Anyone ever have any nightmares or weird dreams about your wedding?

I had a dream last night that I forgot my wedding date and then last min was told I had to get ready. So I was freaking out that I booked everything on the wrong date and my dress wasn't altered!! I was calling the florist and freaked out because she was closed..... I woke myself up in a panic!


Anyone else having any strange dreams?

Anyone ever have any nightmares or weird dreams about your wedding?
I had CRAZY ones!





One ended up being partially true, My aunt/hair stylist for my entire life didn't show up to do my hair for the wedding in my dream and I had to do it myself and my hubby wouldn't leave me alone so I could get ready! I say true because not long after I had that nightmare I found out her son was in a competition in arizona the week of my wedding and it was gonna be CLOSE with them getting back in time, so I had to find someone else to do it! I got that booked, except the lady I booked acted like I was crazy for wanting a practice run (keep in mind this woman had never touched my hair!) so I cancelled her then found someone else, all was good for a month or 2, then she called and cancelled on me b/c she had to go to a hair show! I ended up with my mothers cousin who also does hair and she was soooo great, came and did everyones at the church adn didn't even charge me for mine and my moms! it all worked out in the end but it was a little creepy!





Not all my dreams came true tho, I had a dream that my florsists baby got sick and she dropped all the flowers at my house (not arranged, in buckets) and told me she had to go to the hospital, she couldn't do them! CRAZY! Not to mention about 400 other ones that kept me from sleeping for months before the wedding!
Reply:I've had a few. In one, I was going to someone else's wedding with my fiances family and the day before the bride dicided she didnt want to get married. My future father-in-law, being as thrifty as always decided since my fiance and I were already engaged we should just use all their vendors and such and get married the next day in place of the other couple. To save even more money, he decided my finace and his whole family would sleep in the curch that night instead of getting hotel rooms. They all slept in their own pew that night and I had to go and wake them all up the day of the wedding because there was no outlet for an alarm clock in the sanctuary.





Isnt it funny how you remember little details in yoru dreams?
Reply:i think we all go through that, i think it is the stress of planning a wedding and trying not to forget anything that you need for that day.


i had dreams that i go to the chapel and i didnt have rings or a marriage liceance and that we didnt have our maid of honour and best man because we forgot to tell them that was there role. too funny, it will be fine and everything will pass. no wedding is perfect but it will be great.
Reply:My evil sis in law objected when the preacher asked for them.





It's normal Bubbles, you're stressed out this, and your dreams are your subconscious way of getting out the stress. I would expect to have more and even crazier dreams the closer you get to the wedding. It's just all the subconscious fears you have of what could possibly go wrong. Hang in there, and when you wake up, just remind yourself "it's only a dream."





p.s. how was your weekend with psycho bride? ;-)
Reply:Four weeks before my first daughter was married I woke up terrified. I had dreamt my teeth were extremely buck, it was 2 days before the wedding and I knew there was nothing I could do about it in that short of time. Had the dream for about a week.
Reply:I think your dream simply means that you're a little nervous about making such a big change in your life. You are closing one chapter and starting a brand new, monumental one.





Also, certain elements of your dream are telling you that you only have a limited amount of control over your wedding day. You need to trust the caterer, florist, seamstress, etc and just focus on being the beautiful, beaming bride. I was just as anxious as you before I got married three years ago, and everything came together just fine!
Reply:Nope. Not a one. Then again, I wasn't all that concerned about the wedding. It's one day %26amp; what happens, happens. I was taking more time preparing for my marriage.
Reply:My marriage was a nightmare does that count? You are supposed to be having fun right now not having nightmares. Go to your doctor and ask him to give you something for anxiety.
Reply:I did (got married 7years ago). You are describing classic anxiety dreams. Just keep telling yourself you don't have control over everything. The important part is you and your fiance get married and start the marriage off right.





(BTW- we actually had a tornado warning that evacuated our rehearsal dinner to the basement of the hotel. We actually had a woodsman drop a tree on the power line to the reception hall and dinner was late by 1 hour because they couldn't cook the food. The power came back on 15 minutes after my host and hostess arrived to the reception hall and the hall didn't have a contingency plan to cook us dinner. My host and hostess took care of everything and told us about 30 minutes after we arrived. We received extra appetizers for free to help the guests not be famished. It allowed us to mingle before dinner! The important part worked great- the ceremony! That is all that mattered.)
Reply:what wedding ? oh yea .
Reply:got assasinated right before " U may kiss the bride"
Reply:Yes, I've had one as well. I dreamt that for some reason our families wanted to have the reception first, and my fiance left in the middle. Then, I realized that we had totally missed the time we had scheduled for the church. It also dawned on me that we didn't meet with the pastor like we discussed to do premarriage counselling.








I think it must have to do with nervousness of having it all go perfectly, so the nightmares are quite normal.
Reply:I just had one last night. I dreamed that I still didn't have a dress and the wedding was going on without me. No one would really listen to me when I was freaking out though. They finally got me in the car and tried to take me to David's Bridal to get a dress off the rack. Needless to say, I cried the whole time. That's what I get for watching episodes of Bridezilla right before I go to bed. Last night the one where the groom doesn't show up was on. I think it got me a little nervous.
Reply:oh girl let me tell you! Im getting married on oct. 20th and i had a dream a few nights ago that i seen my maid of honor walking down the aisle and i was crying so hard i was like go back!! no!! and when i got up to say my i do's i had the saddest look on my face while doing some hardcore crying. I dont know why i had that dream lol but it was terrible!
Reply:yeah I had a strange dream that two of my friends where getting married and one of them turned into a bridazilla. And one of the girls was a lord of the rings dork and she had an ork ring. And then I dreamt that I showed up naked to both of their weddings. Crazy Huh? and I had to get my ars waxed in front of everybody.
Reply:I have all my major vendors booked already but still need to take care of the smaller things like decorations, favors, gifts, etc. I had a dream that it was Thursday before my Sat. wedding and I realized I still had not purchased these items. Everyone told me it was OK cuz I could still shop on Firday but I knew I would be too busy with the rehearsal. I was freaking out and everyone thought I should just calm down.