


Ivy is lovely too. You can work that around anything. Ferns are nice (you can rent those from most nurseries)...and ofcourse roses. Holly branches with the red berries, maybe?


You dont always have to decorate with flowers. You can use fruit in baskets or bowls ....or potpouri...ribbons, bows.... borrow things like statues or pictures on an easel....use your imagination.


I am sure that you and your girlfriends will come up with some awesome ideas....and I am sure that your wedding will be lovely no matter what! Best wishes!
Reply:Where do you live? Where I live there is snow on the ground by late October and we would be decorating with pumpkins, corn stalks, straw bales, dogwood branches and pine branches.





Usually the only potted plants in late autumn are mums, asters, ornamental kale. You may have to buy them earlier though, not likely to be many left in garden stores by late October.





Branches, dried flowers (teasel, cattails, milkweed and other weeds), dried grasses, rose hips, evergreen branches in terra cotta pots or other containers can be interesting and dried "weeds" from natural areas or from your uncut perennials are free. You can spray paint some of the branches and add glitter for colour.
Reply:Flowering Kale or Cabbage is showy and can stand frost. Fall mums are great and so are gourds and pumpkins.
Reply:Besides the usual mums, cone flowers, and sedum, consider inexpensive ornamental grasses. Grasses are a great way to use large amounts of space (like for outdoor events), they coordinate with other styles of flowers beautifully, and can be gotten at any big store (Home Depot, Lowe's), nursery center, or most florist shops. Some of my favorites are Maiden hair grasses, Purple fountain grass, and Zebra grass. Also, don't forget Asparagus ferns, which are light and airy looking, inexpensive, can be found everywhere, and go with everything.





Good luck and God bless!


I am a florist with a problem, I double booked a wedding & misssed one of the events! Now what? Emergency!!?

this was a terrible mistake, i know. i am, undoubtably, going to make this right. i am just at a loss of how to go about this sensitive error. i couldn't feel worse, unless i was the bride. knowing that is why i must try to make it right. please help!

I am a florist with a problem, I double booked a wedding %26amp; misssed one of the events! Now what? Emergency!!?
First I would offer to give back their deposit or anything they have paid already (if you haven't already)





Did they not have any flowers at all, or were they at least able to come up with a bouquet? I know for me the flowers were really important in the wedding pictures because it added that festive feel to the pictures.





Maybe you could just go to the couple and sincerely apologize and offer to do a few arrangements and a bouquet for them for free and then also pay to have a professional photographer take the "Wedding" Pictures.





Another thing you could do maybe would be to write them up some kind of coupon on the computer that tells how much you regret your mistake and offers them a free arrangement every month for a year or more.... Oh...and send an extra special arrangement every year for their Anniversary.





I realize that each of these ideas would cost you money, but I think peace of mind and making the customer happy are worth a little money.





Good luck = )
Reply:The only way I can see you making this up is giving the couple some sort of gift certificate. It will not actually make up for the loss but at least it will be some sort of damage control.





Promise- and deliver- for their next party, anniverary, Christmas, etc... free of charge.





Damage control is expensive!!!
Reply:You might want to get organized so that this does not happen in the future. Then I would just call another florist in the area and have them do one of them.
Reply:has it already happen if so apologize and give them a bouquet of some flowers but if it hasn't happen then maybe you have time to get the flowers there in plenty time I pray for you and merry christmas.
Reply:if it's not too late, you can still catch up with your missed client ortherwise skip town for some years nd come back. if u dont want this, then go and meet with ur missed client and apologise to him. you may not win him bak, but least u have tried to be aplogetic to him.


Im planning a wedding in florissant, any caters, bakers and florist, djs, etc for cheap or do it myself?

I just searched for stuff and way too much came up. They were pretty much confined to TheKnot and OneWed wedding sites. Go register on either of those and I'm sure all you need is there with reviews from brides and brides to be who are using them.

Im planning a wedding in florissant, any caters, bakers and florist, djs, etc for cheap or do it myself?
I suggest visiting wedding directory such as http://www.weddinglenox.com





Unlike most yellow pages, they have price comparison for the vendors (DJ,videographer, florist, and photographer) you can choose.





You can also try their matching system http://www.weddinglenox.com/f-membersign... that will match you up with local vendors. I tried it and have good result as I only recieved responses from vendors according to my request.





One problem I had with my wedding is that it is hard to locate vendors in most website as most likely they group by states and there are too many of them that's too far from me and I have to look at each site to figure out.





The sites I provide above have a easy to use layout to show you pictures, pricing and location in one page plus, you can send out your inquiry for matching vendor to contact you. That save me lots of time to locate the best vendors with the right price.
Reply:try the web site the knot.com they have a lot of great suggestions on planning.

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Who and how much should we tip everyone for a destination package wedding?

We paid a flat fee for everyone who will be there - the minister (who is also co-owner with the wedding coordinator), the musician, the photographer and the videographer - and everyone who won't be there - the baker and the florist. In addition, I paid a per hour charge plus 20% extra of the total coordination fee to the wedding coordinator to have someone come to the hotel to do my hair and makeup. For some extra expenses (additional cake and champagne, florals, etc), I also paid an additional 20% coordination fee of the totals as well. Who should we tip and how much? Should I still tip the minister and wedding coordinator even though I paid some additional coordination fees for some services and not others?





Thanks in advance for your help!

Who and how much should we tip everyone for a destination package wedding?
Well if nothing else... don't tip the wedding coordinator! Why are you paying her an extra 20% of the total coordination fee for every extra service you get, on top of the fee for the service? And if the minister is a co-owner, he is already getting his fee so you don't need to tip him.





I'd just tip the hairdresser and the servers and bartenders. You always need to tip the hairdressers and even at an all-inclusive you want to keep the service staff happy! Just check to see if gratuities are already included, as some all-inclusive resorts truly are that... but still, a wedding is special and above and beyond so you should give them a bit extra :)
Reply:Tipping should be the amount that you feel is necessary to tip. Take into consideration the amount of work they are doing -- did they exceed your expectations, did they go above and beyond what you required, etc.. The baker and the florist do not need tips that they will not be there. If you feel that the baker did an extraordinary job, send a thank you card or drop off a small thank you gift (perhaps a bottle of wine). For the photographer - if he/she does more than you want, and follows your directions, you can shoot them $25 as a tip. I gave mine $50 because she was incredible.





Keep in mind that although you paid them for their services, its always nice to give a little something.
Reply:I would tip the hair and make up person (10- 15%). When you purchase big packaged deals, the gratuities are usually already included.


Anyone know of any good websites to find beautiful wedding floral arrangements?

I'm not talking about weddingchannel.com or theknot.com. I'm looking for actual florist websites that have pictures of wedding centerpiece arrangements and a variety of bouquets. I've done google searches and haven't really found what I'm looking for. Any and all help would be greatly appreciated!!!

Anyone know of any good websites to find beautiful wedding floral arrangements?
Check out this website. On the first page select which state you live in. After that, it will show a list of all florists in that state. After that simply click on any florist and their link to their official website is shown. Click on that and you will see each florists portfolio of pictures, arrangemetns and pricing.





Hope this helps.
Reply:This site has some examples:


http://www.eventfloral.biz/wedding%20cen...
Reply:most local florists you will be utilizing should have photo albums of items they've done. If they don't, I wouldn't bother with them. I actually "accidentally" ran across my bridal bouquet while flipping through a magazine on an airplane. The ad was not for bridal flowers it was for Swarovski Crystals (they had their crystals hanging from a bouquet). I ripped out the page and took it to my floral designer said "scrap my original request, make me this!" (of course I didn't have the Swarovski's but it turned out just exactly like the one I found (with "fake" crystals). Have fun!! Visit lots of area (within 90 mile or so radius) florist shops and spend some time looking at their photos.


I need a florist in Orange County for my wedding, any suggestions?

I suggest visiting http://www.weddinglenox.com or onewed.com





Unlike most yellow pages, they have price comparison for the vendors (DJ,videographer, florist, and photographer) you can choose.





You can also try Weddinglenox matching system http://www.weddinglenox.com/membersignup... that will match you up with local vendors. I tried it and have good result as I only recieved email from vendors according to my request.





One problem I had with my wedding is that it is hard to locate vendors in most website as most likely they group by states and there are too many of them that's too far from me and I have to look at each site to figure out.





The sites I provide above have a easy to use layout to show you pictures, pricing and location in one page plus, you can send out your inquiry for matching vendor to contact you. That save me lots of time to locate the best vendors with the right price.

I need a florist in Orange County for my wedding, any suggestions?
Take a look at www.labridezilla.com which is a spinoff of the Los Angeles local chat boards at the Knot.com
Reply:sry, don't live in orange county
Reply:theres only about 100 orange counties
Reply:There are some really good florists found at the Orange County Wedding Center! Go to www.orangecountyweddingcenter.com and click on vendors, and you will see the florist category! Good luck!
Reply:Bobby's Flower Shack on Vine and Hollywood .. he picks the best daisies from the neighbor's yard.
Reply:check with the local wedding planners, they use only the best... get reccommendations from their clients... as soon as you say the word wedding, the price triples, so dont be shocked!!!


also check with local florists,,, let them know there is a budget,,, (if there is one) and have them show you arrangements before you sign a contract... check with the better business bureau also... make sure who you choose is reputable... good luck!


ps... i did silk flowers for my wedding... although it was small, im the one who can still appreciate my bouquet, i still have it and its beautiful; you can mix fresh and silk to off set the budget... just an idea...


How many flowers should Joanna estimate she needs for this wedding?

Joanne works for a florist. She needs to estimate how many flowers to order for 12 wedding bouqeets. She did similiar bouqets for two weddings in the past. For on she used 72 roses for 5 similar bouets and for the other, she made 16 similar bouqets using 243.





How many flowers should Joanna estimate she needs for this wedding?





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How many flowers should Joanna estimate she needs for this wedding?
The numbers don't quite match, but let's use hte higher ratio to be safe.





243/16 roses per bouquet means 12 bouquets will require


12*243/16 = 183 roses
Reply:Well in the first one she used (72/5) 14.4 roses in each bouquet. in the second wedding she used (243/16) 15.18 roses per bouquet. I would average the 2 previous weddings together (14.4+15.18)/2 to get 14.79 roses.


12 wedding bouquets at 14.79 roses (12x14.79)=177.48,178 roses.
Reply:(243-72)/(16-5) = 15.5


y = 15,5x +b


72= 15.5(5) +B --%26gt; b = -5.5


y = 15.5x- 5.5


y(12) = 15.5*12 -7.5 = 181

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How many flowers should Joanne estimate she needs for this wedding?

Joanne works for a florist. She needs to estimate how many flowers to order for 12 wedding bouqeets. She did similiar bouqets for two weddings in the past. For on she used 72 roses for 5 similar bouets and for the other, she made 16 similar bouqets using 243.





How many flowers should Joanna estimate she needs for this wedding?





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How many flowers should Joanne estimate she needs for this wedding?
Greetings,





assuming a linear relationship between the number of bouquets and the number of flowers





f = mb + c, where m is the slope of the line and c is the intercept





72 = 5m + c


243 = 16m + c





subtracting the two equations gives





171 = 11 m


m = 15.5





72 = 5*15.5 + c, substituting back into the first equation gives


c = 72 - 5*15.5


c = -5.5





f = 15.5b - 5.5, for 12 bouquets


f = 15.5(12) - 5.5


f = 180.5





She would need 181 flowers for 12 bouquets





Regards
Reply:Joanne has more experience that a lot of people. Why can't she figure it out? I would know what I want without her experience. You go with what you want. Simplicity is the key, I think. The plain and simple with a ribbon or etc. would be perfect. It would be elegant. It doesn't have to cost a lot or weigh you down carrying it down the isle to be the right thing.
Reply:72 roses for 5 wedding bouquet.


On the average, 72/5 =12.4 roses for 1 wedding.


In the other situation, 243 roses for 16 weddings.


On the average, 243/16 = 15 %26amp; 3/16 for 1 wedding.


So, based on these 2 numbers, for 12 weddings, she needs anywhere between 144 and 180 roses.


Wedding Flowers Cost??? Help me wedding florists!!!?

How much are wedding flowers going to run me? We're going with real flowers, and her family is taking care of the bouquet. My family is taking care of the decorative flowers at the church and reception.





I know to see a florist soon, but i'm at work and cant make personal calls while i'm on the clock (but I can ask on the internet....shhh!!!)





We're having a small wedding in July, maybe 125-150 attendees. Generally speaking, not going way too elaborate and staying away from cheap, what's about the average price for flowers for that small of a wedding?

Wedding Flowers Cost??? Help me wedding florists!!!?
I know it sounds wicked weird, but Costco! Go onto there website and click around to floral and then weddings. They have bridal packages for AMAZING prices. Plus, I personally have ordered from them online and they have fantastic flowers. Plus they are a worldwide corporation, if someone screws up, go to a local one and raise hell. Its not like a mom-n-pop place that could take the $$ and run.





I have heard that they do a awesome job. Check it out!!





Congrats and Good Luck!!
Reply:Well it depends what you are looking for. If you want to you can ask for artifical flowers that could save money. But if your looking for a nice arrangement that will look good at the wedding you can make the wedding look good yet not too expensive can be several small arrangements that have carnations and simple yet elegant flowers.
Reply:They will probably run you between $500 and $700.
Reply:If you do just bouqets, corasages and bouts and decorate with things like ferns and columns instead of arrangements you can look between 500-700, (mine are 600, lots of bridesmaids tho, it could potentially be a lot less) if you go with lots of arrangements, you are looking at ussually at least 200 each, maybe 150 for smaller ones, you could be lookin at a lot more, average at the florist I worked for that did lots more decorative flowers was around a grand!
Reply:The only flowers we are going to have are the bouquets and boutineers...we are having an outdoor wedding with plenty of flowers and nature around us and the reception hall we are getting is so big that it would cost me a fortune to put flowers in it...I know for our bouquets(roses %26amp; Sweet pea for mine and roses for the other girls)and The boutineers for the guys corsages for parents/grandparents...they are running me about 300.00